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Social Justice Transgender and gender identity discussion

It’s starting to feel like an @birdup.snaildown vs the world thing in here. Personally I think he’s done a pretty good job elaborating what is now a heterodox view on transgenderism in elite Western circles (media, universities, twitter etc).

However, after re-reading the last few pages I think that his good faith attempts to publicly work through and elaborate a view suffer because of some ambiguity in a few key areas. I also think it’s important to look at the whole picture (if only because some of my views parralel his).

He seems committed to the no-harm principle and would respect the preferred identity of whomever he encountered. That’s more than a lot of people.

He is opposed to the choice to use the no-harm principle being taken away from him either by the state or societal pressure. That’s kind of akin to hating speed limits even if you fully intend to never go above 40 or otherwise be a hoon.

Basically he’s a Conservative in the way imagined by Edmund Burke or Roger Scruton. And an enormous amount of the world is Conservative and their views are becoming illegitimate because they don’t control the institutions that confer legitimacy (media, education, etc). And a Conservative without institutions (of which established gender norms are one) is a discombobulated chap tending towards frustration and possibly anger at social change.

Sorry @birdup.snaildown, I didn’t intend to tell you what you think or give a character assessment. I wanted to support your right to hold heterodox views but point out some of the problematic ambiguity that encourages the pile on.

But I’m a bit discombobulated myself at the minute and hate deleting long drafts once they’re done.
 
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Present the source. Let's discuss it.
there's loads, just google transgender brain physiology.

here is a machine-learning based imaging study that found it was easier to correctly predict the sex of cisgender people than that of transgender people, indicating physiological differences.

here is some graph-theoretic stuff that i have no idea how genuinely applicable it is to studying brains, but it uses a load of metrics and finds differences between trans- and cis- gendered individuals for some of them. but i really don't think that our current understanding of the brain enables us to build a sufficiently accurate graph-theoretic model.

here is a review that claims transgender people have higher 'androgen indices'- no idea what that means but apparently autism is one so another way in which i'm more manly than womanly lol.

ok, i only read the abstracts to the ones above- they are so far outside my expertise that reading the methods would probably not get me far. but using disparate techniques they are all able to find differences between trans- and cis-gendered people.

so just on the offchance, i looked to see if there is any research that i can actually read and assess properly. i found some.

using an ancient DNA sequencing methodology and quite a small sample (which most studies suffer from unfortunately, not just in transgender research, most of the preclinical research i did had ns smaller than these and got published in good journals) then applied some genome annotation technique that is likely dodgy as all hell because all methods like these tend to be, but weirdly are able to produce results that can be validated independently in the lab. They analysed variants that they thought were likely to contribute to sexually dimorphic brain development- they have based some of their decision making on prior research involving rodent models and done some hand waving about their applicability to humans. again, this is pretty typical, i'm just trying to be honest about the studies shortcomings. the authors go on to describe how the variants they have identified affect molecular pathways in different regions of the brain.

take home is they identified 19 genetic variants that may contribute to gender development.

this quote from the introduction of that paper actually articulates why i believe transgender people should be treated with compassion rather than dismissed as mentally ill, especially given that none of the literature i just looked at even suggested that being transgender was a mental illness, all interpreted it as a medical condition:

Despite the well-documented mental and physical health benefits associated with transitioning, transgender individuals do face several unique challenges in their daily lives. They experience increased rates of societal discrimination and sexual violence and are at increased risk for depression, substance abuse, and attempted suicide
 
saying a transgender person has a mental illness is as archaic as the belief in race superiority
 
Why do you care so much what he or she wants to be called and how he or she views him or herself? It's their business, not yours, isn't it?
A) I live in Canada and there seems to be a plan or path to fine/punish people for failing to abide by correct gender pronouns. I also personally know people who claim their pronouns change based on how they feel. So I feel it is essential to speak up about this, so that the laws are not empowering crazy people to extort others through the courts and human rights tribunals for being called the wrong pronouns.
B) I think it's a crazy rewriting of history. It's not unfeasible to want to say you are a different gender now, but to say "hey years ago when I was a famous actress and got awards for it, nope I was really a dude, we need to change history because I changed my genitals"
C) I think children are fucking dumb (unformed brains and shit) and think we should protect them from from danger. Of which the chemical/surgical changes made to children to transition MAY POSE HARMS.
D) I think there is a group of people and organizations who are biased and have perverse inventive to promote this ($$$ and social disruption)
E) I think intersex people are real, and deserve the same human rights as everyone else.
 
