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ok so i have lots of spare time on my hand lately

i have been roaming around the web on some live sex chats (webcam girls) just browsing around seemed cool and the girls are dolls .

so ding ding ding i got an idea.
im hot , i like sex , i have time and i need money . im not scared of exposer and im not sexually shy.
so i signed up

and i like it !
its chilled i just touch myself (which i do lots of anyways ) and the money comes in just like that !
fcking cake

butttttttttttttttt..

i havent told my boyfriend , i dont know how he would take it, it is seriously harmless very anonymous and they gave me the option to block anyone from or near my city.. so you know word wont spread like wild fire lol in my area .. (i know lots of ppl)

i really want to tell him but i think i will bring it up once i have a fat check so he can kinda be like ehhhh? i dont know ... but its something i wanna do regardless

fuck i dont know how he would react it can be either really bad or hell just laugh it off .

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what do you guys think of this ?
what would be the appropriate time to tell him (i hate secrets )?
what do you think of cam girls ?

i feel as if im not doing anything wrong , i just enjoy touching myself and hell if i can make money, i dont see these guys i just flick on camera play with my self and .... walaa

advise needed
 
I would feel pretty betrayed if my significant other did something like this without talking about it with me first. I definitely wouldn't be happy when she finally sprung the news on me.

As to what I think of it? I don't judge. It's like the modern version of stripping. You're selling visual sexual stimulus to strangers for money. If you're ok with it then it's nobody else's business. Well, except your boyfriend. ;)
 
It's shitty to show your goods to every saggy balled male on the planet and keep it from your BF. Seriously, not cool. You need to tell him, because no matter how anonymous you think you are, you're on the Internet. Someone is going to recognize you. It's better he hears it from you and not some stranger on the streets.
 
GenericMind said:
I would feel pretty betrayed if my significant other did something like this without talking about it with me first. I definitely wouldn't be happy when she finally sprung the news on me.

As to what I think of it? I don't judge. It's like the modern version of stripping. You're selling visual sexual stimulus to strangers for money. If you're ok with it then it's nobody else's business. Well, except your boyfriend. ;)
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This.

I'd be pissed off.
 
You should discuss this with him. Secrets don't make for healthy relationships.

What we think really doesn't matter. I wouldn't be very happy with my other selling herself online. Her gorgeous body is private to me, I wouldn't want to share with anyone else. No matter how anonymous it might feel because you're separated by a computer the first time someone recognizes you the whole project is going to feel a lot less private.
 
Is your face in the camera's view? Keep in mind that some guys record these webcam chats and post the videos online.
 
It's definitely something that should have been discussed beforehand, but I honestly wouldn't have a problem if my girl did something like this (as long as she was getting paid decently). I think it'd be kind of a turn on knowing that I was sleeping with a girl who tons of other guys jerk off to, wishing they could sleep with her.
 
tell your bf asap. you don't want him to find out from another sources! you want him to know from you.
 
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I can only speak from how I would feel and I can tell you I would not be a happy camper. I'd probly get a second job before I allow my girlfriend to strip for money.

Then again not everyone thinks as I do so yes, talk to your boyfriend.
 
umm not sure...

I think it depends on your(you two) ideas on a relationship. This could be cheating and it would be for me. I would leave you. I would rather be alone(as much as that sucks) than have my girlfriend/wife having sex/prostituting on the web cam. I would be insulted. I think you do it because you either having problems(fighting, sex not so good ect), or you found your sexually turned on by it. You said you tried it, so maybe you found out its great. On the flip side of this if you tell him now you are going to have the same fight(maybe big) that if he finds out on his own. Basically your choices are you fight now, you fight later (when he figures it out or you tell him), or you break up and he never finds out. If you guys have the swinger realationship he'd probally be ok with it. You two know your own rules as a couple. Also, people record that stuff and like pictures could be all over the internet. Not trying to make ya feel bad/guilty. I probally wouldn't tell him...fight later. good luck in what ever you decide. keep us posted on how it turns out. If you can record it and post it up8)...Jim
 
If my gf wanted to do this I would back her 100% as long as shes not selling herself for actual sex. As long as she came to me & discussed it first, then I have no problem, heck.........I would be the camera guy! Its only visual & you are not having sex with these guys, I see no harm. Also, you should definitely block any users from your area, last thing you want is your uncle watching you play with your pussy.
 
Just be honest... say he tells you to stop... will you? Me personally, Iwouldnt have any issue with it... no diff than playboy or sports illustrated or anything else that people buy to look at hot girls... to me its simply "a modeling job" your not touching or even around anything but a comp... no harm no foul...
 
honestly if my girlfriend tells me, i honesty wont mind.

it's not like you're in actual contact with the guys, they are far a way.

I am actually surprised some of the guys here actually care.


how much more longer are you planning to do this? and how serious is your relationship??
if it's very serious, tell him, if he doesn't approve, then it's up to you if you want to quit or not. so its either him or your job..

you can always test him, tell him one of your friends does this, see how he reacts.
 
No harm

I don't think what you are doing is that bad at all. You are in a room alone being paid to do something you like doing anyway. No man is getting to touch you or anything,so where is the harm. You know your boyfriend better than we do so I guess you just gonna have to bite the bullet and tell him or stop.
 
Nobody asked the question of how serious are you with your boyfriend.

Do you live together? Does he actually provide support for you, or you for him? Otherwise it's your body, and your life. You don't owe him and explanation for the choices you make if it does not put him at risk for anything.
 
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