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Social Justice Transgender and gender identity discussion

I'm not shifting the goal posts lol, nice try. You said all modern radical leftists are neo-Marxists and that's just so patently not true it's almost ridiculous to indulge it with a response. Even then, neo-Marxism is not "part and parcel" with "post-modern" liberalism. They are diametrically opposed systems of beliefs. Liberals are not on the left, "post-modernist" or otherwise. It's as simple as that. They adopt certain tenants from us while disagreeing that capitalism is inherently unsustainable and destructive. They think it can be tamed with regulations, stabilized, and made to benefit the people, we do not.

How would you define the group identity politics among radical leftists, then? Because it's not classical liberalism by any stretch of the imagination.

I don't agree that neo-Marxism and post-modern liberalism are diametrically opposed.

That's fine, I've already taken quite a few courses about political theory and philosophy. But then again, that was at a post-modern Neo-Marxist brainwashing center, so maybe you could grace me with the real truth.

Oh, you're one of those. No wonder you're so hung up on definitions, rather than realpolitik. Don't you see what's happening with leftism in the United States? It shares an awful lot in common with Marxist identity politics. Even if you don't agree with how I put things, your dismissal of the entire framework betrays a deep ignorance on your part.

Lot to unpack here. None of these statements really mean anything concrete. They're so sweeping and vague (presumably intentionally) that they're impossible to really address because I don't even know what the fuck you're actually talking about. They sound like they came from a Jordan Peterson quote generator. I have some ideas, but presumably any thread that I pursue will be met with "that's not what I met", which is a really standard argumentative tactic on the right. For someone who seems to love logic and precise language you're not really using any.

I'm not a member of the right, I'm a member of the centre... but thanks for revealing your own partisan leaning. Only a leftist would make such a ridiculous accusation. You just can't handle the fact that someone might be well read on a subject and come to a different conclusion than you, which is why you have to characterize an opponent as being incompetent or somehow lacking. Typical tactics of the left. You can't handle a mature discussion so you attack the character of your opponent instead.

Did you see me personally attack anyone in this thread? Nope. I discussed ideas and facts, not individuals. This thing you're doing where you make it personal, that's all that leftists do. They can't argue information. They look at someone's personally identifying characteristics and attack those instead. Neo-Marxism at its finest.

The only thing that immediately comes to mind that "Notice how leftists proclaim their group identifiers whenever entering a conversation" could possibly mean is preferred pronouns, which I mean if that's the case a person saying "actually I go by <nickname>" is doing the same thing. It's not a "group identifier", it's what they want to be called. Or do you mean people talking about their sexuality? Their ethnicity? What?

Their whiteness, their maleness, their "privilege" status. Basically, if they are low on the hierarchy as determined by patriarchy theory and intersectional social justice, their opinions are rendered null. Can't count the number of times I've seen well-spoken, educated intellectuals get called fascists just because they are white.

Ok, I think "Neo-Marxism subjugates individual identity into group identity" confuses individualism and individuality. No one on the left is saying that we need to be like the borg collective except black and trans. Pushing to collectivize ownership of the means of production and eliminate prejudice and bigotry does not imply the erasure of identity. This is slightly adjacent to the misconception that people on the left are pushing for equality of outcome rather than equality of opportunity. The former is obviously undesirable and unattainable. One of Marx's most famous quotes "from each according to their ability, to each according to their need" fundamentally implies that human beings are naturally unequal and that they should contribute their unique talents and be provided with their individual needs.

Finally, a paragraph of substance I can actually respond to. You should have just written this in the first place instead of your entire preamble about how educated and superior you are; how I'm a member of the right; and your various other character defamations. You'd look a lot more credible if you just stuck to that.

Ok, there are some things to parse here. "No one on the left is saying that we need to be like the borg collective except black and trans." I don't think you understand what I'm talking about because you keep referring to academic/intellectual framings of the subject, while I'm referring to the social phenomena we are seeing play out in the activist world. No one from the left is going to outright say they support group assimilation, but their politics play out that way. As long as someone judges the colour of your skin, sex, gender, ability, etc. status before listening to a credible argument you have to make, that is radical leftist ideology... no different than how Marxism played out in Russia and China. Particularly, it started with the educational institutions, like we're seeing in the United States. Ideology was peddled before individual thought. The school administrations became hijacked, intellectuals silenced with internal policy, and then anyone who didn't fall in line was purged. Eventually the student body fanned out into the populace and made sure that the general public kowtowed to the ideology: party before individuality. We are seeing many elements of this play out in the United States now. If you don't conform to the ideology, then you get labelled a fascist and they won't even let you speak. They will drown you out, disrupt lectures, disrupt discourse. That's how neo-Marxism operates.

