That is such a reasonable way to present my request for the clonidine, Squeaky. Thank you so much. And, as I have posted about in the past, I am entirely off of my prescribed ativan, as well as all benzos, b/c my pain management doctor has that as a requirement to be seen at his clinic. So asking for clonidine would be appropriate based on that fact that I take nothing for sleep at this time and nothing to alleviate anxiety.
Stress, both good and bad, is definitely part of why I continue to taper instead of jumping off. I had a wonderful Christmas... my house was so nicely decorated, I baked, and I hosted the Christmas Day dinner. I cooked recipes that were my children's favorites from their younger days. It was a beautiful time. I did give myself permission to use more of my prescribed meds, coming up close to but still not needing the regular dosage, thanks to my continued persistence at tapering these past months.
I am starting to realize that I do not have to be the "best mom" and available 24/7, even though it brings me joy. I will need to figure out how to lower the expectations I have for myself in those areas of life where I continually justify the need for "extra energy" which results in my choice to abandon my tapering efforts.