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What if friends just want to freeload off of some herb?

You don't want to give them any handouts, right? So if someone asks you about it, just act like you're under the assumption they're talking about buying and not being gifted.

If they act all shocked that you wouldn't offer them free bud then they're being assholes, not you... After the gentle let-down if they keep pushing it then you have no need to hold back in your response.
 
if they smoke you out or do you favores (like letting you crash at their place), its not really mooching. Well, maybe it is if they take an eighth, but just consider what they have done for you and evaluate whether they are a true moocher who does nothing for you and just mooches off your generosity.
 
weekend addiction said:
Trust me, if you give in and smoke out freeloaders this will only encourage them to continue in their ways. I will call out a freeloader and you should to.
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Yeah just tell them no. If they have the balls to ask why just tell them they've mooched enough and that they should get their own stuff.
 
sum times ill give ppl nugs for free

like ppl have said close friends n this is a no brainer but with co-workers i wouldnt give em shit unless they had looked out for u in the past in some way shape or form
 
Nasty:
1- 'fuck off'
2- 'no, fuck off'
3- 'no, fuck off it's mine' *brandish knife*

Neutral:
1- Sorry, i'm saving it for another time
2- Sorry, i don't have enough for everyone
3- Hey man, i'm scrounging here alright, man's gotta smoke his own smoke

Nice:
1- yes.
 
ganja god said:
if they smoke you out or do you favores (like letting you crash at their place), its not really mooching. Well, maybe it is if they take an eighth, but just consider what they have done for you and evaluate whether they are a true moocher who does nothing for you and just mooches off your generosity.
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That sounds more like symbiosis than friendship.




Don Quixote said:
Nasty:
1- 'fuck off'
2- 'no, fuck off'
3- 'no, fuck off it's mine' *brandish knife*
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I like what you did there.
 
xtc123 said:
don't do it. they will just become moochers, never give anything for free.
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You must not have many close friends - the gift of giving is sometimes just as fun as smoking itself. I'd rather smoke up 1 or 2 friends of mine who are unable to pay if they are with me than smoke myself. I just wouldn't be giving them huge amounts of ganja for free, just keep them on my level or limit the amount I smoke around them.

I generally would not hang around people who would not do the same for me. This goes for my actual friends though, and not just acquientences, though I do smoke up strangers from time to time just because I find cannabis and the act of smoking to be very social. Usually I get paid back in some way, or enjoy the good Karma.
 
neffyiffy said:
he smoked me out once before though... and the girl that took 1/8 oz of weed from me and more has let me stay over her house before and smoked me out... about 4-5 times...
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neffyiffy said:
we just never really hung out outside of work except for one time that we got high together with tina
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Sorry to say this (I may be wrong) but it sounds if they're just using for bud. You say he smoked with you once yeah but he's never hang out with you outside of work any other time? And that girl who let you stay 'cause you smoked with her, has she let you stay round any other time? Probably not.

Sounds like they're just mooching off ya, sorry bra'.
 
chainer3k said:
You must not have many close friends - the gift of giving is sometimes just as fun as smoking itself. I'd rather smoke up 1 or 2 friends of mine who are unable to pay if they are with me than smoke myself. I just wouldn't be giving them huge amounts of ganja for free, just keep them on my level or limit the amount I smoke around them.

I generally would not hang around people who would not do the same for me. This goes for my actual friends though, and not just acquientences, though I do smoke up strangers from time to time just because I find cannabis and the act of smoking to be very social. Usually I get paid back in some way, or enjoy the good Karma.
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yeah.. I had 1 or 2 friends like that, it turned into them expecting me to chop up because I had more than them..
 
The worst kind of moocher is the guy who hangs in your circle. When you pass your j he's one of the first to try and claim some tokes. My new system involves passing it to someone I wanna pass it too, then back to me. Sick of getting spliffs back with about 6 tokes left...
 
^ you have to eliminate those from your social circle if you can. you shouldn't have to put up with that. it's not nice and to be frank, is a buzz kill.
 
if they disappear when the weed dries up, they were not friends they were leeches. sounds like they have been generous towards you, and an 8th of free bud isn't a whole hell of a lot of weed in a stoners eye. who knows though, if you feel uncomfortable about how much they took from you then don't let them take anymore. there is no rule that you have to blaze out any stoner without weed. only your broke stoner friends, and its your decision who is and who isn't your friend.
 
haha, my entire circle is Wu-Tang rules. Blunts, 3 puffs, pass. If you catch someone taking more then 3, they is high enough and lose a toke around the circle.

If you ain't paying for what being smoked, you get what we give.
 
FREELOADERS. I agree, these are not friends, they're coworkers. Friends are one thing...but this sounds like they are just using you. I wouldn't even let it be known (esp. at work!) that I had a large sum of weed. thats just me
 
i hate that feeling, I usually have a decent amount of bud on me and I get a few texts here and there asking me not to chill, but if they can get some bud off me. That sucks, I had to have a conversation with them about it cause it was pissing me off.

-djstrip
 
I used to deal and constantly had large amounts of all sorts.
It's amazing how 2 of my "closest friends" suddenly didnt want to know me when I stopped selling/having a plentiful supply.

Keep them in check.
 
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