well my girlfriend has been sober from everything for 5 years, mainly meth ruined her life for a while (along with alcohol and ecstacy) it was the darkest part of her life and she takes much pride in her soberness.. well i absolutley love rolling and its honestly one of the best things thats happened to my life, i feel its truly made me a better person while doing it occassionally.. shes going to a big music festival with me soon, and im pretty sure she assumes im taking molly (we never usually talk about me doing this stuff due to her past) but do u think it would be a really bad idea for me to offer her some molly? i feel it could really make us bond closer as a couple, but theres the possibility that she may see me as a threat and scare her away.. opinions?
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unacceptable to ask GF if she wants to take MDMA?
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How long are you together, if I may ask ?
Some personal thoughts:
if you don't even talk about *you* taking mind-altering chemicals, even one that is so widely available/accepted, how can you even think about offering her some ?
WHat do you mean about offering btw ? Just wait till you are at the festival and say "hey wanna take some drugs?" This should be something you talk about at length first, at your home. And not just a few hours before the festival. Like, weeks before, IMO.
You are using a message board as a means to find out whether or not MDMA could enhance your relationship. If you are even afraid to talk to her about it, I won't get my hopes up about bonding closer.
MDMA is a love drug, but I experience this effect more when I take it at home, with only my girlfriend present, to travel together to an inner part of the human being. Not with strobes and loud music pulling me into my senses (ego). Again, talk first about these things, that should be the bonding you're looking for. When there's basic trust established, try taking drugs together.
If you want to take MDMA, ask her how she feels about that. You can take it from there to see if she's open to try some.
SOrry if this comes off as harsh but it's just my personal opinion.
Some personal thoughts:
if you don't even talk about *you* taking mind-altering chemicals, even one that is so widely available/accepted, how can you even think about offering her some ?
WHat do you mean about offering btw ? Just wait till you are at the festival and say "hey wanna take some drugs?" This should be something you talk about at length first, at your home. And not just a few hours before the festival. Like, weeks before, IMO.
You are using a message board as a means to find out whether or not MDMA could enhance your relationship. If you are even afraid to talk to her about it, I won't get my hopes up about bonding closer.
MDMA is a love drug, but I experience this effect more when I take it at home, with only my girlfriend present, to travel together to an inner part of the human being. Not with strobes and loud music pulling me into my senses (ego). Again, talk first about these things, that should be the bonding you're looking for. When there's basic trust established, try taking drugs together.
If you want to take MDMA, ask her how she feels about that. You can take it from there to see if she's open to try some.
SOrry if this comes off as harsh but it's just my personal opinion.
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awww.. noooo dont do it. if she actually accepts, she might fall back into her old ways.. or have a bad trip? :S either way, its a risk that isnt worth taking. it would even be nice of you NOT to roll.. and just enjoy the show together..
are u crazy? do u have any idea how many years it takes for brain to regenerate after MDMA and meth abuse? if u care about your gf make sure she doesnt do anything of this kind
these things can fuck ur brain so much that while its reversible the time it takes is so long,that it becomes practicaly permanent,u may not be 90% back to normal for decades
While you're right that the OP probably shouldn't suggest MDMA to his GF, that image you've presented is complete bollocks from a biased, poorly made study aimed to make MDMA look really bad. Misinformation isn't cool, especially on BL.
DOB
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thats truth,but I also saw another study,called lifetime experince meth addicts in my area,and it was pretty similiar the image
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Normally I woud say that as long as your not forcefeeding the idea down her throat then it's fine but since she has had problems with use in the past then I don't think it's a good idea. Had she not been an abuser and she be open to the idea then I believe MDMA sessions make bonds grow stronger and make for very therapeutic sessions that are beneficial to the relationship. MDMA and APB sessions with my girlfriend have helped us break down the barriers and have meaningfull discussions that the sober ego doesn't allow but yeah, this situation just doesn't seem like a good idea. Do you really wanna be responsible for kickstarting a relapse of addiction should this one time session trigger it?
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you can't take pictures of serotonin, its a small molecule, I don't know what this picture is supposed to be of but the heading that goes with it is complete BS. if you radio labeled every molecule of serotonin in a study, perhaps something could look like this…but if that was the case , the study could not be done in humans without killing them or destroying their brain. in short….this picture is bullshit
please delete this picture, it belongs on a christian ant-drug website
it should have one more picture that says "during ecstasy" and the whole image is light purple fully shaded in…lol