I'm not even talking about economics. I'm talking about social control. Leftists don't have enough brains to form economic policy. This is about feminism and sociology evolving to a toxic platform that is partitioning society into group based ideologies of conformity. They do this through toxic patriarchy theory, gender deconstruction theory, and post-modern feminism. When established identities are erased, then words start to lose their meaning, and then words can mean anything. THAT is the danger. Have you ever tried arguing with a leftist? It's impossible. They will just make you the enemy no matter what you say. The very words you write will be warped to mean something else. That is what Marxists did and it's frightening. It also runs directly counter to individualism. The radical left and the radical right share this in common: they use group identifiers to usurp control. The difference is that the radical right's values are based on traditional social patterns remaining the same, which is also problematic.

The other thing is that you are totally wrong if you think post-modern/neo-liberalism is incompatible with neo-Marxism. Neo-liberalism is a globalist philosophy that is totally compatible with the aims of radical leftism because it sees their version of social liberation as harmonizing influence on all societies.

Your failure here is to distinguish liberalism from radical leftism. I am talking about the latter. I am NOT talking about political liberals. I am talking about radical leftists. I mentioned post-modern liberalism because it includes radical leftism, although leftists tend to warp liberalism into something a bit otherly.

"Also notice how these qualifiers must always be assessed as part of whether or not a person's knowledge is deemed acceptable" is presumably a misunderstanding of the idea that members of certain oppressed groups understand their own unique struggle better than people who aren't a part of those groups. That isn't to say that we can't talk about these issues, and no one legitimately thinks this. I can speak on black issues despite being white and women's issues despite probably not being one, I can recognize and fight against the subjugation of those in the developing world by imperialist nations like the US and China despite never having been to one. I just don't know everything about these issues, and I'm not as intimately familiar with them as I am with issues pertaining to sexuality and gender identity, because those affect me personally every single day. All people ask is that you listen to them, they aren't saying that what you think is less important, they might be saying that it's wrong, but it's not wrong because you're who you are, it's wrong because it's wrong.

That's not true, not in my experience or the experience of many. Leftists don't debate facts on their merits, they debate them based on who is presenting them, i.e. their identity. You're stating things as they SHOULD be, rather than how they ARE. If it were merely a matter of illegitimacy being tied to level of ignorance, then we wouldn't be having this conversation. Feminist patriarchy theory, gender deconstructionist theory, and intersectional social justice theory are levraged as a means to control discourse and thought, and not merely as a means to ascertain ignorance. Many, many POC and trans commentators who have conservative leanings are noting this, not just white folks. The ideology behind oppression is being taken to utmost extremes to silence anyone who shows dissent against the theoretical body politic I just mentioned, mostly being driven by feminist academics.

"Two people can say the exact same thing but one will be wrong and one will be right based on their group-isms.". Yeah this just doesn't happen. This is a sky is green and grass is blue type statement, there's no way to address it.

It happens all the time. I have experienced it many times. I'm not asking you to address it. My posts are not actionable. They are my experiences and observations, which you minimize as Jordan Peterson fandom, lol.

For someone who values individuality above all else, you certainly do give a lot of credence to arbitrary and meaningless distinctions that society (a collective) imposes on us. There is obviously, objectively a difference between sex and gender, and mom/dad obviously refer to gender, but even if you don't believe that, which I'm going to go out on a limb and say you probably don't, why do you care so much what other people call themselves? Who are you to say this? Are you a biologist? a psychologist? Sociologist? No, you're just someone who feels something should be true. Reals over feels smh

And now you have devolved back to your true form... personal attacks. This is a very typical leftist tactic... to find any slight, no matter how small, and blow it out of proportion. You'll notice that I said many times that I do believe trans people exist, but that the matter is complicated. I don't think a pregnant "man" with female anatomy is just like any other man/father, anymore than I think there are only two genders. Both statements are full of cognitive dissonance. The left is OK living with the cognitive dissonance of the first statement and the right is OK living with the cognitive dissonance of the second statement.

It's really entertaining to watch you grasp for any mere hypocrisy you can hyperinflate into some kind of ammunition against my character because you are totally failing at pitching your moral deficits to your audience. It's also really amusing to watch you imply that I'm a member of the right because you lack the acumen to understand nuance. It won't work on me, I see right through you.

Who am I to say this? I'm an intelligent, well-read, sovereign human being with the right to free speech.
 
I think you do have a comprehension problem.

What does being a dad mean to you?

I don't have a reading comprehension problem, I have a problem with the cognitive dissonance being pitched as normal by the media.

I don't care if a trans man with a uterus wants to call himself a dad. What he calls himself and his individual right to expression are sovereign. My issue is with how the media and leftist agenda are attempting to push a generalized cognitive dissonance into the social fabric as a "norm", when it's not normal. Most people who look at that image and read that article are not going to think "Oh what a nice father" without feeling like the statement is wrong. The issue is that most people won't come out and say it because they don't want to be viciously attacked by malignant leftists.

