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Things you *like* about your S/O

rangrz

rangrz

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I am making this thread because, damnit, this forum has more negativity than TDS or CE&P, and I think the subject of sex, love, and relationships should be a bit more positive than stuff about addiction or the next clusterfuck of a war...

So, I am making a thread about the stuff that is awesome and made of win about your S/O! (and I guess for the sake of discussion, commentary on posts?)

I'll go with the following to start.

I fukken love my gf's sense of play, humor and wit. She can always make me grin ear to ear with perfectly timed punch lines that often go WOOOOSH over everyone's head. (Probably because of the next reason I will list) I also love how playful she is and that she is not afraid to be playful and lulzy despite her fairly formal and dour occupation. I love the way she'll follow me up a rickety 500 foot ladder to sit on top of a derelict smoke stack and look out over the city, and just generally being down for a bit of adventure. case in point on play: Earlier today, we had a wheelchair race around the Critical and Intensive care unit at a big hospital, despite the odd looks and disapproval of her co-workers, which imo, is win. Who does not like playfulness? really.

Also, I love the fact my gf is very well educated in the hard sciences and is willing to both listen to me ramble on about mathemagics, comp sci and physics for hours on end, and will return the favor with a TL;DR lecture on something like cerebral perfusion pressure vs intracranial pressure or something equally as obscure and lolwut. But it is awesome cause I love that kind of stuff, and most other gf's I had lacked an interest and knowledge of anything scientific, and instead talked about vapid crap. (exception, I use to date a molecular microbiologist who was also made of win)

So, what things make your s/o special and awesome to you? Lets hear it!
 
Based on the fact that no one has responded to this "positive" thread, I can only come to the conslusion that everyone comes here to bitch and moan. I'm happy to hear your current relationship is such a "win" and I only wish more folks experienced the same sort of feelings with/for their SO. You don't want to hear about my situation, as I'm an old fart and would bore you to death!
 
She is a really good cook and makes sure I eat well. Also she likes sucking my dick. That is always a big plus. She checks on me to make sure I'm not a smurf when I shoot. She doesn't judge me because I like to get high.

Oohh yeah, and she loves me! :)
 
Ahh this is a good thread. We do need some more positivity.
My boyfriend is pretty awesome. We can be completely honest too each other, no judging, he loves me for who I am. He supports my decisions, choices, dreams, etc.
He is affectionate and loving and caring. He always treats me well, looks out for me, looks after me when needed :p
 
lol rangrz. Good thread.

I'll comment on former ones, because there are always good qualities even after a breakup.

The last one: intelligence. Really smart guy.
The one before that: really affectionate and I loved that about him.
The one who passed: Oh, he was the awesome. Affectionate, smart, and really caring/giving. Hard hard worker who went from being homeless at one point to working in a well known company doing what he always wanted to do.
 
He is very kind, loving, and sweet. He is a good paternal figure for my kiddo. He is fairly calm, an attentive lover, has a quirky sense of humor. He is pretty smart, but not arrogant. He loves me and I love him.
 
so glad to see this thread. i'll probably think of more stuff later, but here's a start:

she's unbelievably loyal. as she said herself, she would lie on the stand for me even if she knew for an irrefutable fact that i was guilty. i've never had a girl who's had my back like this. she will fight like a furious pit-bull for the things she wants and the people she loves.

she will do her best to honor any request i make of her. it's not like i'm the boss of her, or she doesn't exercise her own free will (she is VERY willful), but any time i've asked her to do something (or stop doing something) she's been willing to listen to me and work out a compromise.

rangrz said:
willing to ... listen to me ramble on about mathemagics, comp sci and physics for hours on end
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this too. there are things she'd rather talk about, but she will always listen to me, pay attention, and at least try to understand what fascinates me so much about math/modeling/finance. she walked across my campus at 8am on a freezing saturday just to see me give a math talk, and probably understood it better than most of the grad students and PhD's in the room.

she's absolutely brilliant, but doesn't make a big deal out of it. a lot of people mistake the little blonde with the tight dress for a ditz, and don't realize how far over their head she is until it's too late.

and on top of all that, she absolutely loves to fuck, party and have adventures. she's as comfortable at a winery on a saturday afternoon as she is dancing on tables in mexico.
 
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Boy, what can I say about her?

She's loyal, respectful, is always there to give me what I want, when I need it the most. She understands my deepest desires and knows juuuuust the right spot to give it to me.

She's very playful, using a wide variety of motions and toys to her advantage.

Lastly, if I've been really nice to her lately, we have a threesome! Nothing can beat it. <3

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Been going through some serious hard times with substance abuse that has gotten out of hand and led to muscular problems in my pelvic area that has rendered me sexually useless since August last year. I cannot believe she has been so loving and caring. Brings tears to my eyes. As fucked as it is pain brought us closer than ever before. Been with her for 3 years. She is a godsend. She even quit amphetamines/cannabis/psychedelics with me. She's made almost all my meals this year and always tells me she loves me when she wakes up. Changed my life forever, brings tears to my eyes

A sister, mother and lover.
 
