Well things have been pretty good lately. Took my gal on a date the other day, lunch at a yummy "Chinese" restaurant. Then we went for a walk around downtown and sat in a garden in front of a hotel. We lounged on the grass enjoying the view and our conversation, which can get pretty hilarious at times.
Things have been up and down but we are still going strong through the rough and good times. We are having more good then rough. Last week it was more rough than good but things are getting better now that we have discussed a few things.
We both still have insecurities and trust issues but we realize it takes time but we will work through it. Neither one of us has done anything that would warrant anything but our pasts lead us this way. We need to overcome our pasts to trust in our futures. That takes hard work and time.
We have talked about the possibility of moving in together once her lease is up which is September 2012 (1yr from now). She has also been asking ab out how to deal with Austin. I have never really mentioned but a couple people know on here, but my son has ADHD, ODD, and PTSD. Austin (my son) is....an ..... interesting child to say. Mind you he's very intelligent, he's well mannered, he socializes well and will do great things in life BUT he challenges and defies authority, he's extremely violent at times, hurtful with no remorse, and formerly (not anymore) a danger to himself. He's depressed and low self esteem as well. Most days he's a pretty good kid, trying but good. Other days, he's the spawn of evil. Love him to bits. So as I was saying, Sandra (my gal) has been looking up things to help with Austin, asking how I deal with it. She's even talked about wanting to be involved with his stuff (parent teacher, sports games, meetings, etc) in due time. Yet when she's giving input in which I love hearing - she second guesses herself or worries I will get mad and says, "Well, I'm not trying to tell you what to do, I'm not his mom and all". What she seems to not get is that after a certain amount of time (still awhile away yet) / after moving in/ etc. one then becomes a step-parent if the relationship is established to be more than a fling and we've already established that we are more than a fling. So needs to realize that she is slowly becoming a member of this family - like it or not LOL
I'm not griping or complaining, just getting thoughts out. I'm actually in a great mood right now.
My doc asked me if there's any chance I could be pregnant, I said "Immaculate conception?" she didn't get it at first so I had to elaborate that I am in a female-female (lesbian) relationship and only way pregnancy is possible is if I was the virgin mary....and I haven't been a virgin since 1997 LOL
I have a chest infection again
Here's a recent pic.
http://tinypic.com/r/2i73clc/7
Things have been up and down but we are still going strong through the rough and good times. We are having more good then rough. Last week it was more rough than good but things are getting better now that we have discussed a few things.
We both still have insecurities and trust issues but we realize it takes time but we will work through it. Neither one of us has done anything that would warrant anything but our pasts lead us this way. We need to overcome our pasts to trust in our futures. That takes hard work and time.
We have talked about the possibility of moving in together once her lease is up which is September 2012 (1yr from now). She has also been asking ab out how to deal with Austin. I have never really mentioned but a couple people know on here, but my son has ADHD, ODD, and PTSD. Austin (my son) is....an ..... interesting child to say. Mind you he's very intelligent, he's well mannered, he socializes well and will do great things in life BUT he challenges and defies authority, he's extremely violent at times, hurtful with no remorse, and formerly (not anymore) a danger to himself. He's depressed and low self esteem as well. Most days he's a pretty good kid, trying but good. Other days, he's the spawn of evil. Love him to bits. So as I was saying, Sandra (my gal) has been looking up things to help with Austin, asking how I deal with it. She's even talked about wanting to be involved with his stuff (parent teacher, sports games, meetings, etc) in due time. Yet when she's giving input in which I love hearing - she second guesses herself or worries I will get mad and says, "Well, I'm not trying to tell you what to do, I'm not his mom and all". What she seems to not get is that after a certain amount of time (still awhile away yet) / after moving in/ etc. one then becomes a step-parent if the relationship is established to be more than a fling and we've already established that we are more than a fling. So needs to realize that she is slowly becoming a member of this family - like it or not LOL
I'm not griping or complaining, just getting thoughts out. I'm actually in a great mood right now.
My doc asked me if there's any chance I could be pregnant, I said "Immaculate conception?" she didn't get it at first so I had to elaborate that I am in a female-female (lesbian) relationship and only way pregnancy is possible is if I was the virgin mary....and I haven't been a virgin since 1997 LOL
I have a chest infection again
Here's a recent pic.
http://tinypic.com/r/2i73clc/7
