I know this is going to sound really weird, but just here me out on this. We know that most people have certain sexual fetishes, many of them odd, but lately I've had the urge to have sex with a female murderer. I think it's just the overall crazyiness that someone must have to be a murderer, but I get really turned on by the thought of having sex with a (preferably hot) female murderer. Am I just fucked up in the head, or does anyone else feel the same way?
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Weird Fantasy The Others Possibly Experience?
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Foreigner
Bluelighter
Sex and death, eros and thanatos, is a common theme in world history. Modern TV and movies also use it, a lot. Sex scenes often come after death scenes or vice versa. It's one of the most overplayed tropes in the media.
A femme fatale represents an intense seducer, and a predator. Her focus on you is total because there are few things more intimately real than death. She would have to be an expert in order to murder you without you see it coming, which means she is very calculated, knows your character well, and knows exactly what you want to make it easier for her to move in for the kill. And if she's a murderer who isn't even after you, there is still the underlying feeling that she is capable of turning that on you at any time. The perfect murderer has all the skillsets to also provide amazing sex!
Sex and violence are on a related wavelength in the human psyche as they are both more carnal fulfillments. I think the femme fatale is on the extreme end of what is already happening in people's sex lives, where they have rough intimacy. Adding playful danger or rough play to sex makes it more exciting for a lot of people. Enter BDSM.
I mean... people can turn anything into something sexual. My roommate told me the other day that there is a fetish for mud wrestling. If rolling around in dirt can give people orgasms then I don't see why murderers can't also be sexy. I bet you could actually find someone out there who would pretend-murder you and find it hot. lol
A femme fatale represents an intense seducer, and a predator. Her focus on you is total because there are few things more intimately real than death. She would have to be an expert in order to murder you without you see it coming, which means she is very calculated, knows your character well, and knows exactly what you want to make it easier for her to move in for the kill. And if she's a murderer who isn't even after you, there is still the underlying feeling that she is capable of turning that on you at any time. The perfect murderer has all the skillsets to also provide amazing sex!
Sex and violence are on a related wavelength in the human psyche as they are both more carnal fulfillments. I think the femme fatale is on the extreme end of what is already happening in people's sex lives, where they have rough intimacy. Adding playful danger or rough play to sex makes it more exciting for a lot of people. Enter BDSM.
I mean... people can turn anything into something sexual. My roommate told me the other day that there is a fetish for mud wrestling. If rolling around in dirt can give people orgasms then I don't see why murderers can't also be sexy. I bet you could actually find someone out there who would pretend-murder you and find it hot. lol
BlueSaffron
Bluelighter
It's not that weird. When Aaron Hernandez was on the news for being accused of murder, I thought he was so amazingly hot. I still kind of do. That little smile on his face, his confidence... I think he probably did it, but that just makes me want him even more. I want to know what he'd be like in bed. Before all that happened, if someone had just shown me his pic and said "this is a football player I think is cute", I would've been like "...yeah.. he's not bad I guess". After he was arrested though, I just want him to grab me and push me up against a wall and put his hand on my throat while he kisses me.
hot.
hot.
psood0nym
Bluelighter
Heh heh. This sounds like a very dangerous fetish. I agree with the "Thanatos" analysis. Many use auto-erotic asphyxiation to scratch this itch. If it's something that absolutely needs to be satisfied I guess you could take out a personal ad in a seedy publication. I'm betting "seeking ex con" would be attractive to those whose criminal pasts are an impediment to finding new mates. Just understand that getting involved with such people is likely to lead to ruining your life if not your death.
BlueSaffron
Bluelighter
Yeah - personally I keep it as a fantasy only. I'd never actively go looking for a guy like that, it's a bad idea for all sorts of reasons.
Although, if Hernandez was let out on bail, and I was at a club one night and he was there, and he came up and flirted with me and asked me if I wanted to go for a ride.. if I said I wouldn't go, I'd be lying
Luckily (I think) for me, that's pretty unlikely to happen.
Although, if Hernandez was let out on bail, and I was at a club one night and he was there, and he came up and flirted with me and asked me if I wanted to go for a ride.. if I said I wouldn't go, I'd be lying
Luckily (I think) for me, that's pretty unlikely to happen.erotic asphyxiation isn't that often about life/death, that's more knifeplay territory.
Asphyxiation itself feels good, surrendering yourself and your life to someone else feels good, but it's not about death itself.
That being said it's probably the most dangerous fetish to engage in and has a fatal risk if care isn't taken.
Asphyxiation itself feels good, surrendering yourself and your life to someone else feels good, but it's not about death itself.
That being said it's probably the most dangerous fetish to engage in and has a fatal risk if care isn't taken.
pofacedhoe
Bluelight Crew
its well known that there is a breed of people who write letters to convicted killers and end up marrying them. probably goes all the way back to warrior times
DOB
Bluelighter
It's not that weird. When Aaron Hernandez was on the news for being accused of murder, I thought he was so amazingly hot. I still kind of do. That little smile on his face, his confidence... I think he probably did it, but that just makes me want him even more. I want to know what he'd be like in bed. Before all that happened, if someone had just shown me his pic and said "this is a football player I think is cute", I would've been like "...yeah.. he's not bad I guess". After he was arrested though, I just want him to grab me and push me up against a wall and put his hand on my throat while he kisses me.
hot.
that man looks fit healthy with alot natural testosterone and desirable face genetics... i am not even gay,but i can recognize high quality man
95Land
Ex-Bluelighter
^If you know anything about the details of the murder(s) you'll realize that he was given gifts in just about every physical form possible but was left way, way short in the brains department.