My partner is a very special man.

i love the Way he makes me feel completely powerful and safely fragile at the same time.

i love how he holds me tightly in his strong Arms so i feel secure

i love that no matter what happens i will love him Years down the track as much as i did yesterday

i love that we are just Natural with each other, all the way from being naughty right through to being nasty

i love the beautiful text messages i wake up to Every morning that he sends

I LOVE HIM <3
 
my husband is very easy going. he is not the sort to get jealous or be controlling. which i like because i have the freedom to do what i want. and he is able to do what he wants. neither one of us "makes" the other person do something. i really like having my own space and so does he.

he is smart. and patient. and he often acts like a giant kid or class clown. watching sports with him is hilarious because he is very animated (either really happy or really angry). he has a much better fashion sense then i do, so he is good to go shopping with. and i find him rather attractive :)
 
I love my SO!!!!

My S/O is great! We never fight (well we get pissy with each other sometimes but it never reaches the point of actually fighting) and he's extreamly understanding and patient with me (we are both bi polar and have our mood swings. when one another is having an episode we will help each other out and talk about it).

A huge part of our relationship and what made it so strong is when he overdosed on heroin and was on life support. We had only been dating for 2 months at the time (we were friends for awhile before we dated). He was in ICU on life support for a week and I went to see him everyday until his family BANNED ME from seeing him. For almost a month I had no idea what hospital or nursing home they transfered him to and had no way of knowing how he was doing or if he was alive or dead. Then out of the blue I get a letter in the mail from him. He had 5 strokes, the one on his left side was more massive so his right side has been affected (he's right handed.) I could tell he struggled writing this letter and I was just so happy to get it and not only that the return address was to the Cleveland Veteran's Hopsital. So I'm excited that now I know where he is. So my mother and I go out and get him a "Get Well Soon" balloon and a card and I'm so happy that I'm going to see him. Then before we left we called up to the hospital to see what room he was in. Then I was informed that he was no longer a patient there. My heart sank. Back to square one again....not knowing how he's doing or where he is at.

So that same day, I'm frantically going through the phone book and dialing every hospital in the Cleveland and Cincinnati area (he's from Cinci) and couldnt find him. I was just about to give up and suddenly the phone rings. On the other end I hear "This is a collect call from...JERRY." I WAS SO HAPPY I ALMOST FELL OVER!!!! So of course I accept the call and we start talking. He tells me he's in a nursing home in Cincinnati and that he's been there for about a week. He also told me that his family REFUSED to give him my number and even went as far as to tell him that I CHANGED IT!!! So what did he do? He called the operator for DAYS straight trying to get my number. He refused to give up until he found it! On top of his family saying I changed my number they also told him "Oh she's got a new boyfriend now and she's going out partying and going to concerts every night!" FUCKING LIARS!!!!

But getting to the point, what I love about him is his determination to do things he wants to do. I really admire that in him. He refused to give up trying to get a hold of me even when he family was feeding him lies. He didn't believe a word of it. Even after the strokes and being in a coma, he still knew me well enough to know that something was going on and he was being lied to.

Also he was in a nursing home for over a year. I visited him everyday even though the place was a shithole and I hated everybody there and the staff treated him like a piece of shit I still went everyday to see him. He hated it so much he actually went out, got a job, saved enough money so we could get a place together. Now that is what you call determination and perseverence!

And now we have an apartment and have been together for almost a year and a half now. I enjoy everyday I spend with him even though he can be such a crab sometimes (he's a Cancer, they are known for this) and we make the best of everyday we have together.

Ok, I'm done! That's all I got! :)
 
Good thread, Rangrz! I love my husband so much. I love how he is a lifelong learner, and always is reading or talking about something interesting. I love what a hard worker he is...he goes to work by four am every morning and comes home by five or five thirty....and then HE cooks dinner. I love him for putting up with all of my health shit.....he struggled at first because he has never been sick a day in his life, but nowbhe is pretty sensitive about it. I love how he has my back on things, and I especially love what a wonderful father he is to our daughter.

Now, I could probably easily write a thread on why I hate him sometimes, but it is great to look at the good a lot of time!
 
My husband is freaking awesome and i like him for the following reasons:

* He's one of the funniest people i've ever met, with the quickest wit. I'm constantly amazed at how lightning fast he is with something hilarious and clever.
* He challenges me every day - and is one of the most intelligent people I know. He's also very succinct and is brilliant at explaining complex concepts in an easy way.
* He's very welcoming and inclusive with people and is very disarming.
* He really easy-going, but at the same time is so present in our relationship. I've never felt more considered or cared-for by a partner. He puts his all into everything he does, and into our relationship.
* He's a really really likeable guy; this is something that i've heard people say about him for years.
* He's got a fucking killer smile - it's something people have always complimented him on.
* He's just such a lovely, loving, wonderful chap... aaargh! I'm a lucky gal <3
 
Because she shot/set up a camera to record a wonderfully graphic video of a pulmonary lobectomy that she performed the other day.

Nothing like a S/O who makes her own guro... =D
 
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