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What are your (if any) deal breakers for sex?

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lkal26

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I was watching an OLD Fresh Prince episode(the one where he finds out his girlfriend is faking her hair, boobs, nails, etc. after they get locked in a room together) and thought I'd throw this question out there.

Is there anything that would be an instant deal-breaker for sex?
I mean physical stuff....that you wouldn't have known prior to getting naked.

Small penis....
Not waxed...
Wierd nipples...
Stuff like that, that would literally make you put your clothes right back on.
 
mungingout said:
If she is/has

- Hairy armpits
- Bad breath
- A virgin
- A disease i.e Chlamydia
- A tranny
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LMAO @ tranny That was something I hadn't even thought about. But I guess to the majority of men that's probably the biggest deal breaker out there. And you are totally right about the hairy armpits, especially if you are gonna hold her hands/arms over her head or something to that effect.
 
mungingout said:
If she is/has

- Hairy armpits
- Bad breath
- A virgin
- A disease i.e Chlamydia
- A tranny
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That's a deal MAKER!

I hate girls/guys that are uncomfortable with their own body and obsessive about lights off/covers on/dont look at me. "Hey. We're both jiggly and pale let's bump uglies and make the most of it."
 
^^^
I don't know if armpit hair, or BO will ever be a turn on, but confidence sure as hell is.
 
^^^^^

That. Everyone here has been with an "ugly"/less attractive person that was a. BEAST in the sack.
 
she has to be a woman, attractive on some level, clean, chemistry......

when I was younger if she was willing I was ready!

I've learned that I need something more these days, which is a drag in a way cause I don't have as much sex as I used to.
 
Probably just someone who wasn't open to new experiences ... didn't give things a shot ... or at least a consideration. Someone that was just "no" to absolutely everything without any conversation would be out.

If a guy wasn't presentable either, he'd be out. Images are important. Be clean and hygienic - that is necessary!
 
Absurd dirty talk (like in pornos). Sorry but "Yeah! I wanna fuck your tight little pussy you little slut!" is NOT hot to me. In fact, if a guy were to bust something like that out (and they have in the past), there's little I can do to stop myself from laughing out loud. That's a total mood-killer.
 
If I were a guy a trashy tattoo would definitely be a deal breaker.

No, screw that. Even though I'm not a guy that's a deal breaker! Bad tattoos aren't something that can be ignored. I can't imagine getting behind a girl and having to look at some noxious butterfly or astrological sign looming above her ass crack.
 
Lol, bad tattoos are just bad. Period. The best kind are the ones that have been well-thought out and done in a tasteful, careful manner by an artist who takes pride in their work :)

anyway, aside from a small penis and poor hygiene, a man who is too sexually inhibited would be a turn off for me. I get that some people take time to reveal their sexual persona and/or come out of their shell, but I really do need someone who is in touch with their carnal instincts to satisfy me in the bedroom. Someone who was not as innately adventurous or did not share my love of variety (in approach to lovemaking) simply wouldn't be someone I could maintain an active intimate interest towards. I figure since we spend so much of our lives living within society's confines, containing thoughts and emotions so as to keep ourselves in line, the last place I am going to temper my volcanic sense of passion is behind closed doors!!!! there's just no way known ;)
 
not a deal breaker, but if they have met all the requirements for me to get down with, a loose poony is kind of lame...

I know for a fact that it takes like 3 weeks to get it all tight again, so....
 
User Name Here said:
Absurd dirty talk (like in pornos). Sorry but "Yeah! I wanna fuck your tight little pussy you little slut!" is NOT hot to me. In fact, if a guy were to bust something like that out (and they have in the past), there's little I can do to stop myself from laughing out loud. That's a total mood-killer.
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lol ya I know what you mean. I am not a fan of that crap either. It just feels so contrived. I was talking about that on here a while back, and what I learned was just to say how I am feeling when I am that horny. It sounds hot as fuck just as it is...
 
Missing teeth
Unibrow
B.O./bad breath

Bad attitude is the biggest dealbreaker tbh
 
User Name Here said:
Absurd dirty talk (like in pornos). Sorry but "Yeah! I wanna fuck your tight little pussy you little slut!" is NOT hot to me. In fact, if a guy were to bust something like that out (and they have in the past), there's little I can do to stop myself from laughing out loud. That's a total mood-killer.
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Stuff like that creeps me out a little.
And that "Who's your daddy" bull crap.....
that's even worse
 
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