My argument isn't that the statement is 'wrong vs. right', please forget those words. I am talking about the feeling of cognitive dissonance it creates to try and shove that totally foreign concept into a pre-existing social norm like it's no problem. It's going to backfire and in a huge way that could harm trans people.

We all know that fathers don't traditionally have uteruses or get pregnant. This "father" is not the same as normal fathers and we should stop with the charade. It would make a lot more sense to come up with new terminology to describe these people, rather than making millennia's worth of binary gender division dissolve for a very small minority of society. It's artificial and creating a lot of resentment. It's also leading to the rise of right wing extremists.
 
To me, it's not about trying to redefine normal gender. It's about trying to dissolve bigotry and fear against people who do not identify as normal gender. That's the goal of the movement? Are some people pushing too far? Of course, that always happens. it doesn't mean there's some sinister plot to turn everyone trans, or some sinister plot to delegitimize standard gender, or even some sinister plot at all. Trans people (and even gay people in some places) still face a lot of prejudice and bigotry and violence. I'm sure the attempt to eliminate that could be handled in some better ways, but something needed to be done and something in being done. I do not believe that "the leftist agenda" is attempting to make kids confused about their gender. First of all, what would the point of that be? Why what would anyone gain from this? More importantly though, I think there is just a belief that exposing kids to the idea that some people feel that way, and it doesn't make them scary or bad or anything, makes it more likely that this attitude of bigotry will not perpetuate through another generation. You may have nothing against individuals who identify non-standardly, but a whole lot of people do, they really do. It terrifies them and they lash out at these people, who have done nothing to deserve it.

Saying that you can be gay, trans, or unsure/questioning, and it's okay, and that it's okay for other people to be also, is not the same as saying "normal gender roles are not okay", or "you should be questioning" or anything like that. No one is saying traditional gender roles are wrong, or if they are, it's not what most people are saying that support the movement.

In terms of teaching in schools, I would have a problem with teachers coming in and saying to kids "you might be trans, you should question it about yourself". However I think it's a positive thing to say to kids "some people are trans, this is what it is, you should be okay with them and not be afraid of them or look down on them", it's positive for society and does not suggest that they, themselves, are. It merely introduces a concept and allows the idea that it could be okay for others to latch in there before the parents instill fear and hatred. I think the idea that kids are being indoctrinated to question themselves is fearmongering started by religious conservatives who are morally opposed to non-hetero cis-gender people morally in the name of religion. It's not indoctrination to create an army of Satan's minions (as a number of books written recently have suggested - to see just how many books of the sort are being written by religious leaders and scholars lately, just do some community service at Goodwill for a while and sort donated books - it's crazy), nor is it an attempt to indoctrinate a generation of kids into gender dysphoria, which is what non-religious types who are afraid have changed the dialogue into. It's just an attempt to eradicate bigotry and let people know that some people are different and that's okay.
 
The issue is that most people won't come out and say it because they don't want to be viciously attacked by malignant leftists.
You never told me what you think it means to be a dad. Instead, you just become the victim. This isn't a conversation we are having. It's your pity party.
 
Saying "fuck your gender norms" as a response to an attack on the concept of transgender is not the same at all as saying "fuck gender-normative people".
 
If you say so... Either way tho, Foreigner's right tho AGAIN imo. Leftists can't debate about anything without resorting to personal attacks.
 
I would consider straight, cisgendered people more oriented, most-generally, than any other so-called "orientation" or "gender-identity".

Left to their own natural inclination, a "straight" person has a life-style--has correctly identified, effortlessly, what it takes to survive - what path to take to continue life, and what it takes to be happy (which inevitably needs the creation of more life, to continue).

A trans-woman cannot produce offspring, in the way that a woman can. Gay (so-called) people may be able to produce offspring, but if they are coupled with their same-sex, they require the consensual involvement of a third person (and complication of interests, not as much freedom), or failure of others, for them to have offspring, or children.

The most oriented, and correctly identified people are "straight", "cisgendered". But I don't necessarily think that oriented includes condemning others, necessarily. But these are the facts. I don't consider these other paths to be actual "life-paths". I consider them to be sick/perverted, sort of like retarded people, or disabled people (and not that sick people should be ashamed of being "sick", but they/we often are). But these people can also be valuable, and should be loved. But people are very confused how to navigate. I accept that errors are inevitable, and natural/normal, but they aren't exactly what I would want to repeat. I'm sure that being born XY and "feeling more like a woman" - whatever that means, as they start to dress like what society has deemed standard for a woman, or what has become standard, wear makeup, and have long hair and breasts, as if these define or make a woman what she is...I'm sure that being born one way, or becoming disoriented thinking you're "wrong" the way you are, is not fun. How, functionally, can they be considered oriented -- why would they want to be born with a penis, only to take hormones to keep it from growing, to grow breasts that will never produce milk? I don't necessarily think that the sexes are so isolated that we can't feel, energetically, like the opposite, or like both, but I do think a lot of this is just confusion, and just like so many things, a result of limitation of human's being able to think/make-sense of things.