What would you guys have said if you were me because I wasn't trying to offend anyone honestly! Could someone help me understand what I did that was wrong and how I would be able to word it next time so I don't offend anyone? Thank you! Just need some opinions on this and how you would respond that way I don't make the same mistake if I made any mistakes that is.
Honestly there is more than likely nothing you could have said that would not have ended in a similar situation. From my experience most people that react like that will do so regardless of how you approach or respond to them. I was born intersex, and have lived as both genders at different times in my life. I have had life long issues with hormones, currently I am having to take testosterone after it crashed to nearly nothing. It sounds like you are a good person and are/were just trying to understand something better and sharing your thoughts. Never let someone like that make you feel like you did something wrong. It seems like so many people just want to claim that something someone said was "offensive" however by calling others racist/sexist/etc all they do is ensure that nothing productive comes out of discussion. I would be more than glad to discuss any of these issues with you, or if you have any questions you would like to ask about it, I would be glad to answer them to the best of my ability. Thank you for being open minded and trying to understand these issues, but dont let others treat you badly or make you feel like you did something wrong by simply asking questions. Its obvious you are not attempting to attack or hurt anyone and simply want to understand. That should be applauded and supported, I hope this has helped to some degree, and hope you have a good day, and look forward to discussing more with you in the future :)
 
@SKL i had not read that far back and have now read your post.

i have not looked in depth into the science- i checked the first couple of links on google regarding the transgender brain and none of them even contain the word 'homosexual' so in my about-to-go-to-bed state i can't assess the accuracy what you say. i would appreciate a reference.
When studied the difference in "brain sex" of the homosexual and trans-identified natal individuals has been at best a matter of degree, and a few neurological correlates of trans-identifion have been found which do not relate to "brain sex" (which is not entirely cut and dry to begin with), for instance see Structural connections in the brain in relation to gender identity and sexual orientation (which studies all four combinations of sex and sexual orientation)—

After controlling for sexual orientation, the transgender groups showed sex-typical FA-values. The only exception was the right inferior fronto-occipital tract, connecting parietal and frontal brain areas that mediate own body perception. Our findings suggest that the neuroanatomical signature of transgenderism is related to brain areas processing the perception of self and body ownership, whereas homosexuality seems to be associated with less cerebral sexual differentiation.

When they are found the differences (structural and functional) between trans-identified and non-trans-identifying males are similar to the differences between heterosexual and homosexual males. The latter difference is more pronounced in effeminate/gender non-conforming (GNC) homosexual men. This rather calls into question the concept of an essentialistically cross-sex brain that causes trans-identification.

On "brain sex" in homosexuals see, among many other studies, Male sexual orientation, gender nonconformity, and neural activity during mental rotations: an fMRI study and Sexual Orientation-Related Differences in Virtual Spatial Navigation and Spatial Search Strategies. The variables being studied here are the same as those being found "female" in trans-identified males.

This article specifically fails to find "feminine" differences in gynephilic TiMs.

