Going to head to thailand by myself in late may and was thinking about just relaxing on a beach and was after some advice:
where to stay?
whats it cost?
should I book something or just rock up there and look for ?
whats worth a look?
any tips?
thanks in advance.
Firstly, there is a HUGE thread devoted to Thailand in Second Opinion:
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/threads/362427-Thailand?highlight=thailand
Regarding beaches, I've been to Phuket (Patong, Kamala and Coral Beaches), Koh Yao Noi (a small island in Phang Nga Bay) and Koh Samui. If you're after a more of a run amok, then Patong is your place. The beach is teeming with activity and it's like the town doesn't sleep. For something more chilled, Kamala Bay is gorgeous - easily one of my favourite beaches - There is a fantastic resort just across the road too, called Print Kamala - if you book on agoda.com, it was really cheap - you're heading in the almost low-season, so you should get a good price for accomodation wherever you stay. Koh Samui is lovely, and you have easy access to Koh Phangan and Koh Tao (best diving spot). On Koh Samui, Chaweng and Lamai are the biggest and most touristy towns - you're spoilt for choice as to where you stay. Lamai is a little more quiet but you can easily get to Chaweng from there.
Koh Yao Noi is tiny and there are only a few resorts on the island. The beach isn't particularly nice but the view is amazing. It's definitely a far more low-key place to go. If you want Sunsets and beautiful ocean, definitely the west coast (phuket, etc). You could head to Koh Phi Phi too - i've not stayed there but have visited and it took my breath away. Maya Bay (where The Beach was filmed) is gorgeous, but so very touristy, it's worth a visit though.
If you're going in the low season - i'd maybe book a few nights online before you go, and when you get there, you can easily negotiate a corker discount on accomodation - maybe visit a few beaches and see where you like?
Don't fret about street food - just be a little careful of food that hasn't been cooked in front of you - i ate heaps of street food, things like chicken on a stick - but picked pieces that were cooking and asked for those when they were ready.
Make sure you barter, but always with a smile - if the vendor doesn't come down to your price, just smile and walk away - if you haven't bartered too low, they'll come running to you and you'll get your price.
Also, if you're after serious bargains, go to the markets when they first open - the first sale of the day is very special to the Thai people, and you'll notice that if you are the first sale of the day, the vendors will touch their wares with the money as a sign of good luck. I found that you can get great bargains when markets first open.
As for cost, food is really cheap, as are items from the mini-marts (water, etc), don't be afraid to eat at places that don't look like Western restaurants - the most delicious pad thai i've ever eaten was in a little shack called Duck Spicy in Kamala Bay. 2 pad thai, a beer and a sprite cost us approximately $3
Are you interested in going to the northern regions? Chiang Mai is probably in my top 3 of towns i've visited in the world. It's just wonderful. A far more relaxed and chilled environment, the markets are way better, and the vendors are not aggressive. You'll find really aggressive vendors in Patong - they'll grab you and try to pull you into their stores. Thai people are some of the most friendly souls i've ever met - however in Patong, you'll find many rude locals - but that is ONLY because we westerners generally treat the locals like crap. Seeing some of the behaviour, I was quite ashamed to be one. If you're friendly, you'll find friendly faces.
One more thing i wanted to say was wherever possible, don't support the captive animal businesses - such as men who walk around with little monkeys wearing nappies, asking if you want a photo. The animals look terrified

If you want to go on an elephant trek, research beforehand to make sure they treat the animals well. It's a huge problem in Thailand (and in a number of other SE Asian countries). We visited an elephant rehabilitation centre just north of Chiang Mai - with an elephant hospital