If I could, I would definitely become a full-woman, XX, to change into that, to experience life as that. Not that I have an overwhelming desire for it; it would come with it's own set of difficulties, strengths and weaknesses. I don't imagine being either is really "better". I would just be curious, and am really rather open. But I can't see how chopping my dick off is seen as a life-path, or "oriented", or that I am correctly identifying what I really need to be, if I do that. I also see that my erect cock is designed to fuck a pussy of an XX human, not an asshole, because of what coincides with climax, as well; I correctly "identify", and "orient" myself in the direction that is required for eternal life.

But maybe this exploration, and all of these "errors", are for a purpose (research, information). Forgiveness is something people shouldn't forget to try to do. Repair. Not condemnation. It's all one.

I guess though I see that these so-called "transgender" people are sort of no different than someone that wants to be another species of life entirely, or breath the Martian atmosphere. We're just not there yet.

I do see that especially some people are more "on the fence", in gender, and these tend to be the ones that I see identifying as "transgender", and/or "non-binary". You can see it in their face, sometimes, and in their natural behavior. There actually seems to be a trend of phenotypical differences - not always the case, but often. I guess orientation can be seen as a relative concept, but these people are fringe. Perhaps they have not found, or been offered an alternative path, to feel stable/oriented, identified. Again I don't think it's oriented to be a person that wants to lynch someone just because they're a little odd. Sometimes we just need to let things go. However, when it comes to, for instance, boys and men playing in women's sports, NO. It's complicated. Part of the big issue is how we're all wrapped up into one, with our governments, and societies. So many things really shouldn't be our business, but they're made our business- We don't have a choice. We're taxed for the abortions of others, and if some had their way, sex-changes. It's on our television set, propaganda to normalize accept trans-women as women, even. And so-called homosexuals challenge norms, flaunting it, and trying to marry sometimes within churches, or hiding their "orientation" and status as "married" to one of the same sex, and working at Catholic schools as teachers (who fire them, and "society" gets pissed, and media paints them as evil), and getting mad that the Christian baker won't bake them a cake (try it with a so-called Muslim baker, why don't they). And the entire month of June - my birth-month, is littered with "Pride", and rainbows, and now every time I see a rainbow in June, associated with something, I think it's something to do with Pride (or really any other month when I see rainbows, it's associated, it's been hijacked). So, it was in my face, before I have said anything like this. I thought in response to it.
 
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I would consider straight, cisgendered people more oriented, most-generally, than any other so-called "orientation" or "gender-identity".

Left to their own natural inclination, a "straight" person has a life-style--has correctly identified, effortlessly, what it takes to survive - what path to take to continue life, and what it takes to be happy (which inevitably needs the creation of more life, to continue).

A trans-woman cannot produce offspring, in the way that a woman can. Gay (so-called) people may be able to produce offspring, but if they are coupled with their same-sex, they require the consensual involvement of a third person (and complication of interests, not as much freedom), or failure of others, for them to have offspring, or children.

The most oriented, and correctly identified people are "straight", "cisgendered". But I don't necessarily think that oriented includes condemning others, necessarily. But these are the facts. I don't consider these other paths to be actual "life-paths". I consider them to be sick/perverted, sort of like retarded people, or disabled people (and not that sick people should be ashamed of being "sick"). But these people can also be valuable, and should be loved. But people are very confused how to navigate. I accept that errors are inevitable, and natural/normal, but they aren't exactly what I would want to repeat. I'm sure that being born XY and "feeling more like a woman" - whatever that means, as they start to dress like what society has deemed standard for a woman, or what has become standard, wear makeup, and have long hair and breasts, as if these define or make a woman what she is...I'm sure that being born one way, or becoming disoriented thinking you're "wrong" the way you are, is not fun. How, functionally, can they be considered oriented -- why would they want to be born with a penis, only to take hormones to keep it from growing, to grow breasts that will never produce milk? I don't necessarily think that the sexes are so isolated that we can't feel, energetically, like the opposite, or like both, but I do think a lot of this is just confusion, and just like so many things, a result of limitation of human's being able to think/make-sense of things.

