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wat u thnk more worthing: dream girl (most. sober) or great lover (follows yr craves)

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My dear ones,

If you had to choose between:

<3 Your absolutely, no doubly dream girl - the one that makes you another (much better man) because, among much other things, she deserves the best and you're more than willing to be that man, because she represents everything good that you miss in your life.

*tho who know how is she sexually (we've never been together, but theres a very noticeable bond - i feel it, others tell me)... and if she's not complete me that way... or even worse, if we fall in mediocrity and fail to improve. will i ever cheat on the woman that i care the most and hate myself?

OR.....

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The perfect lover, who follows you on your pleasure seeking, incl the occasion chemical enhancer, who can be your friend, your mate, and satisfies you in evey single posible way

*tho, tho i sincerely doubly i would even fall in love with her one day, i just don't feel that je ne se qua tha makes me even get high...naturally...legit

Well if anyone had lived this before, sharing your experience would be much appreciated. Actually i may (and probably will) chance my life entirely, depending on what I hear. I feel like this is the moment. The moment I reach the crossing road. It feels like now or never, after all, live doesn't give you a scrap book, right? So please be kind and time your time to answer (maybe let it done another more appropriate time, but please be sincere and open. This is really important.

Thank you all for you time,

I'll try to retribute whenever I can with you guys.

Many thanks and have a good one every one!
 
so one is a fantasy idea of you becoming a better person that is more conceptual than reality. an idea of love

the other one knows who you are and what you are about and is great on paper but you dont care that much about her.

i would go for the second situation as the relationship sounds more honest. BUT you have go for the one that stirs feelings of love because you can't fake those...
 
id say go with dream girl (also you dont have to cheat on her, you can break it off if your unsatisfied), because sex without love would get old for me after a while
 
i never been in a cimmited relationship and i don't intente to cheat. i only hope i break up before i do anything i find unstoppable

you got me completely.
the first one is that one disney like fantasy when everything is lovey, perfect, innocent (at that my friends is where sex life might fuck up)

the second one is amazing in bed, a great person, an amazon friend, grant company, above average hot,,,, barely perfect... except that i don't feel doped when i talk to her

Still im gonna try the second one.. i fee like there will be another (almost)perfect friends.lovers but only one like that
....

But before, i'll make myself worth it. baack to the gyym, heavily, study 90% of the time, taking care of my self
anought with the vacation break

I usually take a 1week a year to go grazy, drink, regret drinking, redoing it anyway... lol you knw what it means. That actually works for me. I reduces my drinking to a minimum compared to 6-8 ys ago, although whenever i drink i slightly overdue it... lol but still better than having a drinking habit

Anyway thats for the tips, I will give it a think I really consider it. act im thinking about it for almost a decade now, e besides this being prop the worst timing ever.. somethings thats just the way it is. a least i'll can say that i was brave when i did it lol

nyway thats for the tips, I will give it a think I really consider it. act im thinking about it for almost a decade now, e besides this being prop the worst timing ever.. somethings thats just the way it is. a least there is something brave in it i did it lol
 
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The Military could use a man of letters such as yourself. You could easily have your cake and eat it too there. Spreading your worthless seed across all the nations, while having a wife who adores you back at home, and who has the bumper stickers to prove it. Plus I hear the Military likes tweakers.
 
more fit body.... nobody care if your genetic ancestor thousand years ago was passionate soulmate who never cheated or egoistic violent rapist,on other hand everybody care how good their genetics are
 
Lust doesn't last, especially if there isn't anything else to support it. If you can't ever see yourself loving her then why would you give up a possible lifetime of love over a few nights of passion? Number 2 sounds like an inevitably lonely existence.

You and your dream girl can grow together if you both choose to make the effort to stay fulfilled. It sounds like you have the right foundation, you just need to keep communicating with one another. Although, if you're already worried about cheating then I have to wonder how deep your love actually goes.
 
I have that dream girl now, it's worth it. Although I should mention she's the best fuck I've ever had. She's ok with some occasional pot, mdma and psychedelic use....and possibly adderall/vyvanse use. Absolutely no needles, opiates (besides my subutex), MXE (the hardest to give up), coke, meth, random RC's etc.

It's worth it. I've pissed away the past decade of my life, never sober for more than a few months, constantly moving, constantly nearly homeless, just an awful existence. This girl has shown me another world. Shown me the parts of me I thought were long dead.

Take a chance, see if it feels right. If it doesn't work the drugs will always be there waiting. I'm so stoked I took a chance on a dream girl.
 
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