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qwattado

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So i used to be an addict i went from smoking to slamming within two months of ever trying the drug. I guess you can say i like to be the best at what i do. Any ways i am now clean sober trying to Balance my life back out... But the way i surrvived became addicting and i have now a very touchy subject to figure out. I went last night this guy was very forceful left brusies asked me tons of questions was trying to make an arrest on me but had no grounds he later during our meet up told me he was working for the dea and if i stopped meeting him he would make my life difficult. So the question i ask is do you think i should cut ties or do you think i should do what he says? Is he dea or just a dangours guy i stopped meeting people and have zero affilation with drugs right now. Can he do anything or no. I refused to except money or drugs from him. What to do what to do
 
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He sounds like a dangerous, sociopath to me. I would completely avoid the fuck. I completely doubt he works for the DEA, and even if he does you would be better off with them just picking you up down the line. It would be safer than just confronting him alone, and you could at least get things in order
 
PetalToTheMetal said:
He sounds like a dangerous, sociopath to me. I would completely avoid the fuck. I completely doubt he works for the DEA, and even if he does you would be better off with them just picking you up down the line. It would be safer than just confronting him alone, and you could at least get things in order
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This is absolutely right....stay away from the guy at all costs! I also think it is highly unlikely that he is DEA, but yeah, stay away regardless of that.
 
He knows where I work I got mixed feelings on it. He has big money drives a super nice expinsive car but I am a little nervous about it. He was trying to get me to say I wanted drugs.... He was either looking for someone else or is a crazy guy who is very dangours I noticed a van leave after we were done but that's probably just a coincidence. I don't have anything for him to bust me on really taking UAE's and doing level one out patient. I am just pretty shook up still he hit me once pretty hard then bounced my head off the door and choked me really hard I am a 105 pounds he was two easy super buff left a few brusies and a really sore neck. And very intimidated
 
Eh they are all wanna be punks no one would really do anything I don't think my dad would if he didn't live out of town that is why I am on here looking for tips on what to do
 
whether or not he is dea doesn't matter, never do what a cop tells you to do. I really doubt someone working for the dea would tell you that without providing a badge or something. Def avoid him and cut all ties. Sounds like some bad business you dont want to get mixed up in.
 
Well, this is a very serious and dangerous situation. I can't say 100%, but now that you have posted details of the abuse, I'm 99.99% sure this guy is a punk himself and NOT DEA or any other type of law enforcement! Have you considered calling a helpline of some sort? There are a lot of them you can find online if you google what kind of help you need. You can remain anonymous and ask for advice from a person who is trained to help.
We're both new here so I don't think we can PM, but if you want help finding a number to call, say so and I'll see what I can find online.
(I'm guessing there's some reason that you don't want to report the abuse to the police since you haven't.)
 
qwattado said:
He knows where I work I got mixed feelings on it. He has big money drives a super nice expinsive car but I am a little nervous about it. He was trying to get me to say I wanted drugs.... He was either looking for someone else or is a crazy guy who is very dangours I noticed a van leave after we were done but that's probably just a coincidence. I don't have anything for him to bust me on really taking UAE's and doing level one out patient. I am just pretty shook up still he hit me once pretty hard then bounced my head off the door and choked me really hard I am a 105 pounds he was two easy super buff left a few brusies and a really sore neck. And very intimidated
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If worse comes to worse, could you talk to your boss about the situation?
 
Nah she would be more annoyed then anything. I guess cutting all ties with him and hoping for the best is all I can do
 
qwattado said:
That would be cool I have no idea who to ask and what to ask for at this point
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I suggest checking out womenshealth.gov for resources in your particular state. If it is relevant to you, you might want to look at the-wellhouse.org. I just say that because you say you 'went out on a call.' Please don't be offended if that is not an appropriate resource for you.
If you don't get someone on the phone who can help you, post again. I'll keep an eye on this thread for a few days.

If it is at all a possibility, I would suggest reporting the beating to the police. That is illegal no matter the circumstances. I think this guy is taking advantage of the fact that you don't know where to go for help. I think he will likely leave you alone as soon as he finds out you have any kind of support.

*When you get someone on the line, just say 'I've been beaten by a man who is still threatening me and I don't know what to do.' I really don't think it matters what helpline you call, you will get someone who can point you in the right direction.
 
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Yeah. I agree. I'd contact the police. This guy is trying to scare you. He should never put his hands on you, EVER!! You said you have meet ups with him and if you stop meeting, he would make your life difficult. Is this meet up sex? He sounds like he's got a self confidence issue and thinks as long as he has power over you, your his for the taking. Girl, get away from him. This sounds like one of those stories that ends in tradegy. Go to the police and file a restraining order. Go stay with your dad for a bit. Get away from him now!!!!!!!!
 
If he's not DEA or police it is illegal to pose as law enforcement. Between that and the bruises I would think you'd be able to get a restraining order if you wanted to go down that route
 
Id secretly get him on recording saying he is DEA and go to the police department or find a lawyer or just something to figure it out. If hes impersonating DEA you will be the least if his problems. Be smart very very smart and once ready make sure you go to someone you trust. Keep is updated or if you wouldnt mind PM me your location if in the states. I have many high ranking cop buddies (ironic since im a druggie, they don't know this.)

If your out if the states or not in NY lol if you wouldn't mind i would love to be updated regardless and talk to you while going through this. If not, no hard feelinfs im just tying to be thete for you.

Stay safe
 
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