you seem to think so as you bring it up at every possible opportunity. this thread started cos you brought it into another thread.
we are on a forum. nobody thinks their opinions matter. or they shouldn't. not here. its fun to debate and every member has a right to. in people's professional lives their opinions hold weight, but on here unless someone has demonstrated expertise that provide compelling evidence of better than lay knowledge of a topic, every opinion is as valid as every other.
I was referring to CEPS, and that was clear enough.
Actually that isn't how it works. Cis people have zero expertise on trans lives, the trans experience, trans discrimination, trans integrity. You are unable to, because you are not trans. Frankly you will never understand it, and that's fine because many people won't. But as I said, trans people all reach a point where we just stop caring about what cis people think about any part of our experiences, because they struggle to comprehend even the most basic aspects of it due to their lives as cis people being so fundamental different. The reason I just have fun with transphobes now is because I don't care. The opinions of cis people carry zero weight in my life at all, why would they? What could they possibly offer me when they come out with another poorly approached arguement about some element of transness? Nothing. There is zero gain for me. So they tell me I'm a woman - lol, I'd like to see them try that in person. So they think I'm mentally ill - I am, but not for those reasons. So they think I'm delusional - I know I'm not. So they think I have an obligation to disclose on the very first date - don't care, probably won't have a second one at my rate so hardly relevant. So they think surgery looks bad - well I can piss standing up with it so I win. So they think we all look like weird freaks - not the trans people I know. So they say we can't play sport as well as cis men - can't undo what I did and have the proof of. So what? Like why should I spare any thought to it? You can't quantify transness and prove you have 'compelling evidence' of it when you can't even tolerate a trans person so conservative that his own community takes issue with him. Like even that is apparently too much. No, you need actual trans extreme right wing panderer Blair White, who in exchange for acceptance by the cis overlords she so desperately wants to become, sells out all other trans people.
You haven't lived it. You haven't even come close. You don't even know what 'horrible transphobia' is, unlike me who cops it left right and centre. Where is your knowledge on actual trans issues that we face in a way which isn't directly related to how cis people are minutely affected by the mere existence of trans people? The wait times for transition, the issues with dating in terms of the emotional strain, the danger, the cost of surgery, sex work as a common profession, workplace discrimination, housing discrimination, overincarceration, massive rates of substance use disorders, minority stress, PTSD as a result of being trans, physical and sexual violence, name change laws, bathroom bills, family loss, homelessness.
But every topic I see on this forum is just a group of cis people trans bashing in an echo chamber with endorsement from staff, while trans members thank cis friends for posting in their on their behalf because they don't want to open themselves up for vitriol and invalidation. Each and everyone, it's never about important trans issues, it's the same discussion over and over again - are trans people valid? Are trans people who they say they are? What is a man and what is a woman? Should trans people have to disclose to everyone that they are trans?
Like honestly what is the net *gain* from having those debates. Plenty of people around the world would refuse to even engage in those topics out of principle. Who is being helped by having those discussions and who is being harmed? Because all I see is cis people having fun feeling like their view is the popular majority opinion, but if any of you came to the discord that wouldn't last long at all. And trans people use the forums less and prefer the discord for that reason. So trans people are being actively negatively affected to the point of disengaged with a harm reduction forum due to how prevalent this issue is.
I honestly just don't see the need to constantly have those debates unless you're trying to prove them all in favour of trans people not being legitimate, or that discussing the actual validity of a group of people is so blase to all of you that you don't even consider that people discussing our validity is what gets us killed. Debating the right of oppressed minorities to exist free from oppression is super fun, if you're not a member of that group. Very daring too.
I mean, why even pretend that cis people have any opinions more than a layman opinion about what the experience of transitioning gender is like?
And I really don't think it is really up to cis people to decide whether or not trans people are valid. Gender dysphoria is accepted as a disorder which causes mental distress. Transitioning has been repeatedly shown to be a far more effective treatment than conversion therapy. Modern psychology and psychiatry are in general agreement, more or less. They made the decision without your input because it wasn't relevant. It never will be.
Can't you all take a break from trans people over in CEPS for a couple of weeks and debate whether gay and lesbian people have any right to exist and whether they are valid? Surely that should spark the same fierce lust for debate.