If I could, I would definitely become a full-woman, XX, to change into that, to experience life as that. Not that I have an overwhelming desire for it; it would come with it's own set of difficulties, strengths and weaknesses. I don't imagine being either is really "better". I would just be curious, and am really rather open. But I can't see how chopping my dick off is seen as a life-path, or "oriented", or that I am correctly identifying what I really need to be, if I do that. I also see that my erect cock is designed to fuck a pussy of an XX human, not an asshole, because of what coincides with climax, as well; I correctly "identify", and "orient" myself in the direction that is required for eternal life.

But maybe this exploration, and all of these "errors", are for a purpose (research, information). Forgiveness is something people shouldn't forget to try to do. Repair. Not condemnation. It's all one.

I guess though I see that these so-called "transgender" people are sort of no different than someone that wants to be another species of life entirely, or breath the Martian atmosphere. We're just not there yet.

"Gay" and "straight" are modern inventions. The pre-modern world didn't use these, and the non-Christian/pre-Christian world viewed sexuality on a spectrum. Sexuality was about duties and not about orientations. For example, in many ancient societies, like China and Rome, men could have sex with men, but they still were expected to fulfill their filial duty of having children. So what does that say about "orientation"? Lesbianism has been viewed differently, almost universally. Even during Europe's dark ages, the punishments for lesbianism were not as harsh (and in many areas non-existent) compared to male-on-male sexual relations. Scientifically, same-sex relations between women seems to be different than the relations between men.

Your description of natural limitations placed on gay people is arbitrary for this reason. I've met lots of gay men who have had children with women. Just because you love men and are attracted to men doesn't mean you can't have sex with women. Even in the gay community, people differentiate between "gold star gays" and non... that is, gay men who've been with women before or haven't.

Also your use of the word "orientated" is kind of a misnomer because it implies that gay people aren't orientated, when they are.

I don't necessarily believe that straight people have it better, they just have more established social structures available to them. This can be good and bad. I've met lots of straight guys who said they wish they could be gay because it seems less complicated for getting what they want. I don't believe in the term "cis"... it's totally made up and non-scientific. It acts like trans people are all one camp and cis are another. In reality, trans exists in a spectrum and there are many kinds of trans people. For some it's dysphoria, for some it's a fetish, for some it's a true misattribution.

The labeling schemes of modern liberalism are kind of clumsy.
 
So many things really shouldn't be our business, but they're made our business- We don't have a choice. We're taxed for the abortions of others, and if some had their way, sex-changes. It's on our television set, propaganda to normalize accept trans-women as women, even. And so-called homosexuals challenge norms, flaunting it, and trying to marry sometimes within churches, or hiding their "orientation" and status as "married" to one of the same sex, and working at Catholic schools as teachers

Wow.

Oh my god, you know, by trying to be accepted into society as normal people, those so-called homosexuals and transexuals have really made this my business. Why couldn't they just keep being marginalized and mind their own business? I certainly don't ever make things my business that aren't mine.

Like the validity of someone's own perception of their gender or sexual orientation? Not your business, dude. Your posts are dripping with moral judgement. You're just pretending this is about something else but if you're fooling anyone, it's only yourself.

If everyone just minded their own business in the first place, there would be no need for a "movement" to gain rights for transgender and homosexual people. Just mind your own fucking business. I'm a straight man and I do it. It's not too hard at all. This stuff didn't happen in a vacuum. It happened because of views like yours, like non-gender normative people shouldn't have the same rights as others or are "like retarded people". That's you not minding your own business. Why do you care so much how other people identify? To you, a gay couple holding hands is "flaunting it", but I bet you never think twice about a straight couple holding hands. If it bothers you so much, ask yourself why. Never bothered me. No idea why it bothers you. Should they have to exist in the shadows just because it makes you uncomfortable? That's selfish nonsense.
 
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@Foreigner- I was using terms I thought were used, or might be understood in this context, but am aware of trouble with labeling. I'm also aware of especially pre Judeo-Christian behavior, and I think Vikings had a similar view in ways to what you say the Chinese did. Perhaps due to the needs of a society, men were expected to be with women, to produce children, and to marry one, but some still engaged in same-sex "sexual" activity.

@Xorkoth- I'm speaking subjectively. I don't think it's normal, unless an error is normal - which it is. But it's not what's necessary. It's complicated. I really only care when I read about it, when it's all over Facebook, all over the internet, rainbow Pride (corporation selling something, Taylor Swift selling new album), yada - as I don't see much that I find so offensive in public, and mainly if I do I just go about my business (I've never raised issue, or felt like I had to, but I've not been a business owner or church leader), and when they're trying to pass something like the Equality Act which might lead the way to churches being unable to not "marry" (I don't really believe they can be, actually, married- But what's it your business what I think?) same sex couples, or not being able to restrict a man that feels like a woman going into a women's bathroom facility, or schools not being able to limit women's sports to only XX; if I had a daughter I wouldn't want her playing rugby with a genetic male on the other team, or if she decided to do MMA, I wouldn't want a genetic male fighting her.

