I'm not trying to get flamed here, but isn't a discussion such as this one helping in the killing of the rave scene? I mean, I've honestly only been to a handful of raves, but I always went with an open mind and a positive attitude. If you go into something thinking that it's going to be awful, then it'll probably end up that way.
I mean, a few posts back somebody was judging the people at a rave by the clothes that they wear. Is that really what the rave scene is about? I wear polos and khakis, but I have more love in me for my fellow man and woman than most other people I know. And I'm sure as hell not going to judge somebody at a rave because of the type of clothes that they are wearing.
The rave scene is like anything else. When you discover it, it seems like a magical place. The more used to it you get, then the slightest deviation in what you perceive in that scene will piss you off because you aren't comfortable with it. Then you become jaded to that scene/drug/anything because it isn't what it used to be.
If you really want to change things, I suggest you go to a rave and be nice to everyone you see. So what if there is a white kid wearing baggy Fubu pants and an Enyce jacket... maybe he's confused and is trying to fit in. Not showing a person love because you think that they're a prep or a jock or a gangsta isn't part of the PLUR/rave culture, and I think if you're judging someone on looks and not actions than you are the problem with the rave scene.