What do you do?

[kellbelle]

I don't know what you would call this....
What do you do when you think you've found someone that is your other half? The only one that can fill that void in your heart. The one that can make you laugh, knows just the right things to say. The one that cares deeply about you. The one you can tell everything to, even your deepest fears. The one you know you can spend the rest of your life with and be truly happy. Well what do you do when that person already has someone? Do I wait patiently? Move on and try to find another? What if you don't want to move on? What do you do then?
[ 06 December 2001: Message edited by: kellbelle ]

 

[spinkle]

The most important thing to do is to relax into the situation and let Fate guide you. What is *supposed* to happen *will* happen. You know in your heart exactly what you need to do and what you need to say, so let it come out
You will have the experiences that you are meant to have. The trick is to surrender to the flow.
If you are not meant to be together--as hard of a concept as that may be to digest, as difficult as that seems right now to comprehend--then you are simply not meant to be together. But what you feel right now will not be a waste of emotion, and is not meant to cause you pain. This experience is moving you closer to understanding what you need and what you want, and will help you to recognize what really *is* right for you when it happens...if it so happens that now is not the time.
Best wishes, good luck, and *trust yourself*! I know how hard it is to have that apprehension, to feel like what you want is infinitessimally close to you although you are not allowed to touch it...
I'd give you a hug, but I don't think we know each other well enough yet Be happy, kell...
spinkle
[ 06 December 2001: Message edited by: spinkle ]

 

[amber ::]

if its meant to be, it'll work out.
good luck. enjoy growing up.

 

[E-girl]

while i believe very strongly in destiny and fate, i think that fate needs something to work with...
i say if you want something bad enough, GO FOR IT! throw it out there in the open and let the pieces fall where they may. let your feelings be known, but be prepared to accept whatever is returned... even if its not what you want or expect. if you dont have honesty, you dont have anything. and remember that whoever he is with now has feelings just like you, and put yourself in her shoes... someone in this triangle is inevitably going to get hurt... that's a certainty. but dont let it be a negative thing. take it and grow from it.
the truth hurts, but lies hurt more.

 

[harraser]

pour your heart out and see how things turn out
nothing hurts more than not knowing what might have been if you didnt take the chance.
good luck,and if things dont turn out the way you hope then be strong.the pain never goes away but you learn to live with it