Men who feel so offended and rejected by any criticism of male sexuality just need to learn to be a bit more understanding. As women actually have enough to be critical of. Do you know how many women have been, or attempted being, raped for instance? The numbers are atrociously high, something like 25%.
I haven't actually been raped, though I see it as something likely to happen at some point in my life, but have experienced attempted rape. It was only avoided because a police car happened to drive past the bus shelter (it was almost midnight and few outside) he was holding me down in, so he ran away.
Being taken for a ride, or coldly getting fucked and dumped by someone who acts like he has feelings for you and is looking for a relationship, also isn't that much fun. Although this also hasn't happened to me, but only because I'm so careful, it's there for the taking all the time. And it's not something you need to experience to know it would make you feel like shit. Just the possibility of these things occuring is enough to scare women away and ruins a lot for men too (lack of trust, but when can you trust?).
So women has a lot of trauma and negative emotions connected to male sexuality and sexuality as a whole, that is just how it is, even if there's nothing wrong with you and you've never done anything. We're not to know that, and what we've seen/experienced from other men will always influence our feelings for you and sex in general. Even if you haven't lived through it, hearing about horrible sexual crimes and living it out mentally can be enough to turn you off the whole thing.
Every woman is a potential victim, and will be very close to being sexually victimised somehow at many points in her life, so it's no wonder if we have a victim-mentality about it. It's not an ideal world, and neither is the sexual interaction between the sexes. I'm just putting words to what most women feel but prefer not to think about.
I haven't actually been raped, though I see it as something likely to happen at some point in my life, but have experienced attempted rape. It was only avoided because a police car happened to drive past the bus shelter (it was almost midnight and few outside) he was holding me down in, so he ran away.
Being taken for a ride, or coldly getting fucked and dumped by someone who acts like he has feelings for you and is looking for a relationship, also isn't that much fun. Although this also hasn't happened to me, but only because I'm so careful, it's there for the taking all the time. And it's not something you need to experience to know it would make you feel like shit. Just the possibility of these things occuring is enough to scare women away and ruins a lot for men too (lack of trust, but when can you trust?).
So women has a lot of trauma and negative emotions connected to male sexuality and sexuality as a whole, that is just how it is, even if there's nothing wrong with you and you've never done anything. We're not to know that, and what we've seen/experienced from other men will always influence our feelings for you and sex in general. Even if you haven't lived through it, hearing about horrible sexual crimes and living it out mentally can be enough to turn you off the whole thing.
Every woman is a potential victim, and will be very close to being sexually victimised somehow at many points in her life, so it's no wonder if we have a victim-mentality about it. It's not an ideal world, and neither is the sexual interaction between the sexes. I'm just putting words to what most women feel but prefer not to think about.
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