fatallyflawed
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I just wrote this and Im TOTALLY stoked about it!! So Im begging a mod to erase any of my other threads so I can stay in guidlines!! PLEASE!!!
I just HAVE to share this one!!
–noun .. minmax_bound="true"> 1. reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.
..> .. minmax_bound="true"> 2. confident expectation of something; hope.
..>
It's unfortunatly not as simple as the definition may imply in my eyes! For a human being to have trust it must be given and earned. It is most definetly a double edged sword. Like a blind man being led by another person....they will still rely on their walking stick to give them the proper guidance, and if you are given someones trust then you cant make it completly unbiased and turn tables by saying "you dont trust me". On the contrairy....I trust you, but why would you give me reasons to think that our trust is being compromised?
When you commit to a realationship and make someone your "all", what reasons do you have for keeping your blackbook with all your old lovers in it? If I where to trust you with my life why would you not trust me with yours?
And much like a plant that needs the water and sun for survival,trust is a constant must in any solid worthwhiled realationship! Even the smallest peeble can divert the mightiest river,but the river will still flow down the path of the mountain. Therefore dont let a hiccup in your trust be something that just gets rid of it....instead continue on your path and reevaluate what is most important to you.
I trust you have read these words and shall apply them.......and trust me when I say that I shall always be here for you!
what do you think guys since I made such a stink about it?!
I just HAVE to share this one!!
–noun .. minmax_bound="true"> 1. reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.
..> .. minmax_bound="true"> 2. confident expectation of something; hope.
..>
It's unfortunatly not as simple as the definition may imply in my eyes! For a human being to have trust it must be given and earned. It is most definetly a double edged sword. Like a blind man being led by another person....they will still rely on their walking stick to give them the proper guidance, and if you are given someones trust then you cant make it completly unbiased and turn tables by saying "you dont trust me". On the contrairy....I trust you, but why would you give me reasons to think that our trust is being compromised?
When you commit to a realationship and make someone your "all", what reasons do you have for keeping your blackbook with all your old lovers in it? If I where to trust you with my life why would you not trust me with yours?
And much like a plant that needs the water and sun for survival,trust is a constant must in any solid worthwhiled realationship! Even the smallest peeble can divert the mightiest river,but the river will still flow down the path of the mountain. Therefore dont let a hiccup in your trust be something that just gets rid of it....instead continue on your path and reevaluate what is most important to you.
I trust you have read these words and shall apply them.......and trust me when I say that I shall always be here for you!
what do you think guys since I made such a stink about it?!
