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Waiting 30 min for make up sex

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Last night me and the girlfriend had a little spat, all sorted, started kissing etc. and it was leading to make up sex.

She said go and take a shower (my girlfriend doesn't relax 100% in sex if she and I haven't had a shower prior which is all ok by me). I agreed and she told me that while I'm having a shower she would call her friend as she had promised to call her back and she would be 5 min and she would be off the call when I got out of the shower....no quams by me.

I had a shower and waited in the bedroom. She spoke on the phone for 33 min. At this point I lost my cool, lost all motivation for sex and just hated her.


How should me reaction be?
Not worry?
Have sex later (as she suggested during the argument relating to this)?
Tell her she's a bitch?

What?
 
sounds like she wasn't over the spat and you were being punished. i'd be pissed, too. talk to her about it and let her know it upset you.
 
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a girl and her friend had a longer conversation than they expected. calm down. think of the reaction that's going to get you what you want the quickest.
 
I'd probably feel upset too if that happened.
And we can't tell for sure if your girl purposely made that phone call long or not.
I'd say it would be easiest to just get over it. Yeah, it's frustrating. But I don't think it's worth the argument or something. If there are other problems in your relationship then deal with that. But this? Not a big deal ... I wouldn't think so ... annoying YES but not really a big deal.
 
Most guys don't like being deprived of sex, but it's not something that warrants an argument over. Just drop it, if it seems as if she starts doing things just to spite you, then bring it up, but until then.....that's just relationships man
 
I would probably feel really annoyed if that happened to me, but if you look at the bigger picture, you should have just kept your cool. Just go in the other room and try to calm yourself down. You can always initiate sex again later. It's these small things that just aren't worth staying upset over.
 
You should have walked out of the bedroom naked after about 15 minutes and gotten something to drink to remind her of her word.

or just put your dick in her mouth while she was on on the phone. That will shorten a conversation. :D
 
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At first I didn't have much to say about this thread so wasn't going to respond...

Then I realised you've started several threads about you and your gf having different sex drives and you generally wanting more sex than she's giving you.

So I wonder if this is actually part of an ongoing issue and that your frustration about her and sex (and being made to wait/ her using sex as punishment etc.) is not just about this one incident?

Just asking, because if it's an isolated thing it does seem like you're over-reacting, but if this happens a lot if different ways around sex I can see how you're get resentful. However you've made it clear in previous posts (again, assuming this is the same gf) that you weren't going to break up with her over this, so you two will have to find some sort of a way of communicating like adults about your different sexual needs in this relationship and how they can be met, preferably before you drive each other mad and bitter.

For the record, I don't do make-up sex - me and the bf generally fuck like rabbits anyway and we haven't had a "proper" fight yet (I'm sure it'll come, it's only been a year), but in past relationships I've been waaay too upset and hurt to get close to my man straight after an argument, especially if really hurtful/spiteful things were said. Just saying.
 
Why are you asking other people how you should feel? That's more hilarious than the holocaust in itself
 
alasdairm said:
you hated her for being on the phone a little longer than she said she would be. maybe her friend needed her.

you asked for opinions. i think you're being childish and unreasonable.

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Or maybe she needed to talk to her friend after having a fight with her boyfriend.

Calm down, you're overreacting.
 
I hate to break the bad news to you bro, but this girl is cheating on you.
After reading it word for word, this story of yours sounds incredibly disturbing.
The older you get, the less you will put up with bs like this.
 
^clearly.

firefighter said:
I would probably feel really annoyed if that happened to me, but if you look at the bigger picture, you should have just kept your cool. Just go in the other room and try to calm yourself down. You can always initiate sex again later. It's these small things that just aren't worth staying upset over.
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agreed. take some deep belly breaths and cycle that pointless shit out of you. invite her back to bed and at least cuddle up with her. perhaps it would all be rekindled once you're nice and cozy.
 
I would have walked up to my wife with my boner and inserted it in her mouth or turned her over while on phone and reemed that pussy...lol
 
your reaction is over the top. why would you hate her because sex was delayed by a few minutes. if you had to wait three days then maybe i could see your point. some people take 20 mins in the shower so maybe its because your shower was too quick.

stop being such a child and get over it
 
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