What happened when your partner found your stash? ;)

[GetMeOutOfThisCRAP]

Just wondering for people who use substances and entered relationships. Did you tell your partner or did he/she/they found out by other means? Curious to see if this situation occurred to anyone/and if their partner left them immediately.

 

[Delusional Thomas]

I've always been honest about whatever I do.

But one time my ex was going through my shit and found a random seroquel pill that a friend gave me years earlier. She didn't care about drugs, she was more worried that she moved in with a secret schizophrenic

 

[GetMeOutOfThisCRAP]

Keep hearing about that one. Every person who's mentioned it says to NOT do seroquel, but it's glorified on the streets and in some rap songs lol I do know some people in healthy relationships where one person is indefinitely an addict and it's still worked out long term! Sometimes people's use doesn't hurt their partner whatsoever.

 

[Cheshire_Kat]

Um, if they have a problem with what I do, I don't bother even starting to think about a relationship. Life is too short to have to hide stuff from your S.O.

 

[Delusional Thomas]

Keep hearing about that one. Every person who's mentioned it says to NOT do seroquel, but it's glorified on the streets and in some rap songs lol I do know some people in healthy relationships where one person is indefinitely an addict and it's still worked out long term! Sometimes people's use doesn't hurt their partner whatsoever.

I eventually took half of it and got some really good sleep lol

I've seen people hide drug addiction in relationships. I don't know how their partner never notices... Perhaps they were an addict in the beginning, so they just assume that's their normal personality

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

Every person who's mentioned it says to NOT do seroquel, but it's glorified on the streets and in some rap songs

Trust me that stuff is not good, my ex used to get loads of it & I got into using it while drinking & it is evil.
It really isn't a "high" tbh, it just mongs you out & NOT in a good way.

Just wondering for people who use substances and entered relationships. Did you tell your partner or did he/she/they found out by other means? Curious to see if this situation occurred to anyone/and if their partner left them immediately.

The only two women I was with that I really cared for & loved both ended up going south due to my drug use (heroin mainly but the 2nd one didn't know about RC's before she got with me & she got big time into MXE, she could do a gram in a day.

Lady 1) she had only ever done hash once in her life & I told her from the start I was clean which was a lie & she accepted it. One night we had been out drinking & went back to her moms house. We did our thing etc & we fell to sleep, I woke up early as I was starting to rattle & had a smoke of some smack in the bedroom & ended up on the nod & then fell asleep. Sadly the plate was still on the bed & I was woken up by he punching me in the face & screaming at me I was a fucking junkie etc, she had woken up & seen the gear. She grabbed it, screw it into a ball then threw it out the window. I got dressed really quickly ran out the yard into the garden, grabbed the smack & left. We split up the same day & the real thing I'll never get over was she loved me for some reason, she was a really good woman & I truly loved her sssssooooooo much. She said several times she loved me & I broke her heart that day, she said she would have married me & the guy she ended up with right after me is such a clown. I kick myself over losing her each day I swear to God.

Lady 2) She had a long history of drug use before she got with me but had quit due to having a kid, I also told her about my past but yet again lied I was clean from the smack. at the time we got together MXE was still legal over here & I was doing loads, she ended up getting into MXE with me & also 6-APB. She also tried heroin with me many times but didn't get a habit but she liked smack sssssooooo much. Our drug use got way out of control sadly & we ended up splitting up due to me not getting sober. She was no great loss really but my God she was a good fuck, she was really game for anal daily & all kinds of good stuff.

 

[GetMeOutOfThisCRAP]

Trust me that stuff is not good, my ex used to get loads of it & I got into using it while drinking & it is evil.
It really isn't a "high" tbh, it just mongs you out & NOT in a good way.




The only two women I was with that I really cared for & loved both ended up going south due to my drug use (heroin mainly but the 2nd one didn't know about RC's before she got with me & she got big time into MXE, she could do a gram in a day.

Lady 1) she had only ever done hash once in her life & I told her from the start I was clean which was a lie & she accepted it. One night we had been out drinking & went back to her moms house. We did our thing etc & we fell to sleep, I woke up early as I was starting to rattle & had a smoke of some smack in the bedroom & ended up on the nod & then fell asleep. Sadly the plate was still on the bed & I was woken up by he punching me in the face & screaming at me I was a fucking junkie etc, she had woken up & seen the gear. She grabbed it, screw it into a ball then threw it out the window. I got dressed really quickly ran out the yard into the garden, grabbed the smack & left. We split up the same day & the real thing I'll never get over was she loved me for some reason, she was a really good woman & I truly loved her sssssooooooo much. She said several times she loved me & I broke her heart that day, she said she would have married me & the guy she ended up with right after me is such a clown. I kick myself over losing her each day I swear to God.

Lady 2) She had a long history of drug use before she got with me but had quit due to having a kid, I also told her about my past but yet again lied I was clean from the smack. at the time we got together MXE was still legal over here & I was doing loads, she ended up getting into MXE with me & also 6-APB. She also tried heroin with me many times but didn't get a habit but she liked smack sssssooooo much. Our drug use got way out of control sadly & we ended up splitting up due to me not getting sober. She was no great loss really but my God she was a good fuck, she was really game for anal daily & all kinds of good stuff.

Oh wow. True love versus anal daily--how does one decide?

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Keep hearing about that one. Every person who's mentioned it says to NOT do seroquel, but it's glorified on the streets and in some rap songs lol I do know some people in healthy relationships where one person is indefinitely an addict and it's still worked out long term! Sometimes people's use doesn't hurt their partner whatsoever.

Which rap or hip hop songs mention Seroquel? Do people make 'lean' or 'drank' from it when they do not have the codeine cough syrup?

