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Think 2 needle junkies can last forever? I do. :-)

BattyVictoria

BattyVictoria

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My Husband and I met through *friends*. We've been inseparable ever since. To everyone else we look like a regular happy couple that does what they are supposed to do. But behind closed doors, we are also what I think is the perfect needle junkie couple.

What are some of your opinions on situations like this?
 
i think its every junkies wet dream to have something like this but unfortunately i think reality will eventually come crashing down....
 
BattyVictoria said:
My Husband and I met through *friends*. We've been inseparable ever since. To everyone else we look like a regular happy couple that does what they are supposed to do. But behind closed doors, we are also what I think is the perfect needle junkie couple.

What are some of your opinions on situations like this?
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Check back when one of you inevitably needs to get clean. Can't say i've seen many last through that.

Not saying you won't beat the odds but they are definitely stacked against you.
 
tackyspiral said:
i think its every junkies wet dream to have something like this but unfortunately i think reality will eventually come crashing down....
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LuGoJ said:
Check back when one of you inevitably needs to get clean. Can't say i've seen many last through that.

Not saying you won't beat the odds but they are definitely stacked against you.
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Yup...
You can't continue to get high forever, that's when the problems start...I hope you'll be the exception to the rule but odds are against you :\
 
tackyspiral said:
i think its every junkies wet dream to have something like this but unfortunately i think reality will eventually come crashing down....
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We actually have a system worked out so that we don't let the other go off the deep end. And we don't plan on being needle junkies forever. Lol
 
^said every junkie couple ever, seriously that is the cliche of cliches

I smell a troll, or are you really that innocent?

It doesn't matter how you feel about each other, unfortunately, it will come down to a screaming mess the second you're both out of money and drugs

If you really care about the relationship you'll both get clean immediately and see if you still feel the same
 
Pagey said:
What's the system if you don't mind me asking?
I'm not trying to be abrasive, I'm genuinely curious.
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Well first things first is that we pay everything we need to pay for that month. Bills, mcellaneous, things, and the cats. Every little thing is taken care of. Then we take whatever money we have left over and figure the days we wanna go for it. Depends on the days is how we decided how much we are going to get. What we get for that time period is what we get. No calling people when the come down sets in, no pushing bills back or asking for favors. We just get through it together. We help each other out and keep each other healthy and safe and not all freak out. We were actually in a sober committed Relationship when we first got together. We know that this is not something that we are going to do forever. And we also know how it could effect us as a couple. So we also have mutual rules between the two of us that help out.
 
Well good for you for thinking up those rules and managing to stick to them, that's probably better than what most IV'ing couples would have done by now. Just hope it'll stay positive, as addiction never ends well :(
But hopefully you can prove us wrong!
 
I guess if the drug flow never stops then the love never stops:|
kinda sucks but I think the drugs would keep you 2 together.
 
If you're safe about it and you work together, then I don't see why it can't work out. The one main difficulty I can think of would be if one of you decides to stop using drugs and the other wants to continue. It would be very difficult for the person who wants to quit as the other is still using.
 
Ha, ha

I'd say yes, had I not been in that relationship myself.

one of you is either going to die, get clean, or go to jail. Or all three

hopefully you get out before the gun gets held to your head, but hey- to each his own
 
^^^ agreed.... Sounds like your spending any excess £££ on gear? What about when your car shits out on you? Or one of you is out of work? There's too many variables for your 'system' to work....
Sorry to sound cynical....
 
i probably should clarify that i wouldn't consider myself a needle junkie (past, present or future,) but have used one on occassion.
the word needle isn't as big of a deal as the word junkie imo, and i'd be lying if i said that i wasn't one at one point.

however,
i was in a very sick relationship at one point, and one of us was a needle junkie in the extreme
(spending five days in the hospital for cellulitis due to dull/ dirty/ excessive needle use seems to be a qualifier)
and know through personal experience that in the event that a relationship like this could work out, it's probably best that it doesn't.

really though, best of luck, it would be awesome if you and this dude found a way to be together. without drugs
 
pastelcircus said:
the word needle isn't as big of a deal as the word junkie imo, and i'd be lying if i said that i wasn't one at one point.
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They say by using needles one is more likely to become addicted and the chances for ODing become greater.


So you've never had negative consequences from drug use that would make you want to quit?

Moreover, there's the legal aspect of it. In America they love to lock people up for drugs.
 
i have, but from routes of administration other than iv.

it's all the same i suppose, but yeah. needles increase chances of od'ing by far, and the odds of getting blood borne illnesses and infections are obviously through the roof compared to anything else, where they are virtually non- existent.

i did say something about going to jail in my first post, i believe.
 
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