thanks, i dont mean to sound like a bitch im just really trying to look into the issue here.... ive slept with my fair share of guys and what ive found by and by large that usually a guy WILL NOT VOLUNTARILY, INSTICTIVELY, or however you want to put it, spend enough time there. do guys not know thats how most chicks get off ???? like im just trying to figure out the cause of why guys act this way is all... does anyone have any theories ?? you could say its because they cant read my mind, which is true, and obvious... but do they literally lack the knowledge at the average age of 25 that women like their clitties touched and licked.... like... cant you guys get what im saying..... isnt it more or less obvious that a woman would like that? i get the impression that guys are kind of "backing down" or "shying away from" that area... is it just me who experiences this with guys im sleeping with for the first few times or does this happen to most women.... in that case if it is true, why do you guys and gals think this is happening ? is it because they are ignorant of the pleasure it could provide, or they just feel stupid doing it, or they think its boring ? and guys and girls, if this hasnt been the case for you, if you have ever met a guy or are a guy who is WILLING and ready to spend a decent amount of time on a new gals clitoris..... how often are you willing to do this with a new or new ish woman, and girls how often does this really happen to you ? and i mean being stimulated clitorally to orgasm BEFORE SEX. .... as a side note im beginning to see that a guy most likely will not provide a girl with an orgasm unless you stop him from having sex with you until he does... do i really have to bogart in this way........ starting to think so, definitely yes. im sorry i dont want to offend anyone, im just highly interested in why these patterns keep repeating themselves.
yes, i may not be being assertive enough. all the same.... i think some initiation from the guys is due, and i dont see any happening.... how would guys feel if we waited for them to put our hands on their dicks ? think about it, and answer that question guys if you like.