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Thinking about other people during sex

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SpiralusSancti

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So do you do that? Think about someone not present during sex? Often or not?
About real people or imaginary? Ones you know or don't know?

That happened to me mostly when I didn't really wanted that partner any-more but continued, at least sexual relationship.
If I would think/fantasize someone else with a partner I'm in love and find attractive in physical and mental aspects than that was during some roll play and so. Or idk, getting jerked of at a beach with sexy stuff while watching some sexy ass or tits, before fucking in the woods. Good day when I think of it, good year in fact lol.
One ex told me she thinks of me during sex with her current partner and I guess her excuse is that we really can't be together now but probably should be. Two drug loving persons with likely most days when one of us would want to get high and we both have to do.
 
Interesting post, I never fantasized about other people while having sex, not that I remember at least.
As for masturbation - yeah - I think of others, the mind wanders, especially those few good relationships where we had wild sex :)
Also I dont think much about people I dont know, like celebrities or models. Others have toild me they find that weird, no idea why lol
 
nocebo said:
Interesting post, I never fantasized about other people while having sex, not that I remember at least.
As for masturbation - yeah - I think of others, the mind wanders, especially those few good relationships where we had wild sex :)
Also I dont think much about people I dont know, like celebrities or models. Others have toild me they find that weird, no idea why lol
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If you jerk of to celebrities at least make it about those you have some chance to fuck lol
 
Also I had such thoughts more often than thinking I fuck someone else. Tho in my case such fantasizing was usually while dildo was used or while watching porn together.
 
Jen said:
Nah my guy is tall dark and extremely hot, when he's at work and i get one off i think of him at the end of my bed naked
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You are lucky. I’ve got a blue-eyed, chisel-jawed extremely buff man. I’m talking gun show and 6 pack, mmm yummy. Why the heck would I ever fantasize about someone else when I’ve got such a snack in front of me?! 😜
 
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When I was having sex. I would think about baseball. to slow down. Getting a hit, and running to first.
But it doesn't work that well because I would still bust.
 
xtcgrrrl said:
You are lucky. I’ve got a blue-haired, chisel-jawed extremely buff man. I’m talking gun show and 6 pack, mmm yummy. Why the heck would I ever fantasize about someone else when I’ve got such a snack in front of me?! 😜
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We are lucky, we have our fantasies in real life
 
I don't think that I've ever fantasized about anyone else while I was making love, because I've always been very attracted to the women that I've been with.

Now masturbation, that's a different story!
 
na I like what I see in front of me. if I didn't, I wouldn't be there. dunno about others but I give my lover my full attention and she's mine and I'm her's. dunno if she thinks about anyone else - I wouldn't like it so wouldn't ask yanah
 
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