I understand the reasons for the "movement", and "visibility" but the pendulum swinging that far doesn't mean it's right-now "equal", or good.

I don't think twice about a straight couple holding hands. I think that's (much more) normal.

As long as we're in a system where we have a bigger government and taxes, and we're plugged in and shackled in ways we didn't opt to be, that make way for all kinds of things out of our control, I do find some issue with so-called "rights" including civil, being the same for people who are married to the opposite sex, continuing a fruitful-upright pattern of life, and those who are not. I think a nuclear family, with a father and mother, husband and wife, and children is the foundation of a functioning society...I think it should be rewarded, encouraged, held up as ideal.
 
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as I don't see much that I find so offensive in public, and mainly if I do I just go about my business (I've never raised issue, or felt like I had to, but I've not been a business owner or church leader), and when they're trying to pass something like the Equality Act which might lead the way to churches being unable to not "marry" (I don't really believe they can be, actually, married- But what's it your business what I think?) same sex couples

Okay you're basically saying here exactly what I said, that you find it offensive for same-sex couples to be in public. Opposite-sex couples get to be in public and it's not a problem. Why does it bother you to see them in public? When I see a same-sex couple being affectionate in public, I think, aww, that's nice, and if no one is harrassing them I think it's really nice. I think the same as I do about same-sex couples. It stands out to me more, because it's unusual, but I don't feel threatened. I honestly do not understand why people feel threatened by it. Again, mind your own business. ignore them if it bothers you. It doesn't matter whose hand someone else is holding, it doesn't matter at all to you. Hold whoever's hand you want and let others do the same.

As far as the church/marriage thing, that's some bullshit when you quote religion in civil rights. Not everyone is Christian/religious and America is founded on freedom of religion so you can't hold everyone to the standards of one religion, that is anti-American. Marriage is not a religious thing, except for some people. Marriage is a social contract that I personally think is bullshit anyway but even if you don't, you don't get to decide what marriage means to other people. That's up to others. Or if you're really dogmatic, it's up to god, and if you're Christian then you should know that one of the biggest things Jesus said is to not judge others but let god judge them, and to love your neighbor as your brother. As a person raised Christian, who moved away from it in terms of belief, but who respects greatly the teachings of Jesus, this is something I know about the religion, but something that SO MANY self-professed Christians conveniently forget. Jesus taught love and acceptance and non-judgement. The Old testament taught intolerance and hate and Jesus was rebelling against that, he was crucified for it. If you claim to follow Jesus, you cannot look to the Old testament for validation of your bigotries, it goes against who you claim to follow.

or not being able to restrict a man that feels like a woman going into a women's bathroom facility

Such a tired argument. If some man claiming to be a woman is going in there to creep, that guy deserves to be arrested. The VAST majority of "men" are going to present as women and feel threatened and uncomfortable in men's bathrooms, rightly so because a lot of men have ideologies like this and hate in their hearts for such people. The "man in the women's bathroom" thing is a tired strawman argument. I'm sick of hearing it, it's a specific unusual scenario conflated to represent an entire group of people. There are already men who creep on women in women's bathrooms, and everywhere else.

I don't think twice about a straight couple holding hands. I think that's (much more) normal.

Case in point, see my first reply.

I think a nuclear family, with a father and mother, husband and wife, and children is the foundation of a functioning society...I think it should be rewarded, encouraged, held up as ideal.

The hetersexual, heteronormative person is always going to be the norm. That will never change because it's biology. The vast, vast majority of people are always going to form "normal" nuclear families, "normal" relationships, be the "normal" gender identity. If you believe otherwise then you've really bought into some bullshit fear rhetoric. It already IS being encouraged, it always has been, society encourages it everywhere we look. The problem is that people who do not fit this mold have been subjected to bigotry, violence, and marginalization for a long time. It's about allowing them equal opportunity to pursue their own path. The fact that there is some movement to let people know that these people are here and it's okay does not represent a threat to "normal" people, it only seeks to dispel the fear and hatred. The few of them that pursue their own path do not represent a threat to "normal" people (to use your words, so you understand what I'm trying to say to you by not using the "scary leftist" terms that make you feel threatened like "heteronormative", "cis-gendered", etc). However the views of people like you represent a direct threat to these few people. And all because it makes you uncomfortable and scared.