IMO, "high quality man" usually includes not being mentally retarded. I don't mean that to be offensive to anyone. I'm just saying he's legitimately very dumb.
I'm also just bitter cause I live in the town he's from, I'm a Patriots fan and loved watching him play.
Yeah... I, along with a lot of other sickies, had/have a crush on Jodi Arias. The girl that savagely killed her boyfriend.
I am exclusively dominant in my sex life but there's something very appealing about the danger that would be present if I were able to actually spend time with her.
Pretty similar to the Hernandez thing, in that I know she's a psycho and all that. But if she got released on a technicality and I saw her somewhere? I would probably try to pick her up.
I understand the tie ins with sex and murder/violence. There is aspects of my attraction to that woman that I still don't understand. It was a fleeting crush, but still.
So, yeah OP. I understand, to a degree, where you're coming from.
IMO, "high quality man" usually includes not being mentally retarded. I don't mean that to be offensive to anyone. I'm just saying he's legitimately very dumb.
I'm also just bitter cause I live in the town he's from, I'm a Patriots fan and loved watching him play.
Yeah... I, along with a lot of other sickies, had/have a crush on Jodi Arias. The girl that savagely killed her boyfriend.
I am exclusively dominant in my sex life but there's something very appealing about the danger that would be present if I were able to actually spend time with her.
Pretty similar to the Hernandez thing, in that I know she's a psycho and all that. But if she got released on a technicality and I saw her somewhere? I would probably try to pick her up.
I understand the tie ins with sex and murder/violence. There is aspects of my attraction to that woman that I still don't understand. It was a fleeting crush, but still.
So, yeah OP. I understand, to a degree, where you're coming from.
deltakappamu
Bluelighter
I do not think that this desire is all that uncommon. Humans are often turned on by the "forbidden" and unknown.
I remember growing up I liked reading a lot. Many of the books I read were true accounts of serial killers.. and for some reason I developed a little bit of a "thing" for Richard Ramirez. Of course I never told anyone, but I remember feeling excited while reading the accounts of his capers. But don't get it twisted, I don't think that its right to kill people and do the things he did, but there was something that was just alluring to me.
Also. Blue Saffron... I hope this does not come across as weird, but almost every time you post I am like "OMG THAT IS ME!" I feel like you may be my Bluelight twin. Hope that doesn't weird you out. Just thought I would let you know that I think you're pretty flippin cool.
I remember growing up I liked reading a lot. Many of the books I read were true accounts of serial killers.. and for some reason I developed a little bit of a "thing" for Richard Ramirez. Of course I never told anyone, but I remember feeling excited while reading the accounts of his capers. But don't get it twisted, I don't think that its right to kill people and do the things he did, but there was something that was just alluring to me.
Also. Blue Saffron... I hope this does not come across as weird, but almost every time you post I am like "OMG THAT IS ME!" I feel like you may be my Bluelight twin. Hope that doesn't weird you out. Just thought I would let you know that I think you're pretty flippin cool.
BlueSaffron
Bluelighter
Also. Blue Saffron... I hope this does not come across as weird, but almost every time you post I am like "OMG THAT IS ME!" I feel like you may be my Bluelight twin. Hope that doesn't weird you out. Just thought I would let you know that I think you're pretty flippin cool.
Not weird, it's flattering actually, thanks
deltakappamu
Bluelighter
omnipresenthuman
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Maybe it's just me, but I feel like girls who legit commit homicide/murder are way more fucked up than guys who do it. Historically, it's usually the guys who kill people...the main thing is, why? If it's in battle, OK, but someone like Aaron Hernandez literally just (likely) killed some guys because of either money, weed, or PCP, one of the three...talk about dumb as shit...
This makes me think of the Hindu goddess Kali - she's related to the god Shiva (who's connected to smoking weed in Hindu/Indian culture), and she is explicitly the goddess of sex and death, which are directly related in Hindu mythology (although I hate to use the word 'mythology' here)...
But yeah, look Kali up. She wears a necklace of human skeletons and stands over the quiescent body of Shiva, who's a male, in many depictions. Now that's a strong bloodthirsty woman...who also is a sex symbol...
This makes me think of the Hindu goddess Kali - she's related to the god Shiva (who's connected to smoking weed in Hindu/Indian culture), and she is explicitly the goddess of sex and death, which are directly related in Hindu mythology (although I hate to use the word 'mythology' here)...
But yeah, look Kali up. She wears a necklace of human skeletons and stands over the quiescent body of Shiva, who's a male, in many depictions. Now that's a strong bloodthirsty woman...who also is a sex symbol...
BlueSaffron
Bluelighter
That's because women are thought of as the gentler sex.. most of the time we are. But don't underestimate us. There are women who can and will fuck you up and smile while they do it