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ControlFreak

ControlFreak

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Alright, I'm not sure if this is the apropriate frums to discuss this, But has to do with weed, so I thought it would be alright.


I'm 30, and I enjoy to smoke my bong when I'm not working, just relaxing. and my girlfriend that I been in a serious relationship with her for about 3 years now, she did not mind me smoking weed, she is cool about it, but because she can't smoke the bud, cause they started something new at her work, they drug test, so she doesn't want to risk it, I feel that she is making presure on me, for me not to smoke anymore weed when I want to kick back.


Has anyone in here been in a situation like this, how do you deal with it, if she says weed makes me a different person, she kinda plays with it a bit, but I feel that she is doing everything to make pressure on me to just not smoke bud. says the house stinks, I don't think the weed smells bad, so alright, I got incense to cover that, and then she says when I go to kiss her that my mouth stinks, even when I brushed my teeth just a few minutes ago, I just smoke weed, thats it.


Can someone help me here, advise me what should I do, I feel that she is being so serious, and she doesn't know how to undwind, she was more laid back, now she is acting sometimes like a biatch, but I do love her, by the way I'm a scorpio and she is a Leo, Cold Vs Hot, thats what I heard, that Love can be accomplished but relationships will have many hardships.
 
Hmmm - nasty situation and one I can most definitely relate to. Sadly I think the only resolution will be to give up smoking if you're serious about her.

Doesn't mean you can't get bent though: get yourself a vaporiser and you're good to go - no smell, no bad breath (believe me it's there - I can smell it from here :) and you'll be doing your body a favour.
 
Vape is a perfect idea, at the very least if you go out and get a vape, then all the bullshit excuses will stop.

Sounds like she just doesn't want you to bake anymore just because she can't though, or did I read that wrong? She never cared about it till she couldn't do it anymore?
 
Yeah , Thats right she is like if I can't smoke weed, I won't let my boyfriend smoke weed.

That is being really bitchy, I hate that.

I think I can chill on my days off. She is cool, she just made me a sandwich, and I'm alright with it, but in the other hand she looks at me funny, when I smoke from the bong.

Is like brain washing me I think.
 
thats what girls do to you..



they take you over. get used to it..

or say no im smoking i need it, and get a vaporizer like ppl say.. you can also make one very easy and it wont cost a thing. works like a charm too
 
let her get over it man. I think she's being a little inflexible on this situation. just because she can't smoke anymore is no reason for you to stop doing something you enjoy. My wife an I have been together 30 years. over that time there have been several instances where our pleasures have parted. We have to respect each other. there's no other way.
 
papasomni said:
let her get over it man. I think she's being a little inflexible on this situation. just because she can't smoke anymore is no reason for you to stop doing something you enjoy.
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Seconded. However, do not do it at a time when it could be misinterpreted as rubbing it in her face (that is, when you are both home and free).
 
^^^^ just Genius.

I would never think of that, I would think that lighting up a bulb it would crack because of he eat.

going to try it tomorrow, sounds like you burn better the weed, and lasts longer than the bong.
 
ControlFreak said:
^^^^ just Genius.

I would never think of that, I would think that lighting up a bulb it would crack because of he eat.

going to try it tomorrow, sounds like you burn better the weed, and lasts longer than the bong.
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I know EDIT stocks some decent vapes. If you want to get nailed on a decent vape head over to them.


Most online headshops stock them.
 
I know of a good headshop,

I live in the UK, how much they run for?

I'm just afraid I will break the bulb with my hands, and cut all my hands doing this, althought looks easy in the video
 
I think it is very big of you to be willing to change the way you smoke weed in order for you to get along. and I hope she sees it the same way.
 
dont worry about breaking it, i do it all the time, and hold that flame super close. as long as you give it 30 seconds to cool off at least you'll be ok.. im thinking it would be better with a high watt bulb too. but dont worry about shattering the bulb. dont spend money on a vaporizer when you can make one that is just as great for free, especially since you havent used one yet. its a different high then normal.. vaporizers sell pretty high anyway (although it is a good investment). you save a bunch of money and bud since u barely use any bud at all
 
I'm rather excited now, knowing about this.

I got a 60Watt bulb, does it work with hallogen bulbs from Phillips?

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wow man, that sounds REALLY annoying lol. I already hate it enough when girls who DONT SMOKE criticize and get mad...

well, i guess this explains why u are able to have a long, healthy, good relationship....and the longest ive been in one is like 2 months lol!
 
Most of you have no idea,work it out with her, don't lie or hide it . Lying will definitely not help anything, it will only cause more trouble when she catches you doing it, because she will. and lying is a shithead move anyway, dont be a fuck.

if she cant do it, and asks you to stop,you could also respect her wishes and stop for a bit with her. its just weed, dont let it get to the point where your getting conflict between your weed and your loved one. if you really care about her youd work it out, like with that vape idea
 
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thats not a halogen bulb, its a compact florecent and no. you need a incandecent bulb to have the proper shaped chamber.
 
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