See this is why I can't respect the views of those against this stuff (generally "the right" but I'm so fucking sick of these stupid partisan labels that they've made to divide us and draw us all into hot topic debates such as this one - not all on the right feel this way, it's just a convenient rhetoric to quote for people who are afraid and threatened). Your arguments come from a selfish place, a place of "fuck them they're making me uncomfortable and altering my way of life by being obvious about it/throwing it in my face, demanding the same rights, etc etc". ME ME ME. Whereas the other side comes from a place of "let's let everyone have the same chance at happiness, even if it's somewhat inconvenient sometimes for us who are currently experiencing all the privilege". It's a ideology focused on "but what about me", vs an ideology focused on "but what about everyone else?". Is either perfect? No! But I'd sure as hell rather be imperfect on the side of attempting to make things better for everyone else than spend my time trying to keep things better for me than for other people, and fuck those people for daring to try to equalize things. I mean, to get back to Jesus since clearly the religious angle is one you're pushing, from what I have studied of the actual teachings of Jesus (a lot, I was raised Christian to where the church was a multi-weekly part of my life until I was 16), not that angry God vengeance bullshit he was preaching against, directly from the words of the New Testament, Jesus would have wanted you to love the trans and homosexual people as brothers/sisters and reserve judgement. Not compare them to mental retards and judge them as it is clear you do and morally judge them as inferior. That's for god to decide, not you. Your job is to make things better for your fellow man. So many "Christians" forget this, whether conveniently or because they've been led astray. Study Jesus' teachings and you'll see that the Old testament is a context for what Jesus was rebelling against. They're not both equally valid to pull quotes from to justify your feelings.
 
How would you define the group identity politics among radical leftists, then? Because it's not classical liberalism by any stretch of the imagination.

I don't agree that neo-Marxism and post-modern liberalism are diametrically opposed.



Oh, you're one of those. No wonder you're so hung up on definitions, rather than realpolitik. Don't you see what's happening with leftism in the United States? It shares an awful lot in common with Marxist identity politics. Even if you don't agree with how I put things, your dismissal of the entire framework betrays a deep ignorance on your part.



I'm not a member of the right, I'm a member of the centre... but thanks for revealing your own partisan leaning. Only a leftist would make such a ridiculous accusation. You just can't handle the fact that someone might be well read on a subject and come to a different conclusion than you, which is why you have to characterize an opponent as being incompetent or somehow lacking. Typical tactics of the left. You can't handle a mature discussion so you attack the character of your opponent instead.

Did you see me personally attack anyone in this thread? Nope. I discussed ideas and facts, not individuals. This thing you're doing where you make it personal, that's all that leftists do. They can't argue information. They look at someone's personally identifying characteristics and attack those instead. Neo-Marxism at its finest.



Their whiteness, their maleness, their "privilege" status. Basically, if they are low on the hierarchy as determined by patriarchy theory and intersectional social justice, their opinions are rendered null. Can't count the number of times I've seen well-spoken, educated intellectuals get called fascists just because they are white.



Finally, a paragraph of substance I can actually respond to. You should have just written this in the first place instead of your entire preamble about how educated and superior you are; how I'm a member of the right; and your various other character defamations. You'd look a lot more credible if you just stuck to that.

Ok, there are some things to parse here. "No one on the left is saying that we need to be like the borg collective except black and trans." I don't think you understand what I'm talking about because you keep referring to academic/intellectual framings of the subject, while I'm referring to the social phenomena we are seeing play out in the activist world. No one from the left is going to outright say they support group assimilation, but their politics play out that way. As long as someone judges the colour of your skin, sex, gender, ability, etc. status before listening to a credible argument you have to make, that is radical leftist ideology... no different than how Marxism played out in Russia and China. Particularly, it started with the educational institutions, like we're seeing in the United States. Ideology was peddled before individual thought. The school administrations became hijacked, intellectuals silenced with internal policy, and then anyone who didn't fall in line was purged. Eventually the student body fanned out into the populace and made sure that the general public kowtowed to the ideology: party before individuality. We are seeing many elements of this play out in the United States now. If you don't conform to the ideology, then you get labelled a fascist and they won't even let you speak. They will drown you out, disrupt lectures, disrupt discourse. That's how neo-Marxism operates.

I'm not even talking about economics. I'm talking about social control. Leftists don't have enough brains to form economic policy. This is about feminism and sociology evolving to a toxic platform that is partitioning society into group based ideologies of conformity. They do this through toxic patriarchy theory, gender deconstruction theory, and post-modern feminism. When established identities are erased, then words start to lose their meaning, and then words can mean anything. THAT is the danger. Have you ever tried arguing with a leftist? It's impossible. They will just make you the enemy no matter what you say. The very words you write will be warped to mean something else. That is what Marxists did and it's frightening. It also runs directly counter to individualism. The radical left and the radical right share this in common: they use group identifiers to usurp control. The difference is that the radical right's values are based on traditional social patterns remaining the same, which is also problematic.

