kiely
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Oct 25, 2022
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Every day you wake up and there's going to be less and less of you. You live your life for these people and they don't even remember you and you don't even see yourself anymore. You can just walk out not trying to be admired. Not trying to win anything.
So, that you don't chase identity in anybody. And do not have to curate a self. Do not need applause from anybody. You are gone. Out of Sartre's room. You have left the room.
And this is what no one tells you about being elite. And this shows us. The better you get at something, the fewer people understand what the f*ck you're doing.
You don't need better feedback. You don't need more compliments to make you more confident.
You just need to start deciding. And that is how you walk out of hell.
So, that you don't chase identity in anybody. And do not have to curate a self. Do not need applause from anybody. You are gone. Out of Sartre's room. You have left the room.
And this is what no one tells you about being elite. And this shows us. The better you get at something, the fewer people understand what the f*ck you're doing.
You don't need better feedback. You don't need more compliments to make you more confident.
You just need to start deciding. And that is how you walk out of hell.
