Robi
Bluelighter
BESIDES your religious convictions( if applicable) family,hope in a better future and/or self harm.
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Mental Health What are three main reasons you do not give up the ghost? (commit suicide)
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Jabberwocky
Frumious Bandersnatch
1. I'm wrong about a lot of shit. My brain is fallible. I think stupid things. I come to wrong conclusions, all the time.
2. Wouldn't be fair to my family. Why shift that level of pain onto them?
3. I ain't no quitter. Can't change the past but you can change the future.
2. Wouldn't be fair to my family. Why shift that level of pain onto them?
3. I ain't no quitter. Can't change the past but you can change the future.
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Jabberwocky
Frumious Bandersnatch
1. I'm scared of dying
2. If possible I'd rather die naturally of old age
3. I'm going to die much sooner than I'd like to, so I want to live as long as possible and see what happens in the world, I'd say I'd miss it when I'm dead, but of course when your dead there's nothing to miss
2. If possible I'd rather die naturally of old age
3. I'm going to die much sooner than I'd like to, so I want to live as long as possible and see what happens in the world, I'd say I'd miss it when I'm dead, but of course when your dead there's nothing to miss
jasperkent
Bluelighter
1. My dog
2. Things might change
3. My dog
2. Things might change
3. My dog
Robi
Bluelighter
love n miss you, ty for the deep laughter, until then........
jasperkent
Bluelighter
I thought about this and I need to amend my answers. My dog is still #1, for sure.
But #2 or #3 would be What if I botch the job?
Suppose I end up paralyzed, blind, deaf, mute, and utterly miserable? And what if nobody gives me good drugs?
That's my definition of HELL.
stardust10
Bluelighter
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That's what's stopped me^
Fuck that shit! I don't wanna be a vegetable
Other than that ....thinking bout my family including dogs
Fuck that shit! I don't wanna be a vegetable
Other than that ....thinking bout my family including dogs
Jerry Atrick
Bluelight Crew
That's a weird looking dog.love n miss you, ty for the deep laughter, until then........
Jerry Atrick
Bluelight Crew
1) family
2) I'm with you folks who say sometimes we can be wrong and things can change for the better
3) I've already botched the job once and somehow came out physically unscathed. Really don't want to put (1) through that again.
2) I'm with you folks who say sometimes we can be wrong and things can change for the better
3) I've already botched the job once and somehow came out physically unscathed. Really don't want to put (1) through that again.
Robi
Bluelighter
but very loyal, she barks strangely, she got kicked out the dog park , but the breeder told us she would give us a discount because she wasnt a pedigree, and i just love a deal!
Jerry Atrick
Bluelight Crew
...never mind the strange protrusions sticking out of her head
Robi
Bluelighter
i have the same issue, thats why we are so bonded...never mind the strange protrusions sticking out of her head
tba
Robi
Bluelighter
appreciate the posts, but im attempting to find things to talk to a person im close to, shes SW (locked up)right now but when she is let go, I want to tell her things, besides, family, hope for the future, hurting her body, i will research further, great reasons you all shared to say the least but I have with her, and its not getting through, ty again.
OH!! I understand. In that case....
Prior to my son's existence, my father was a huge reason that I would decide against suicide. My dad's older brother killed himself and knowing how much it's affected my dad makes me never want to put him through that kind of torture again. Death of a loved one is hard enough but when it's suicide it is infinitely more painful and difficult. Knowing that it was preventable just hurts so much. And it's a pain that never goes away either.
Now....having said all of that...I have had moments of severely poor judgement and have actually attempted suicide, 6 times altogether. 6 attempts, 6 failures. I stopped trying after the 6th time because I clearly suck at it lol
And fast forward to now, I'm married to my best friend, very very happy, sober, and of course I have my precious son who is the entire meaning of my life. Imagine if I had been successful at any of those 6 attempts. I would never have known this love and happiness and meaning and purpose. What an incredible waste.
What I'm getting at is that your friend just needs to have some faith and hold on for the future that is waiting ahead of them. It might not specifically involve marriage and sobriety and a son, but it definitely involves some stuff worth holding on for.
Nas47
Road-Weary Traveler
1.Ma family2.There's more work to do3.There's a more places which i wanna visit
jasperkent
Bluelighter
I can say this-- despite how bleak things looked and how very close I came, I'm extremely grateful that I did not go through with it.
People I never would've met, things I never would've experienced. And life is much, much better now. I cherish every moment--- or at least I try to remember to.
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