Flutterbye22
Greenlighter
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- Jul 26, 2017
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I am just wondering if anyone else is going through or has gone through this same problem? My husband and I have been together for 20 years total, and I am disabled with chronic pain and he was diagnosed with congestive heart failure, A Fib and diabetes. I love my husband dearly and have never cheated and I know the same goes for him. Problem is when he was diagnosed w/all this he started on approx. 15 medications and basically the sex stopped 15-16 years ago. He never ever wants to talk about it except to say "its the medications" I can understand that but I to at one time or another have been on medications that pretty much killed my sex drive but it always came back eventually. Before this all happened we had a fandamntastic sex life!!
I even went as far ( 8 yes ago) as to lie to him and tell him he had a routine doctors appointment and me being on disability he thought nothing of me going along. So when we both spoke with the doctor I carefully and respectfully brought up our dilemma. The doctor put him on one of those E.D. medications and I thought OK maybe things will turn around here! One day about a month later found the medications in the cabinet unopened and never touched. You can only imagine the thoughts that went through my head!! ( he doesn't love me, I'm too ugly, ect., ect.) We'll I may never win a beauty contest but everyone especially men hit on me constantly! A lot of them younger than my own two boys! As women go I'm extremely easy going, 99% of the time in a good mood, on and on...I don't want to push him but this is seriously getting on my last nerve!! And yes I have still stayed 100% faithful to him to this day!
Has anyone gone through this and does anyone have some serious suggestions?!? I think I may be a virgin again! LOL!! Thanx for you alls time!
I even went as far ( 8 yes ago) as to lie to him and tell him he had a routine doctors appointment and me being on disability he thought nothing of me going along. So when we both spoke with the doctor I carefully and respectfully brought up our dilemma. The doctor put him on one of those E.D. medications and I thought OK maybe things will turn around here! One day about a month later found the medications in the cabinet unopened and never touched. You can only imagine the thoughts that went through my head!! ( he doesn't love me, I'm too ugly, ect., ect.) We'll I may never win a beauty contest but everyone especially men hit on me constantly! A lot of them younger than my own two boys! As women go I'm extremely easy going, 99% of the time in a good mood, on and on...I don't want to push him but this is seriously getting on my last nerve!! And yes I have still stayed 100% faithful to him to this day!
Has anyone gone through this and does anyone have some serious suggestions?!? I think I may be a virgin again! LOL!! Thanx for you alls time!