Lean (drug) - Wikipedia

en.m.wikipedia.org

 

[jose ribas da silva]

In general my partners would consume it all

 

[GetMeOutOfThisCRAP]

Which rap or hip hop songs mention Seroquel? Do people make 'lean' or 'drank' from it when they do not have the codeine cough syrup?

Lean (drug) - Wikipedia

en.m.wikipedia.org

Oh man, codeine cough syrup messes you up man. Nodding out and incoherent. Scares me too much to ever take it.

Oxy cotton by lil wyte: "Scarecrow scarecrow what's that you're popping, a powerful pill they call oxycontin. But it's so tiny, it catch you draggin'. Haven't you heard big things come in small packages? I prefer the oranges with the black OC. Take two and you cannot move up out your seat. Some people melt 'em down in a needle and shoot 'em up but I pop 'em with seroquel. Like glue I am stuck."

Quality family camp song in my opinion. Such depth to the lyrics. Curious about other addicts or former addict experiences!

 

[Delusional Thomas]

Oxy cotton by lil wyte: "Scarecrow scarecrow what's that you're popping, a powerful pill they call oxycontin. But it's so tiny, it catch you draggin'. Haven't you heard big things come in small packages? I prefer the oranges with the black OC. Take two and you cannot move up out your seat. Some people melt 'em down in a needle and shoot 'em up but I pop 'em with seroquel. Like glue I am stuck."

R.I.P. Lord Infamous

 

[Juniper Bruhmomentius]

"If you got a problem with my drug use you got a problem with me" whenever my drug use has been brought to light.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

My ex partners or the women and men who I dated or had as partners never had issues with my drug use which at the time when I was into drugs consisted of smoking pot/hash, taking LSD or mushrooms, getting drunk or buzzed on alcohol, and sometimes taking low doses of Dexedrine, and low doses of pharmaceutical opiates such as oxycodone, hydrocodone, and codeine-both T-3's and codeine cough syrup. I never have made or consumed lean, drank, sizzurup, etc. I also have inhaled nitrous oxide medical and food grade maybe three or four times, and I have tried kava kava as well.

I was open about using drugs and besides drinking alcohol together we never shared any. I do not like having sex while on drugs or drunk so I never did this and I have no desire to ever use Amyl/Butyl or poppers.

I never had enough money to use drugs daily and even when doing small binges of the drugs I listed, never in combination with each other except for smoking pot while tripping on acid, after taking low doses of opiates, on mushrooms and nitrous, and while drinking alcohol, I would become bored if I used the same drug too often or too frequently.

 

[Jabberwocky]

I only date during periods of relative sobriety / sanity.

Then, when my wheels inevitably fall off, whatever relationship I'm in evaporates. When in drug mode I don't have much bandwidth for maintaining important relationships so I prefer not to get into them.

 

[GetMeOutOfThisCRAP]

I only date during periods of relative sobriety / sanity.

Then, when my wheels inevitably fall off, whatever relationship I'm in evaporates. When in drug mode I don't have much bandwidth for maintaining important relationships so I prefer not to get into them.

My problem with using is I tend to be flakey with friendships. With relationships I always prioritize my partner's happiness so it doesn't affect them, but friendships it's hard to maintain plans lol. I need to get better at that, provided I'm about to live the clean life very soon

 

[Jabberwocky]

My problem with using is I tend to be flakey with friendships. With relationships I always prioritize my partner's happiness so it doesn't affect them, but friendships it's hard to maintain plans lol. I need to get better at that, provided I'm about to live the clean life very soon

I'm exactly the same. I think my limited circle of friends is more to do with me being flaky and too interested in drugs or to busy recovering from taking them to put long-term consistent investment into healthy friendships.

Earlier in my life it was the actual wild crazy drug taking that alienated people but I'm very functional now and keep any weirdness or wildness well hidden so I'm not alienating or scaring people away anymore which is a big plus.

I would like more real (and relatively straight) friends in my life if I'm not to old to go about making them anew.

 

[GetMeOutOfThisCRAP]

I'm exactly the same. I think my limited circle of friends is more to do with me being flaky and too interested in drugs or to busy recovering from taking them to put long-term consistent investment into healthy friendships.

Earlier in my life it was the actual wild crazy drug taking that alienated people but I'm very functional now and keep any weirdness or wildness well hidden so I'm not alienating or scaring people away anymore which is a big plus.

I would like more real (and relatively straight) friends in my life if I'm not to old to go about making them anew.

To be fair, it's not fun to hang out with friends while stimulant crashed or dopesick LOL. But I suppose they have a right to be mad.

 

[Wilson Wilson]

I'm open about myself in relationships and that includes drug use. If she don't like it she can leave. Drugs over bitches.

Most of the girls I've been with have just been apathetic about it, not angry but not into drugs themselves either - not a bad situation since I don't need to share my stash.

My current girlfriend, who I am actually in love with for real, enjoys doing drugs with me but since it's a weekend thing for her she has a low tolerance and I just share a little of whatever I'm taking (except the "bad" stuff like oxy, I've never given that to anyone) and we have good fun especially when we've done stuff like MDMA and 4-MMC together. Oh we also had a pretty decent time sharing lines of ketamine and smoking a fuckload of weed on my birthday.

Honestly I think that type of recreational drug use is great fun in a relationship.

In any case I certainly wouldn't be with any girl who was against drug use altogether. One of my ex's was like that and thought smoking weed would make me schizophrenic (I mean hey the Daily Mail said it so it must be true!) as you can imagine our relationship wasn't very successful. She was really hot though so we fucked a lot. But yeah it was never gonna be a LTR lol.

 

[Tubbs]

They're usually mad I'm not sharing, or that i didn't mention that i had more than what it seemed i did.... think I've dated maybe one sober woman ever.... and i was sober at the time.