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You have no responsibility in terms of privacy and confidentiality. Besides which, you've already said he said it "over and over" and you made a thread that openly criticizes two members of the forum. You're clearly not concerned about releasing details about Portillo or me. You've already done so. The ONLY reason you won't say how many times he said it is because the number is very low. It was three, wasn't it? or four? I'll just send him a message and ask him then post it on here. I'm positive that he wouldn't care. You've already humiliated us enough. Why would a number change any of that?
 
Go on and on. Have fun with this :)

TheDeceased said:
and you made a thread that openly criticizes two members of the forum.
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No, really no. The complaints were made about moderation. I did say something to you in one thread about your previous posts. When you went on about the matter I plucked my post and yours from the originating thread to another. I started nothing about the other poster til he complained about his UAed post. I plucked that out as well.

I didn't disappear anyone's complaints i just moved them to a space for complaining.

You make continuous accusations that are only half-true at best.
 
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I posted it, then when I came back I was surprised it was gone so I wrote it again. It was my answer to the question, it wasnt a mantra that was written over and over again. In fact it was probably the first time I had ever written it.
 
Neither of us did anything wrong. Portillo is quite happy for you to say how many times the supposed mantra was written. I asked him and he said three and one of those times was because it had been deleted. So that's twice really. Not grounds for a moderator to step in my opinion. Portillo doesn't post a whole lot of crap on this forum.

You make continuous accusations that are only half-true at best.
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No. They are true. You made a thread about me and Portillo, then you moved it into this one. You were insulting and patronizing. You called me a drunken idiot.

None of these accusations are half true. And even if they were, it's still not the right behavior for a moderator. I never did anything offensive in your sub forum. Ever. Yet you offended me. You hurt my feelings.

Your language was arrogant and condescending.

Maybe you think I'm the same way but again I have not done anything within your jurisdiction. And even if I did and I was an asshole to you (which I wasn't), then why stoop to my level?

Whichever way I look at it, you were out of line.

The only reason your offensive posts haven't been deleted is because you're part of the in crowd of this forum which is rapidly becoming a dictatorship. Which frankly (other moderators) is really fucking pathetic.

Bend the rules for those in power.

Fascists.
 
Sorry.

Fuck it. I was being a petty little bitch. I deserved the comment more or less. I still think it was a little harsh and it really did hurt my feelings but I've been really fucked up recently and I think maybe I've been taking it out on people/ lashing out. I really don't mean to. I've been doing it to people in real life too. I'm just a bit fucked up and I am always drunk and stoned.

I humbly apologize and I take back everything I've said.

I will try to compose myself and treat everyone with respect.

I will do my best.

<3

I guess nobody is really particularly intelligent when they drink and smoke themselves into a stupor every day.
 
OK, I too was out of line on several counts. I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I will work harder on being less reactive about stuff that doesn't matter.

TheDeceased said:
I will try to compose myself and treat everyone with respect.

I will do my best.
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Me too. I should have apologized, smoothed things over earlier. I have developed a bad attitude in this forum because the one word responses and low content/intoxicated posts were unnoticed by me when not modding here but have really gotten under my skin since being on staff here.

I'm working on adjusting my attitude. I'll take sometime off towards the end of the month to get my head straight about P&S but it isn't really feasible til then so I'll increase by restraint in the meantime.
 
Wow. Thank you. That really means a lot. You made me cry a bit. That's a bit embarrassing for me honestly but I've been crying a lot recently. I'm really going through a lot of shit. Sometimes I feel like the people that others are quick to label trolls or idiots are the people that need help more than anyone else. A lot of the time when people are aggressive or erratic there's a reason for it. I'm sort of getting to understand that about myself and it's also making me rethink my reactions to other volatile/ emotionally unstable people. It feels like people who are in pain are neglected sometimes because their pain manifests itself in unpleasant ways and people don't like dealing with unpleasantness. I appreciate your honesty and your ability to apologize and admit your faults. None of us are perfect.

Love,
Sincerely
the Deceased.
 
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