All my life experience says that you are on the right track Trotterz. As to Madness's reference to listening to the "superconscious mind", there is a slight misconception.
One can use their intuition (the ability to teach one's self) to determine if a change is needed. By fixing ones attention on the new goal(conscience mind), one sets the subconscious mind into action. The subconscious mind transfers the wanted pattern onto the superconscience mind which operates to work towards making it a reality. One cannot directly affect either the subconscience or superconscience mind directly as they work above and below our direct consciousness respectively.
This is what the Hermetic sciences refer to when they say "as is above so is below".
Use this to your advantage.