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think ill ever get laid?

dont worry bro, you WILL get laid whether it be someday soon or maybe not so soon, but just a month or 2 ago i thought exactly the same as you, "i will never get laid, let alone have someone love me" but it happened and it will for you too.

There are people out there who dont care about your looks, only about whats on the inside, these people may be few and far between, but you will find the one for you....and dont go looking for it, it will come to you. seriously.
 
I think there's plenty of girls who'd consider you a cutie. It's all about the personality, really, bro. As long as you're willing to go out and meet people (you won't meet one trapped in a dorm room all day), you'll find somebody, just might take a while ;)
 
Yes, you will get laid if you want to.

In fact your such a cutie (although way too young for me) you prolly wont even need to put in any work the girls will come to you.
 
Some girls like different;) but honestly mate, your not unattractive.. Have confidence in yourself & you will get girls easy!
 
You're a decent looking guy.

Get a fitting haircut, hit the weights and dress well, you'll be beating them off with a stick.

Looks get your foot in the door, personality gets you from the door to the bed.
 
compliment fishing? i dunno. im a straight guy but i generally have a wonderful judge of male attraction, and dude, you could score easy.

i could write 4000 words on this but ill try to keep it to the relevant stuff - if you hang out with the rigth girls, they will value personality over looks. like to the point where youd have to be pretty ugly not to be able to date them. and these chicks are HOT

long story short, smile, and make your personality attractive, and yeah man. your set.
 
no. im not compliment fishing. i know everyone who IS compliment fishing says they arent, but i have some pretty fuckign severe anxiety issues and am an alcoholic and love shooting opiates as well and im 17 days sober so im a bit more on the anxious side recently.

ive actually had quite a few "buddys" that i just make out with, kinda one after another, but i was usually drunk and i just now seem... stumbly and odd around people when im not drunk or shootin dope. the last few chicks left calling me an "addict" : /

ive had opportunities to get laid i guess, but i just want to love the person first, ya know? its kinda embarassing sometimes when im in a group of guys and im the only one who hasnt gotten laid, but i just say ive never loved anyone.

people can spot me fast that im not like most other people... that i dont really have the same values and morales and tastes as most people i guess. i dont think im "weird" socially, .. . like awkward to be around, but im just a different person and i feel like theres no one else around even similiar to me.

i dont really even have many friends, let alone a partner
 
You're way too young for me, but you're definately cute enough to get laid!

If you're not gettin' some already, then you better brush up on those personality skills - as it's not your looks holding you back.

If anything, you could do with a more stylish haircut! But really, you're physically above average as is.
 
First of all it will be very hard to maintain a relationship if you're using regularly, kudos on the sobriety. You aren't alone in finding someone similar. I'm 24 and just recently finally found a girl I could see myself with long term. I'm definitely unique and used to be quite shy as a kid. With age comes experience and with experience comes growth. Get involved in activities, join a team or organization, go to socials the more people you meet the more you'll click with. The problem is that 90% of everything in life is sub par, good luck finding the 10% it can be tricky.

You seem to have good taste in music and film, that alone should bring you closer to some interesting women.
 
I second what other people are saying. You're a reasonably good looking guy, no worries there. Just smile a bit more :).

Just be yourself, look to hang out with girls or guys who are into the same things as you are. Pay attention to them and don't just talk about yourself. Things will happen sooner or later :)

(And plenty of people haven't been laid at age 17. Hell, it took me longer than that, and now look at me - moderating on BL ;))
 
yea, one thing kinda hindering me right now is anxiety for one, and not being able to leave my room... i havnt been to school since i got outta jail cause my mom wont let me. she thinks ill buy dope. so im.. alone, every day, all day. without a phone or anyone to see and visit with : /

its been about a month. its pretty lonely. and i expect it to be about another month before i can go back
 
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yea, one thing kinda hindering me right now is anxiety for one, and not being able to leave my room... i havnt been to school since i got outta jail cause my mom wont let me. she thinks ill buy dope. so im.. alone, every day, all day. without a phone or anyone to see and visit with : /

its been about a month. its pretty lonely. and i expect it to be about another month before i can go back
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I suggest buying World of Warcraft.
 
heres a tip if your that desperate for chicks and are int he mood where u think uc ant seem to do anything right:

reinvent yourself for a bit. find a girl who doesnt know you (a new one, thats the word! haha) and instead of trying to do all this stuff right, just pretend your not yourself. hold yourself straight and proud, make comments with witty confidence, and generally act as if there is an awkward moment or she doesnt understand something then its HER fault.

not AT ALL in a bad, arrogant way. that is even worse then being afraid of sex or whatever. there is a fine line, but if u play it right then it works. it may feel completely foreign, but STICK TO IT. even if u fail the first few times, dont just give in. you cant expect to get what u want if u cant make enough effort yourself.

obviously once you have a temporary new persona, getting towards sex should flow naturally; pretend its something that you always do. if u screw up or do something abnormal, again, remember that its her fault for not being cool enough to know whats up :P

as this works and you continue to do it, you will find that you can gradually sneak in bits of your true persona into your made up one, gradually. and after time, you will be back to your old persona, just you will still have all the good stuff remaining, like conifdence and charm and a dick with some experience.

i myself am 17 and pretty ugly:
http://usera.imagecave.com/moojuice/formal.jpg
(note this is my FORMAL so im looking my absolute damn best, cant really see the true ugly but i assure u its there)

however i find that ive just gotten to know how to talk to girls, not in your typical fake charming way, by saying all the right stuff at the right times etc, but just by being an interesting and fun and easygoing person to be with. as a result i always end up with girls above my level, who are actually cool too. (the bimbos just want someone with all the right lines/with a great face and body)
 
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I second the writer above up. You'll never get laid. You can join a club I just made, it's called "I'll never get laid" and it's for people like you and me.

And to ifonly: you definately don't look ugly. You don't even know what ugly looks like if you call yourself ugly. :p
 
Who knows? With that attitude I would say no, you wont get laid. You have to get out there and have confidence/be relaxed about yourself if you're to have any chance. Is it just me though or does anyone else hate the term 'get laid?'
 
your freakin 17 jeez....

I'm 20 and not been laid, I know someone that didnt get laid till they were 24

I'll assume since you're on myspace that you're just an emo trying to sound worse off than you really are.

It doesn't matter what you look like - everyone ends up gettin laid unless they choose not to - to quote the infamous quagmire

Even fat chicks need love
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