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what does your sig-o think of you being on bluelight?

My girlfriend and I both have accounts here (Sconnie420).
I mostly use the Shroomery when I need to kill time, though.
I dont mind, I just dislike it when were spending our (limited) time together and she's on her phone browsing stuff. Not just BL, but whatever.
....actually, I get annoyed even when company comes over and sits here and is just glued to their phones. Lol, I can be diffucult at times :-)
We have our spats, but after over 7 years together, shit gets forgiven <3. She's a good girl.

We had some issues after she found my posts on the Shroomery, just retarded shit Id say. But, ultimatly, any experiance that you're able to get through is a postive one. We both have insecurities that come up, but I trust that she wont hurt me, and vice versa.
As long as conversations are not sexually charged or not appropriate or whatever, were both fine with forum usage.
I know she gets support here that Im not too well equipped to handle, so, thats a good thing. :-)
 
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My s/o's don't know, and I don't tell them mainly because people don't know I do drugs.

I feel fucking terrible each time I see people post their photos with s/o's, very stupid, especially when the other doesn't know they are on here.
 
1394 said:
I feel fucking terrible each time I see people post their photos with s/o's, very stupid, especially when the other doesn't know they are on here.
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Can you elaborate on that? What do you mean?
You feel terrible for the other person in the pic having their photo on here w/o their permission?
Yourself for feeling like you do about your BL usage?
 
^ Can't answer for 1234, but I wanted to mention something. With face-recognition applications it is very easy to find that someone's picture has been posted here - you can make a Google image search with an actual image (not only words), so if someone searches on Google with a pic that has been posted here, that specific post will appear in the results.
So it can be touchy to post someone's picture on BL without their knowledge.
 
The girlfriend hates that I spend so much time on BL....

But I hate that she watches Grey's Anatomy all the time, so we're even. :)
 
InvisibleEye said:
^ Can't answer for 1234, but I wanted to mention something. With face-recognition applications it is very easy to find that someone's picture has been posted here - you can make a Google image search with an actual image (not only words), so if someone searches on Google with a pic that has been posted here, that specific post will appear in the results.
So it can be touchy to post someone's picture on BL without their knowledge.
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LMFAO very true. Think twice before you post your pic, especially to the nudie thread.

"Mom, is that you?!"
 
Zoeylynn said:
My hubby has absolutely no idea I am on here at all. I won't tell him. I only get on my phone and delete the history frequently.

He dosent allow me to have social networking accounts because he doesn't like me talking to guys. Even the ones I grew up with and never messed around with. He thinks someone will take me away from him. Im like ok what ever. If we do break up for good I don't want a boyfriend. I want to be single. Rant/

Anyways no. If he found out y'all would probably never hear from me again. :(
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Girlfriend, this doesn't sound healthy. :(
 
^ Yeah Zoeylynn, sounds controlling and scary *hug*

Boy doesn't really have an opinion either way about me being on here, can't think why anyone should care if I post on a forum?
He calls me on phone and I have had little giggle to him about flirting/sxting with boys here, etc.
And had mini rant to him that I was being bullied once, he got all protective and testosteroney lol! But when I said it was on forum he just went flat and told me to get outside more. :|
 
I would like to know why you are asking? If she truly cares about you, I don't think you should hide it, assuming that's the case. Don't get serious then have somthing stupid like this turn into a big deal. The biggest problem in all relationships, friendship, mother-daughter, husband-wife, is lack of communication. You have to be open, and if this person can't accept you, don't change yourself and be unhappy, find a real match.
-Ambition
 
My ex spent a great deal of time BL-stalking my old posts when I was at work. He never once talked about it though, which I suppose is quite bizarre in retrospect.

It's probably why I didn't post for sooo long.. no point bitching about something, if a person is going to covert lengths to keep tabs on my thoughts and actions, period.

That said though, it wasn't a 'problem' for me to be a forum member. Most people in this day & age are members of some forum or other :)
 
No she doesn't know... I'm a little more open about my psychoactive adventures of past (and present) on here than IRL, I wouldn't really want her to read all my posts as it might scare her.

At the same time I feel like I could tell her (almost) anything, but I don't think she would truly understand the nature of the site seeing as she is completely inexperienced in this general area
 
hey youdontknow- i`m not really "hiding" anything. She knows i have, and do post on forums. She jokes about my "girlfriends" online. No harm, no foul. I was wondering so i asked. That`s all.
 
My psycho ex set up an account to stalk me and read through any old posts of before we were together! Even nearly a year on she still stalks me an tries to start arguments and shit! My gf now don't care at all.
But fucking hell my psycho ex did my head in! I guess that's what you get for dating a skank tho? Lol
 
mine fiance is a new member lol. he didnt understand forums - called them for rooms lol. but since i sat up for hours laughing at a thread in the lounge and referred to BL some advice he decided to check it out, now he bluelights nearly as much as me lol.
 
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