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[cutecute]

I posted a few months back about a German exchange student that I met and planned to travel with and everyone called me creepy (since I was being fucking creepy since I knew him for a week and I was posting about him on BL) but...we actually did travel the US together in a VW bus for five weeks and it was incredible and we're now in intense like with each other. The unsavory part is that he moved back to Europe to finish university and I'm still here in California. While we were traveling we of course fucked all day and night and the blowjobs flew like hotcakes since we both are young humans who enjoy sex. Obviously, the 5164 mile distance doesn't allow this now...

Deutschland and I have been Skyping every few days and today I was fresh out of the shower so he asked me to drop my towel and I got naked for him and did some light teasing/touching. He wanted to take things further but I thought it was awkward and I'd never done anything on cam before so I used the excuse of having no privacy since I'm staying at my parents' house and put my towel back on and promised we could do it another time. Then my mom walked in .

I felt massively awkward even thinking about doing anything on cam and I'm not sure why. I let him watch me in rl (while he was driving ) and don't think that's awkward...and also love sending nude stills. I'm not self-conscious about being naked. I wish I felt sexier being on cam for him but I guess I just feel sort of stupid with someone watching me masturbating in front of my laptop. Also, I don't think watching a man masturbate on cam would turn me on, even if it was Deustchland. Does anyone on here masturbate/do strip shows/etc. on cam with their significant other? If so, any tips please? And thanks if you read this far.

**I'm aware of the risks inherent in being nude/engaging in sexual acts in a recordable setting. If you want to give input regarding this aspect, you're welcome to do so, but I don't wish for it to be the focus of the thread. I really don't mean to seem like a douche who thinks they know everything and doesn't appreciate caring and protective advice. I feel that I can trust this person and if I'm wrong then I will deal with it accordingly. Anyways, there are probably already videos of me rolling around naked/on drugs at festivals online already. Thanks!**

 

[Jean-Paul]

i did that some in high school when i was more interested in the older guys i talked to online than the idiots at my school. and drank a lot in secret. some screenshots were taken and passed around in that community when i was blacked out one time and turned the cam on for someone i didn't really talk to/trust. so i have some feelings against it.

recently i got on cam for my ex and got the tits out for him. like...5 times? after a personal crisis he went through. i'm okay about it but it still feels a bit shit and like...i don't know. i don't think i'd have a problem with it at all if we were together. it is a bit ridiculous but nowhere near as ridiculous as just phone sex. no regrets about it really.

to each her own.

 

[Stoned Immaculate]

With someone that you are seeing/know you can trust, then it's totally OK. It can be somewhat awkward at first though. My ex and I would do it once in a while when our week was so busy that seeing eachother was out of the question at that point in time. It can be fun and especially in your situation, aleviate some of the pressure distance can bring. I wish you the best though and should you choose to pursue this, I hope you guys are able to be successful at it

 

[Ike69]

Im in a long distance relationship and I love when she sends pic's and/or video. Gets me through another day without her.

 

[llama112]

Practice makes perfect!
It's not going to feel natural at first, but that's expected. Don't do much more than you're comfortable with, but I'm sure your comfort level will change after time.
I have done this at times when my boyfriend and I lived further apart and didn't see each other much.
Yes of course there are always chances of you ending up randomly on the internet but if you trust the guy then I don't think it's that big of a deal. It's when you're webcamming with strangers and whatnot when that becomes more of an issue. But with someone you're dating? Definitely not as much to worry about!

 

[BeachBum4u]

I would think Skyping with your long-distance lover would be a great way to part the distance, so to speak. I don't think that's a recording per se but I'm no computer wiz. I'm sure it may feel strange at first but once you get going, I would bet it's pretty sexy. You never know till you try, right?