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What do you think people would remember you for the most?

Papaverium

Papaverium

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Death is inevitable, and everyone eventually becomes forgotten, but in your lifespan, what do you think your friends and family would remember you for very strongly?

Positive answers are most encouraged! :)

I definitely thinks my peers would remember my outgoing personality, artistic talent... and my unique (dance) style.

What about you?
 
I have always thought of this like if I were to pass today I honestly think people would say something like, "he was a caring and brilliant man" as those are the two things people tend to say the most about me. And when I am asked at the clinic my best traits even I say "i am very intelligent, driven, and caring. I cant bare to see anyone in pain and when i say "i am going to do that" i get it done" Being so empathetic makes it impossible to watch sad movies without crying, it can be kind of embarrassing because it wont even be something i should be able to relate to.

I was actually thinking about that prior to my g/f and me breaking up like all of my science and chemistry equipment (can be measured in 1000s of dollars well maybe 2 ;) ) would be proof if i passed before my kids knew me that i was some kind of person. So yeah that what i assume people will say were my 2 best qualities and the ones that really set me apart.

*should be added to that being so caring lead to me getting ripped off way more as a heroin addict because i would be like "well we are both sick i paid for it but here take some because i understand..." people take advantage of that A LOT.* lol what a weird person i am.
 
My good looks...kinda pisses me off sometimes..can't go into a bar without getting dirty looks from insecure guys..
Not my fault your gf is staring at me..loser
Before I started lifting weights and grew a beard guys would try and start shit with me

Relationships can be a pain in the ass too..the girl feels like she always has to look her best with me..even if we're just chillin at home
They get crazy possessive too when other attractive women are in our general vicinity lol

People also expect me to be better at everything, and when I'm not they act all surprised
 
for my artistic talent and my phlebotomy skills, specialty being the jugular and femoral (I'm only sort of joking, I've had people start crying because they hadn't been able to hit in weeks and I got their issue in in no time). Oh and I'm actually a really nice person that would give you the shirt off my back in winter even though it would probably give me an asthma attack. But I really would, I have a lot of love for my fellow addicts, people who have gone through or are going through what I've been through.
 
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