What do you girls like to talk about?

[freehugs]

Well, there is a difference between expressing dissatisfaction with something and outright bitching.

I don't really see the difference. They are both complaining, which is unattractive.

 

[Survival0200]

Psychiatric medication (been there, done that)!

 

[drancer]

anal beads, speculums, ejaculatory distance, ball gags, and vibrating pussies. :D

 

[llama112]

Do you feel comfortable talking about yourself? Because those are peripheral.

I was going with "first date" type ideas, as that's what many people have difficulty with. Things that can help you get to know about each others interests and whatnot.

 

[pofacedhoe]

No matter how cool you think you are, bitching is not attractive.

agreed

when you know someone well it can be good to bond over a nice bitch about shit but on a first date you need to reign in the negatives

 

[mrflowers00]

most women like to talk more about themselves than they do about you

 

[Tristurbed]

They usually talk about themselves which is fine by me because sometimes I really don't know what to talk about anyways

I used to think of things to talk about before going on a date but it would never help a bit. The conversations would always go different, naturally.

 

[Captain.Heroin]

sex, fucking, me, how good I am at ___________________, ... FOR INFINITY

 

[dopemaster]

Women like to talk about themselves. Ask them questions about them. Seem interested even when its boring.

As a rule of thumb, if you are talking more than her, its not going well. You want to get a woman talking and they really like to talk about themselves. I am pretty sure everyone does.

 

[Survival0200]

Okay, thanks guys, I have to make myself a small Post-it note of conversation topics before going on a date.

 

[gm777]

anal beads, speculums, ejaculatory distance, ball gags, and vibrating pussies. :D

I just spit my coffee out at speculums, and ejaculatory distance.

Oh how internet porn opens us to so many new things lol

 

[Animal Mother]

Just fucking talk.

Part of a lot of guys problem is their mental approach to talking to women...is that it is some sort of puzzle to unlock, or game you have to figure out.

Just fucking talk like you would have a conversation with any new person that you meet. Enjoy yourself and what you enjoy talking about, and not only will you be more attractive by looking relaxed and friendly, but you'll also be more likely to find a person that appreciates you for you.

 

[blue1995]

sex, fucking, me, how good I am at ___________________, ... FOR INFINITY

Pretty sure we've been out before.

 

[Noodle]

Agreed Animal Mother.

 

[BZboo]

Ask the girl lots of questions about herself in the beginning so you appear very interest in her. No politics or religious oriented conversations!