What about your personality do you wish you could change?

[ValeTudo]

Unresolved religious issues

 

[MazDan]

Laziness
Innapropriate promiscuity
Phone-phobia
Alcoholism
Greedy drug pig behaviour
Truth fudging
Time wasting
Selfishness
Vanity

Yeah, I'm really feeling shit hot about myself today, can you tell? :D

What are you talkin about woman...........there all the bits i like.

 

[taita]

Dear Mr samadhi,

This is a trap.
dont answer this question.

Your friend,

lockone.

Yeah, Im not touching this with a 10ft pole...did i spell it right..

 

[ValeTudo]

Ps yeah ROFL @ Lok1. Wise words from an apparently wise man :D

Id like to change the way i make decisions. Very spur of the moment, often to my detriment ~

 

[lostpunk5545]

Come on, you know deep down you want to be a communist.

 

[ValeTudo]

I am not a communist. I may be a drunk, a pig, an idiot, a communist... but I am not a pornstar

 

[vanth]

Some willpower would be neat.

 

[m4dd0g]

im good, thanks for asking


(other people may want to change my ego, but im fine with it )

 

[Nihilist]

It's fair to say that I don't like myself very much - ok let's be honest here, I hate myself - and there are certainly things about me I wish I could change. However, I don't want to change these because I want to become a 'good' person or a 'better' person or any crap like that. The only reason I wish i could change some of my personality traits is because these things end up draining me and making the burden of simply existing heavier and heavier. Sometimes I just wish that I was a bit more of a 'normal' and blissfully ignorant person.

The 2 personality factors i'd most like to change are:

- My extreme my personality and my tendency to feel things very very deeply. These things can be exhausting, confusing and frightening at times.

Other factors include:

- My temper. It's vicious and destructive. Most of the time, it's not that much of a worry, but there have been times that it just takes over and chaos ensues. I'm very quick to anger.

- I'm a massive perfectionist and very competitive. I'm always comparing myself to others and if i can't be the best, then i'd rather not be anything at all.

- I'm very unsettled (read: 'disturbed'). Once again, it's exhausting.

- Im very very very impatient. Usually if i want something i'll end up driving both myself and other people insane to get it.

- I'm a massive worrier. I spend nearly every waking minute worrying about things that have previously happened, will happen, or may possibly happen (even if i figure there's only a 1% chance of it actually occurring). It's incredibly exhausting.

- I can be exceedingly cruel, antagonistic and uncaring towards myself and others. Sometimes it comes back to bite me in the arse.

- I've got what's been described as an obsessive/addictive personality

 

[Samadhi]

im good, thanks for asking


(other people may want to change my ego, but im fine with it )

See buddy, you're ego is AOK with me because you can SO back it up. :D

*high fives the d4wg*

 

[MR Candyslut]

Oh my...where to start?!!

I think my two biggest ones would be my lack of self-discipline and my impulsiveness. Out of anything i think they have contributed the most to
my fuckups.

 

[RockWell]

I would change my temper!

 

[smart-e]

I wish i wasn't so lazy and procrastinate so much
I would change the fact that I'm pretty quiet and tend to be overlooked a fair bit.

 

[3dmusic]

I wish I could tell people straight away, if I am find their behaviour/deeds unacceptable instead of waiting for a few weeks onwards. Why do I wait? - I dont know, but it would make mine and others lives a whole lot easier if I did know.

 

[kryalkastleE]

*Not being such a clean freak and having to always have everything super-tidy
*Not being so goddamn organised ALL the FREAKING time.
*Alcoholic in the making
*Bossy bitch
*Dominating
*Taking things to heart

 

[breakyaself]

Ha ! I hear you girlfriend on the taking things to heart !

I wish I wasnt nearly soo paranoid and anxious. Its subsiding, but its annoying as fuck. Sometimes I wish the ground would just swallow meup whole !!!

 

[rumpled]

Oh my...where to start?!!

I think my two biggest ones would be my lack of self-discipline and my impulsiveness. Out of anything i think they have contributed the most to
my fuckups.

I sure wouldn't change my impulsive nature! I like it. Yeah, fuck ups and all.

But I would change the way my eyes expose my feelings.

 

[doofqueen]

I wish i wasn't so sensitive and emotional at times. But i can't help it - it's who i am and i take things to heart alot.

So many things i would change ....

 

[psycosynthesis]

I need to think before I speak sometimes.
Like many here, bordering on having an alcohol problem. Getting it cheap as chips doesn't help either...

 

[nofx]

Sometimes works for me well, sometimes doesn't. Ill always say whats on my mind, to whomever, whenever about whatever. Rarely do I hold anything in, if I have a problem with you, you will know about it.