Studies on natal females, gynephilic and especially androphilic, as I have mentioned are much fewer. The first study I cited did include them though.
in the case where you state there has been no research i hope you would agree that means we can draw no conclusions.
Well, to some extent. I do not claim that androphilic trans-identified females don't have masculinized brains, but in this whole conversation the burden of extraordinary proof most definitely lies on those who make extraordinary claims. This is not a case of my claiming that the cat meowing in the dark is black; this is a case of my saying that it is probably not a dog. One could say that "the jury is still out on that" but one assumption is definitely safer to make than the other.
apart from you claiming they are problematic i didn't see any evidence or argument in the post you linked to.
Evidence that trans stuff is problematic? (First off, the one post is one of many.) But the most glaring example of harm is the high % of people, especially those who transition young and especially natal females, who later regret their choices and "detransition." The numbers are very high. A significant portion, in fact an increasing portion, of who undertake cross-sex medical interventions (hormones and surgery) regret it. These changes are permanent. Especially for natal females (testosterone in females causes changes which are more permanent than estrogen in males, a higher % of TiFs undergo surgery, to wit, double mastectomy.) Something other than a stable and essential "gender identity" is going on, and it is dangerous. Furthrrmore, the number of trans-identifying young people, and again especially natal females, has increased dramatically, as have the ratios of female to male. For various reasons I covered above, I don't see this as attributable to a situation where social acceptance leads people to "embrace their true selves," but rather what in sociology is called "social contagion," a phenomenon familiar in the study of eating disorders, which, btw, are highly disproportionately found in TiFs, along with histories of trauma, personality disorders, and perhaps most of all, autism spectrum disorders. It would be wise to look for an etiology of gender dysphoria in places other than a theoreotical intrinsic "identity."

i don't know where you are from but in the UK transitioning takes years, its not possble to do on a whim. you have to live as your identified gender for a year before you can even start getting any medical treatment and even after that it is a slow process. i can see there being issues in countries that allow people to rush the process- i'd guess a profit-driven healthcare service like the US is more likely to perform gender reassignment surgery and hormone therapy hastily and in that case certainly agree that is problematic.
Some places in the UK (Tavistock) were going whole hog with excessive and under-screened medical intervention with the young and old. Commendably, NHS recently made this harder to do. You are almost certainly right that profit motives influence the "informed consent" (i.e. cash and carry) approach to "transgender medicine" here in the US. Incidentally, speaking of profit motives, the pharmaceutical industry heavily funds some of the most prominent trans activist organizations, no doubt seeing recent trends as a way to market various (some previously pretty niche) medications.

The issue here might be that language is fluid and, as semioticians have been telling us for years, there is no necessary connection between a word (a sign) and what it signifies. It may well be that the pace of change in language relating to trans people is too fast for your liking [...]

What is happening is that the etymology of ‘man’ and ‘woman’ is in a state of flux and there is no longer or not yet any word (besides the clunky cis-man and cis-woman) that matches the concept of man and woman in your head. The semantic content of ‘man’ has expanded to include certain persons who have, or had, vaginas and XX chromosomes. That genie is never going back in the bottle. However, I find it easy to accept that the meaning of man has changed without accepting that transwomen/‘cis-women’ or transmen/‘ cis-men’ are ontologically identical.

What frustrates me is that I don’t have a better word than cis-x to describe my concept for what formerly meant ‘men’ and ‘women’ to me. But I speak other languages so I have experience in seeing that mental concepts do not correlate to specific words in a conclusive way.
"Male" and "female" are used sometimes to refer to natal sex. I agree that it helps to have other languages (to go Classical for a moment, maybe one could speak of a TiM presenting as a mulier, but certainly never a femina. Perhaps the same goes for TiFs, mas, and vir.) I greatly dislike the "cis" expression, a technical sounding neologism like that doesn't feel right when used to describe the normal baseline condition. I also dislike (but understand that this particular ship has sailed in general discourse) "transman/transwoman." It just doesn't work very well etymologically. "Trans-identified female/male" seems to me like less an abuse of the language, more precise and, of course, as you noted a few pages ago, it doesn't make any ontological claims (either way—while it is more used by critics of transgenderism, as a technical term, it feels the most neutral to me.)

