georgieroley
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Hey guys,
Firstly thanks for reading this and hopefully giving me your thoughts and ideas. I appreciate all feedback
A month ago I met a girl who is 3 years older than me (I'm about to go into uni, she's about to leave uni)
We talked for a while, we shared some laughs and we exchanged numbers, then we went our own way home
About 3 days later she texted me asking if I wanted to meet her sometime on the weekend.
I agreed and I took her to a wine bar and we got drunk and had a great time.
The next day I called her and asked her if she wanted to get dinner with me for the week after. She agreed and said she enjoyed my company.
So we got dinner, then we went to my favourite nearby pub. I told her I liked her, and she asked me what I wanted and I said I was looked for a relationship. She said she was surprised to hear me say that (which I found confusing) (also we were both quite tipsy at this point).
Anyway she said I was mature for my age...
And then after 10 minutes she said she liked me too, then she said she wanted to kiss me.
So we kissed...twice
She also said that she didn't intend the first date to actually be a 'date'. Even though she didn't mind it being one... (I'm not sure if this is a problem)
I suggested we go a date that didn't involve drinking and she suggested running.
Before I go into the next date, I need to say that I have important exams coming up and they end in 2 months and I don't have time for a girlfriend or anything, I really need to study....
So the question here is how do I keep her so after my exams I can go for it???
Anyway we went for our run and i brought up the fact that I'll be really occupied over the next couple of months and that if we were to start something, that it would be after my exams...
She said something along the lines of wanting to "keep things open"... (I don't know what that means). I'm not sure if she's worried about this age gap.
Anyway we didn't kiss again but we had a good time.
She called me yesterday to ask how things were so she's kinda staying in touch. Although we haven't been talking much otherwise.
But the main problem is I don't have time to see her or do anything, but I want her in my life.
What can I do in this busy period to keep things afloat? And what should I do once my exams are done? Also, thoughts?
I really like this girl and I want it to work out...
Firstly thanks for reading this and hopefully giving me your thoughts and ideas. I appreciate all feedback
A month ago I met a girl who is 3 years older than me (I'm about to go into uni, she's about to leave uni)
We talked for a while, we shared some laughs and we exchanged numbers, then we went our own way home
About 3 days later she texted me asking if I wanted to meet her sometime on the weekend.
I agreed and I took her to a wine bar and we got drunk and had a great time.
The next day I called her and asked her if she wanted to get dinner with me for the week after. She agreed and said she enjoyed my company.
So we got dinner, then we went to my favourite nearby pub. I told her I liked her, and she asked me what I wanted and I said I was looked for a relationship. She said she was surprised to hear me say that (which I found confusing) (also we were both quite tipsy at this point).
Anyway she said I was mature for my age...
And then after 10 minutes she said she liked me too, then she said she wanted to kiss me.
So we kissed...twice
She also said that she didn't intend the first date to actually be a 'date'. Even though she didn't mind it being one... (I'm not sure if this is a problem)
I suggested we go a date that didn't involve drinking and she suggested running.
Before I go into the next date, I need to say that I have important exams coming up and they end in 2 months and I don't have time for a girlfriend or anything, I really need to study....
So the question here is how do I keep her so after my exams I can go for it???
Anyway we went for our run and i brought up the fact that I'll be really occupied over the next couple of months and that if we were to start something, that it would be after my exams...
She said something along the lines of wanting to "keep things open"... (I don't know what that means). I'm not sure if she's worried about this age gap.
Anyway we didn't kiss again but we had a good time.
She called me yesterday to ask how things were so she's kinda staying in touch. Although we haven't been talking much otherwise.
But the main problem is I don't have time to see her or do anything, but I want her in my life.
What can I do in this busy period to keep things afloat? And what should I do once my exams are done? Also, thoughts?
I really like this girl and I want it to work out...
