Things Just Pile On

About a month ago, my hamster died. Pretty upsetting. I'd only had her for about nine months, but still, pets are important to me. And I live by myself, so I get close to my pets. Then, a week later, my family's cat died. I don't live with my parents anymore, but I grew up with them, my sis, and the two cats. We'd had that cat for maybe 13, 14 years? Possibly longer. My dad even cried over the cat (and my dad is not a cat person). It was very sad.
Then the worst part, I hear a couple days ago that my grandma is in the hospital! She IS alive. But she's 90 years old, she lives by herself, she can't remember anything. But she won't go into a home! But now the hospital is kind of making her go into some sort of home. Thank goodness. She can't be living by herself anyway. She lives two hours away from me and I don't drive, so I have to try and get down there sometime to visit her, hopefully next week.

Now things just seem to pile on me. I'm come down with a cold, I'm only going to see my boyfriend for like two seconds this weekend, I ripped a pair of my favourite tights, I have ants invading my house, one of my cheques was returned and I have major NSF charges because I forgot to transfer money into the right account that early. Urgggh.

I'm not one to think negatively, but sometimes it just piles on!!
 
That is a terrible week, i'm sorry to hear. I remember when we had to put down my dog when I was 9, i cried very hard. Also, i am in debt with student loans so i hear you there. Life can get overwhelming and it sucks. I will say, you have support. Your boyfriend hopefully cares and you can phone him and relieve some stress. As far as tearing you're clothing, just imagine me rolling my eyes haha. Since this is bluelight, my only recommendation is not to take more drugs cuz you're in pain.

I know i like it when people reply so hope i helped. Oh and, use your bf to relieve some "other" stressful problems and get your mind off it haha ;)
 
lol @BrahamCracker's response to ripping tights :)

i am sorry about your pet issues. my parent's dog passed away over the weekend. my parents are pretty torn up about it.

but try to not let the little things build up. when you do, small, manageable things become massive mountains :\
 
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