I think you are on dangerous ground with the mental illness argument. Normal/abnormal or normal/deviant are socially constructed categories
While this is true, I wouldn't go full Szaszian on the diagnosis of gender dysphoria. It is a real phenomenon with real clinical manifestations which cause the patient distress. We treat it as an indicator of an intrinsic "identity" at our (and more importantly, our patients') great peril. Transitioning is being sold to people as a cure-all for various kinds of existential angst and anomie, which in turn are being presented as vague indicia of a mismatched "gender identity." This is obviously a load of nonsense: cross-sex medical intervention just doesn't help trans-identified people very much in terms of mental health outcomes, including suicide risk, which is often used as a way to try to make the availability of such interventions "a matter of life and death," which is essentially the same as the perennial cry of the Borderline PD patient, "keep things inside my narrow comfort zone or I will harm myself."

[...] You cannot, call a person suffering from bi-polar disorder ‘insane’ in the workplace if they become manic any longer. But you don’t seem as animated about these kinds of language changes?
"Insane" was never a clinical term. It's a legal one with very specific meanings. "Mentally ill," however, is moving into "person with such-and-such syndrome" type language. A lot of this has to do with the successes that are seen with modern meds in many cases. In the cases that fail, though, and these are ones that people in the field often would prefer not to discuss, political correctness has made far fewer inroads (I'm talking your street schizophrenics and perennially hospitalized people on disability living on societal margins.)

Also, in the treatment of a psychosis my understanding is that Psychiatrists do not immediately confront or attack the delusion. They invest quite a lot of time understanding the delusion
"Investimg quite a lot of time understanding the delusion" hasn't been a part of mainstream psychiatry for a long time. We don't spend much time working through delusion, we just medicate underlying psychosis. Some of this is due to financial (length-of-stay) constrain and some due to the fact that modern medications work and addressing delusions as such doesn't really help the vast majority of patients. But you are right. Attacking delusional beliefs head-on is at best something to be done with caution, if at all. The paranoid should be assured he is safe, for instance, but in general and non-argumentative terms.

A large problem in contemporary psychiatry is an inability, for legal and social reasons, to exercise paternalistic authority overpatients. It's not very PC, but "patients' rights" have rapidly overtaken clinical necessity and left it far, far back in the dust. The same is seen in transgender care, where any sort of screening, even for serious psychiatric issues, is seen as "gatekeeping" and "informed consent" as the sole prerequisite for treatment, is the order of the day in the US.
 
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Despite the well-documented mental and physical health benefits associated with transitioning, transgender individuals do face several unique challenges in their daily lives. They experience increased rates of societal discrimination and sexual violence and are at increased risk for depression, substance abuse, and attempted suicide
The "benefits" of transitioning are nothing approaching "well-documented." This is a common assertion, but you have to cherry pick your studies to get there.

As for comorbidities, it is unreasonable to attribute them entirely to social factors. The etiology of GD is unknown but it is apparent that it is more prevalent in certain populations, e.g. individuals with (inter alia) autistic-spectrum, personality, and eating disorders, as well as trauma and other kinds of body-image problems.
 
I was born intersex, and have lived as both genders at different times in my life.
Thank you for posting and sharing.
Since you stated you don’t mind answering questions, I’m curious as to what differences you found in living as each gender, or was it that different?
Did you feel pressured to choose one gender over the other by anyone?
 
I would be more than glad to discuss any of these issues with you, or if you have any questions you would like to ask about it, I would be glad to answer them to the best of my ability.
I am likewise happy to see you posting here and hope you feel welcome. Like @cduggles, since you indicated you're willing to ask questions, I'd also like to take you up on that. Please don't answer if they feel intrusive.

Transgender activists often point to intersex conditions in constructing their arguments against a strictly biological interpretation of gender.

1. Do you identify or feel fellowship with persons who are not medically speaking intersex but nonetheless identify with the opposite of their natal sex or with no gender at all? What do you think about adding "I" to "LGBTQ," as some do?
2. How do you feel about intersex conditions being used as a point of argument in controversies about transgender identity? Does the existence of intersex conditions really suggest that "gender is not a binary" in cases other than specifically diagnosed intersex persons? (I made the argument repeatedly above that intersex situations are sufficiently sui generis as to not really be relevant to the transgender debate.)
3. "Intersex conditions" is, as I am sure you know, an incredibly diverse category (and one which is rather outside my area of expertise. I began writing this question making reference to specific conditions and was quickly reminded that I am out of my depth here.) Do you think it is still a useful category (I assume you think so as you used it), or would is it useful to be more specific—although I can imagine this might feel overly invasive in some situations?
 
