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What have you learnt in the last year?

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Extreme idealism coupled with optimism is often a sign of naieveness. That basically sums up what I learned this year.
[ 11 November 2002: Message edited by: skywise ]
 
^^^^
I'll second that one. But I'll have to learn that lesson all over again next year 'cause I'll never stop being naiive and hopeful; it's part of what makes me me. ;)
I did learn the uselessness of diets, though. I went on one earlier this year, put ON 2kg, went off it, lost it, stayed the same and am much happier and more fun to be around as a result.
Also :) ... a little embarrased by this one ... I learned how to have a proper (read: amazing) orgasm... it's only taken me - fuck - 10 years??
 
don't fear love. you're never to young for it.
drugs suck
you can't change your roots
don't trust girls.
i hate being poor
nothing beats a good home cooked meal.
[ 17 November 2002: Message edited by: hate_the_game ]
 
mmm....
've learned many a thing.
mostly about my priorities in life... florida was the most ridiculous series of events in my life, and now, more than a year past, i'm still feeling the reprocussions both financially and in terms of the restrictions now put on my way of life.
've learned how much i don't need to be doing drugs. as fun as they are, and as much as i like to tell myself that i've learned from my use, they clearly do not need to be a part of my life. drug use has only brought me hardships and problems which last much much longer than the high does.
've learned that eventually, given a long enough time line, everything comes back to you. if there's a consequence to an action, the only way to avoid it is to stop that action... unfortunately that can be easier said than done.
and i've learned to be very thankful for the friends who surround me who are there to catch me when i fall.
hmmm. toodles.
dags, i miss you and aly.
buzzy, hope you and chrissy are well.
;)
bc
 
^^^Hey you. I miss you so much that I can't even attempt to tell you...
Always be smiling sweetheart, you have the most amazing of smiles. And call somebody, will ya? We'll be a lot closer to you soon, and I'm only biding the time till I get to see you again. :)
 
That my fiance is the more important to me than any thing else in this world.
That people who say "you don't have to have money to be happy" have obviously never been without.
Friendships are to often taken for granted, and can easily fade away.
To many people rush through the day.
Those people need to slow down and take time to enjoy life.
To many people assume, instead of checking for the facts.
That moving away from home was harder than I thought.
And that making mistakes is apart of living life.
 
I learned only one thing this year that's worth remembering.
NEVER TRUST ANYONE! They will rip you off, steal from you, lie to you, and maybe even kill you! NEVER NEVER NEVER TRUST ANYONE!
 
1. That I can’t change the world... but I can change the way I see it
2. That a good fight followed by failure is a more meaningful experience then effortless success
3. That just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean that they don’t love you in the best way they can.
4. That there is nothing more valuable then hope and that nothing has as high a price as regret.
5. The value of simplicity
6. That I want to be a ‘good man’
7. That sometimes moving forward means leaving the past behind you.
8. That I’m not as bad as my worst days, and never as good as my best.
9. That honesty, integrity and hard work aren’t fragments of silly catch phases, they the cornerstones of good character.
10. That I am the sum of those I love.
[ 06 December 2002: Message edited by: Dakeva ]
 
*That I'm free
*That I should stay single if not be honest
*That I shouldn't change for anyone but myself
*That Most things in life are humorous
*That when you blame someone else for things you're only moving back in maturity
*When in Rome... :)
*That I don't have to compete
*Sometimes things just don't work out the way you want-to go with the flow
*Positive thinking has a huge impact on my outcome
*That I can change things I don't want to be a part of me
*Creating my very own environment is exactly what I need to do
*How much easier it will be to love a man once I'm completely settled within myself-more attention to him and less on me
*Honesty gives you freedom
*That I want to be a teacher
*That I love to dance
*That I don't have many friends but also don't need many
*Self-Confidence is a sexy sexy thing
 
I've learnt the obvious.......
that the sun will always rise and problems can always be dealt with, not matter how big!
Lemon*
 
I walk, down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in.
I am lost...I am hopeless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place.
But it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in...it's a habit.
My eyes are open
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.
I walk down another street.
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I don't know who wrote this. But its my life every year.
 
Kindness is contagious
You have to grow up at some point, even if its just for a little while
You can die at any time, so make the best of the time you have. (Lost 4 friends in 4 months)
The sun will always come up the next day
 
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