The other thing is that you are totally wrong if you think post-modern/neo-liberalism is incompatible with neo-Marxism. Neo-liberalism is a globalist philosophy that is totally compatible with the aims of radical leftism because it sees their version of social liberation as harmonizing influence on all societies.

Your failure here is to distinguish liberalism from radical leftism. I am talking about the latter. I am NOT talking about political liberals. I am talking about radical leftists. I mentioned post-modern liberalism because it includes radical leftism, although leftists tend to warp liberalism into something a bit otherly.



That's not true, not in my experience or the experience of many. Leftists don't debate facts on their merits, they debate them based on who is presenting them, i.e. their identity. You're stating things as they SHOULD be, rather than how they ARE. If it were merely a matter of illegitimacy being tied to level of ignorance, then we wouldn't be having this conversation. Feminist patriarchy theory, gender deconstructionist theory, and intersectional social justice theory are levraged as a means to control discourse and thought, and not merely as a means to ascertain ignorance. Many, many POC and trans commentators who have conservative leanings are noting this, not just white folks. The ideology behind oppression is being taken to utmost extremes to silence anyone who shows dissent against the theoretical body politic I just mentioned, mostly being driven by feminist academics.



It happens all the time. I have experienced it many times. I'm not asking you to address it. My posts are not actionable. They are my experiences and observations, which you minimize as Jordan Peterson fandom, lol.



And now you have devolved back to your true form... personal attacks. This is a very typical leftist tactic... to find any slight, no matter how small, and blow it out of proportion. You'll notice that I said many times that I do believe trans people exist, but that the matter is complicated. I don't think a pregnant "man" with female anatomy is just like any other man/father, anymore than I think there are only two genders. Both statements are full of cognitive dissonance. The left is OK living with the cognitive dissonance of the first statement and the right is OK living with the cognitive dissonance of the second statement.

It's really entertaining to watch you grasp for any mere hypocrisy you can hyperinflate into some kind of ammunition against my character because you are totally failing at pitching your moral deficits to your audience. It's also really amusing to watch you imply that I'm a member of the right because you lack the acumen to understand nuance. It won't work on me, I see right through you.

Who am I to say this? I'm an intelligent, well-read, sovereign human being with the right to free speech.

You're pulling the same shit but with more words. Anti-intellectual drivel with no grounding in reality.

I mean, you'll think you've won because of this but I don't really care because you're beyond saving and let's be real no one is coming into this thread on the fence. This is quickly becoming not worth my time so this is really all I have to say:

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If people are interested in my actual points they can read my other posts (including the one with a bunch of citations but lets be real you don't care about science) or the posts of other reasonable people ITT
 
A novel? My post wasn't that much bigger than the one you wrote to me previously.

I see more ad homs, personal attacks, and insults that have no "grounding in reality".

I wasn't trying to "win" anything and I don't think I've won. I thought we were just talking about ideas. You take yourself too seriously.

You can spit venom and arrogance all you want but it doesn't change that you're running away from a good conversation.

But... you know... I guess you're perfectly reasonable and shit.

Ta.


You're pulling the same shit but with more words. Anti-intellectual drivel with no grounding in reality.

I mean, you'll think you've won because of this but I don't really care because you're beyond saving and let's be real no one is coming into this thread on the fence. This is quickly becoming not worth my time so this is really all I have to say:

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If people are interested in my actual points they can read my other posts (including the one with a bunch of citations but lets be real you don't care about science) or the posts of other reasonable people ITT
 
I think a nuclear family, with a father and mother, husband and wife, and children is the foundation of a functioning society...I think it should be rewarded, encouraged, held up as ideal.

The nuclear family wasn't a thing until recent history, mostly in the 20th century and especially during the onset of consumer capitalism. Households were traditionally multi-generational, even with different families living under one roof.

I agree stable families should be encouraged but what that looks like is not necessarily what you think it is.
 
Also, with orientation- In the strictest terms I don't see that so-called homosexuals or transgender people are actually oriented.

Nuclear family- What I mean is a husband, wife, and children. Many of the close families could live close/together. I basically mean that there is a man committed and a woman committed and they are in the simplest most accessible relationship with the parental units, requiring least complication.

@Xorkoth- Do you think that Jesus would perform a "gay"marriage? Do you think that he would be for forcing people to accept them as married? Should a church be pressured/forced into doing it? Should a Catholic Institution be forced to not discriminate, to force them to not discriminate against open so-called homosexuals, who are "married"? Should they sign into law something that could remove protections of these institutions - their ability to follow their religious system? It doesn't matter if you think they aren't following Jesus, or want to shame them into submission- Do you think that government should step in and stop discrimination in this way?
Do you think that government should step in and stop schools from disallowing a male that identifies as a female to play in female sports? Should schools allow it? Schools that my tax-dollars go to?
 
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