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Thank you for posting and sharing.
Since you stated you don’t mind answering questions, I’m curious as to what differences you found in living as each gender, or was it that different?
Did you feel pressured to choose one gender over the other by anyone?
I lived as a woman for quite a while, but then my testosterone started to increase. This caused me to start growing some patches of hair on my face, and deepened my voice. I could still sound like I did, but it required me to focus on it. As time went on I just did not feel like I presented as female. The most difficult part was I have always dated women. One of the most difficult things I found were things like flirting, it was SOOOOO different as a male than as a female. It was very frustrating especially in the beginning. Not to mention that most of the woman I was interested in were much less interested in me. Also the way men would treat me was very different. In many ways it seemed I got more "respect" and would react very different to me. Such as if I was with a female friend men would speak to me first most of the time. I remember going into a pawn shop because my friend wanted to get a gun. Even though I was not buying it the salesman was nearly totally focused on me and directed most of what he said to me rather than my friend. There are certainly tons of examples of different things, over all I preferred living as a woman. I would say the other biggest difference is how I was treated with children. When I lived as a woman and would baby sit for a friend or picked up a friends kid at school I was barely given a second glance. However as a male I would at the very least get questioned and get some looks, once even had to have the parents call and verify me. Some of this happened at the same school so it was not that it was just due to policy. Also I would notice that after I was living as a male, in general people seemed to have a different reaction with anything to do with children. Having confrontations with men was also quite different, the first time a male got physically aggressive with me was a bit of a shock. I had to learn how to react to those situations and learned that things that I would say as a woman would have very different reactions and/or be taken a different way as a man. As I said before there are so many things LOL, I hope that helps answer the question, I dont mean to write so much on it, but want to completely cover the main things I can think of. It was not anything that I had to do, it just sort of seemed like the right thing to do. I personally never thought the people who obviously present as male and demand others refer to them as female does not do anyone any good. I have more or less learned its almost a subconscious thing, not that people dont try to accommodate people or that people wont do it if and when someone points it out. I just have always felt that in the end its easier to live (at least in a public way) as the gender that the majority of people see when they see me. For awhile I would spend time trying to stay female, but the longer that went on the harder that became and it simply was getting to be more trouble than it was worth, and in many cases not doing any good. At the end of the day the people who know me dont treat me any different, and I am comfortable with who I am, so I felt that there was no purpose in putting in a lot of effort into doing something so people I did not know saw me as a certain gender. A lot has changed in the last few years as well. I might have had different experiences if it had happened today. When I was going thru it very few people had heard about gender issues, being gay had just gotten more mainstream, and some people were aware of transgendered people. However intersex was not something that was really discussed or well known. I hope that covers your question, and hope I did not overwhelm with all I said. If I can clarify anything, or if you have any other questions feel free to let me know and I will do my best to do so! :) Hope you are having a good day, and look forward to hearing back from you :)
 
I hope that helps answer the question, I dont mean to write so much on it, but want to completely cover the main things I can think of.
You could write a book of words and I would read it! 🙂 I think everyone wonders what it would really be like to live as another gender and you’ve done it. Very fascinating points.
At the end of the day the people who know me dont treat me any different, and I am comfortable with who I am
That’s what important and I’m happy you’ve had that experience.
 
@ThePlantofJOY

Thanks for posting. Your perspective is interesting, but (at the end of the day) I'm not sure what it has to do with transgenderism. I try to separate intersex from discussions about trans issues, because I don't see how they're related.
 
I am likewise happy to see you posting here and hope you feel welcome. Like @cduggles, since you indicated you're willing to ask questions, I'd also like to take you up on that. Please don't answer if they feel intrusive.

