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Greenlighter
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Vic, Australia
Hello my friends :D I've been slowly reading these forums in between work and leisurely activies and i've come to really enjoy some of the stories and the help given to some of the related questions. Obviously i'm from s-e Australia and unfortunately I come here more out of angst with a problem i'm having (which i'm hoping I can get help with) than on my own terms.

Regardless, figured i'd drop a quick hello in :) I've already enjoyed my stay as a guest.
 
NSFW:
kangaroo-love.jpg

Better?
 
Couldn't help but laugh at that one. I think i've only seen a kangaroo less than a handful of times, living deep in the suburbs has it downsides I admit.
 
Wow ama....great photo :) Welcome to Bluelight.....one of NMI's own mods is from Aussie country..plenty of folks on here from your giant island.
Island :P I love how outsiders view Australia haha.

All the guys on here seem like good blokes (women too of course), I noticed some quite embarrassing threads made and no one really had a crack at them, not in a spiteful way.

Hopefully this forum will become a time filler for when i'm doing f- all else.
 
Ahhh nice, I just had a breakup/break for what she said to be 2 weeks myself happen yesterday......6 years. Long story but it involved 2 MDPV overdoses, one resulting in her falling and hitting her head.....had two of the worst days of my life.
 
Ahhh nice, I just had a breakup/break for what she said to be 2 weeks myself happen yesterday......6 years. Long story but it involved 2 MDPV overdoses, one resulting in her falling and hitting her head.....had two of the worst days of my life.
That sounds pretty deep, it's quite difficult having CONSTANTLY drug affected partners, had it before, never again. I myself became single around new years by no fault of my own. Unfortunate as it may be.
 
Is being single good in any way?? I am feeling that desperate "I'm all alone" type of feeling at the apt. we both live at. She says she is coming back in two weeks(her parents took her to another hospital up where she is from(5 hours). Meanwhile I have non stop work...which could be a good thing.
 
Being single does get hard at times, obviously the lack of sex on tap is the worst. If your like I am, I honestly wake up usually with a smile, knowing my wallet is relatively full and i'm in a stable situation. Rarely do I roll over on a cold morning and wish someone was next to me, not saying I don't get that feeling but sometimes its nice to be alone.

Once you learn to cope with being single after leaving a long-term relationship, you will most likely meet someone that will kickstart the butterflies, that's what has happened to me. Obviously with my current situation that is the case, people think I am stoned whilst at work (would never be on drugs - I work in and under hoists) as I smile profusely due to the euphoric state im in because I know i'm going to see the person I love when I get home.

The upsides (for us males) that I have found are -
Not having to report in every night about what you have done and who you were with
Not having to spend so much god damn money
Only cooking for one if you do the cooking (which I generally did)
Being able to look AND touch (some laws prohibit this - I would not recommend in some cases)
No extra hassle of going to see them especially when you aren't in the mood
 
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^^Great advice man......you put it in a way that makes 100percent sense to me. Thanks for taking the time out for writing that for me :) I look forward to seeing your posts in the future!!
My girl and I are talking and working it out so hopefully our break will only make us stronger because right now I feel like I can't really live without her.
 
^^I know ama is bluelights best kept secret I swear!! Always has the right quirky picture, saying to make my day. Luckily he posts here in NMI unlike most other members with more than 50 posts(besides mods of course).
 
^^Great advice man......you put it in a way that makes 100percent sense to me. Thanks for taking the time out for writing that for me :) I look forward to seeing your posts in the future!!
My girl and I are talking and working it out so hopefully our break will only make us stronger because right now I feel like I can't really live without her.
Anything I can do to help mate, my reply was a bit delayed but I will try and help in any way possible, coming from someone with decent relationship experience.

Thanks for making me feel welcome as well guys, much appreciated :)
 
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