Transgender activists often point to intersex conditions in constructing their arguments against a strictly biological interpretation of gender.

1. Do you identify or feel fellowship with persons who are not medically speaking intersex but nonetheless identify with the opposite of their natal sex or with no gen der at all? What do you think about adding "I" to "LGBTQ," as some do?
2. How do you feel about intersex conditions being used as a point of argument in controversies about transgender identity? Does the existence of intersex conditions really suggest that "gender is not a binary" in cases other than specifically diagnosed intersex persons? (I made the argument repeatedly above that intersex situations are sufficiently sui generis as to not really be relevant to the transgender debate.)
3. "Intersex conditions" is, as I am sure you know, an incredibly diverse category (and one which is rather outside my area of expertise. I began writing this question making reference to specific conditions and was quickly reminded that I am out of my depth here.) Do you think it is still a useful category (I assume you think so as you used it), or would is it useful to be more specific—although I can imagine this might feel overly invasive in some situations?
Always glad to answer questions people have, I know that people are curious about these things, and so often I see people who talk for me and dont agree with much of what they say, so I feel its important to be as open and speak for myself as often as possible. :)

1. I have identified as a lesbian for most of my life, so I have generally had some affinity with the community. However I am torn about its inclusion, while I think it is good to have a community and that there is some crossover and could be beneficial. I think that because intersex is a medical condition much more than any of the other groups it could cause negative consequences for people who are intersex and the lgbt community. At the end of the day I think its important for the individual person to make that decision. I know for certain intersex people having that community to connect with is vital to there mental health and there social life. For others they are Vehemently against it, and feel used as a justification for others to behave or do things. I am somewhat in the middle, I believe in personal responsibility and dont like it when I hear people blame being, "X" as to why there having issues in there life. Yet they do nothing to improve there life in any other way.
2. I dont feel that intersex individuals should be used as "proof" of there being more than 2 genders. We make up way to small of a percentage. I do believe that whatever gender you are has any bearing on what you can do or what interests you might have. I simply see it as, a thing, no different than if you have green or brown eyes. I think its important to have it for certain things, just like its important to know what hair and eye color you have. I feel its important that people understand that they dont have to be a certain way because they are one gender or the other. However there are things that are medically relevant when it comes to being male or female, and that by adding all this superfluous things onto gender certain people are less likely to have things that are important for them medically, simply because they are so determined for a certain box to be checked. At the end of the day, regardless what people want to call themselves or how they want to live, its still what it is. In a lot of cases I feel like many of those people only harm themselves by insisting something is a certain way, regardless of it being that way or not.
3. Yes it covers a lot of different conditions, I have both issues with chromosomes and some physical differences. When I was born my female parts were essentially "sewn up", and covered by my "scrotum". Visually I look a bit different down there but not overly so, however its possible to feel those female parts, and can be stimulated sexually. (just for the record female orgasms are way better). Hope that answers your questions. Feel free to ask anything else you might want to know, or if I can clarify anything just let me know :) Hope you have a great day, and look forward to talking further!! :)
 
@ThePlantofJOY

Thanks for posting. Your perspective is interesting, but (at the end of the day) I'm not sure what it has to do with transgenderism. I try to separate intersex from discussions about trans issues, because I don't see how they're related.
Well I responded to someone about there experience with transgender issues, then I was asked a few questions. I was not just offering my opinion unsolicited. I never said that it had anything to do with being transgendered.
 
@ThePlantofJOY

Intersex conditions are often cited in discussions about transgenderism. I didn't mean to suggest that you were blurring the lines between the two. On the contrary, you've done the opposite. I value your contributions to this thread, I'm just saying I regard them to be different things. Like you said, one of them is a medical condition. I'm not sure what the other one is.

As far as I'm concerned there are three sexes: male, female and intersex. It's interesting to hear about intersex people changing the gender they identify as, but that isn't the same as a male changing gender.

I wonder if many people who are intersex choose not to identify in one way or the other?

Is identification necessary?
 
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