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The singles thread - Do what ya wanna do yeaahh

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That's pretty nasty gher. Has he actually done anything wrong besides enforced Valentines Day celebrations and having the cheek to be with the girl you want?
 
^ Isnt that enough? ;)

I think gher is quite rightly trying to say that he understands her way more than her shallow boyfriend

Unfortunately understanding someone is lame compared to being an ideal that someone 'needs'. Dont worry, even if she is really stupid she will work it out in under 6yrs (or shoot him in a domestic dispute in 3)
 
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I find it pretty suss if someone doesn't treat / talk about their current partner with respect even if they're coming to the end of their relationship. Its like when someone is cheating on their partner to be with you, you have to wonder if you're going to be the one in that position in the future.
 
Even if she did break up with this guy, she would probably play the old 'I need time to get over blah blah'... which is fair enough.

Also, for all you know she could just consider you are a friend. And once you are in that nook it's hard to get out of...
 
She's a geek. She studies engineering with me, collects weapons, watches anime and science shows, plays video games and a has whole heap of other pursuits that are unusual for females.
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OOoh I bet she has a skin/leather collection fom previous boyfriends


m4dd0g Unfortunately understanding someone is lame compared to being an [I said:
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*sobs uncontrollably into his seafood chowder*
 
She's still not over her previous boyfriend, who she had been with for four years. She started seeing this new guy on the rebound about four months ago. Maybe I should have said something but I didn't want to ruin her fun.

I already know I'm in the friend zone, and I'm fine with that. I'm only mildly attracted to her when she's single and I respect her too much to pursue more against her will. I've lost good friends in the past and I'm not doing it again.

I think she'd make a worthy wingman though.
 
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I already know I'm in the friend zone, and I'm fine with that.
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Yet, the evidence speaks to the contrary:

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I should have told her to break up with him tonight. Publicly. In the worst way possible, tearing out his heart and showing it to him before he died (metaphorically). The ultimate devastation. I would have been very satisfying for both of us, but I don't have the heart to say that to her.
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Unless you are just such a good friend that you wish explosive public humiliation on all your platonic friends' boyfriends after first trying to upstage them in the gift department on cheesy sentimental holidays.
 
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Yet, the evidence speaks to the contrary:



Unless you are just such a good friend that you wish explosive public humiliation on all your platonic friends' boyfriends after first trying to upstage them in the gift department on cheesy sentimental holidays.
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I always knew he'd do something corny like send her a dozen roses. I really didn't care. I bought her that knife over a month ago while I was on holiday, it just so happened that last night was the first chance I had to see her since then. Upstage nothing.

If you're suggesting that I'm jealous then you're right. I am. We hang out less than we did before he came along. I was living up the coast and she was working two jobs as we are now. Mates before dates.
 
You need to get yourself a girlfriend. Your general attitude towards the idea of her having a boyfriend is pretty childish dude. The saying 'mates before dates' is a whole lot of crap. Sure totally neglecting your friends is a big no no but expecting to be put first all the time is not fair. How can anyone establish a good strong relationship with a person they really like and care about if they have to shove them aside every time their 'mate' says so. I bet once you got yourself a girl things would be different.

So i guess you think you won in the present giving stakes because you gave her a knife and he sent her flowers. You need to get yourself a hobby. 8)
 
Looks like I'm not going to convince anyone of my character here. Fine, you win. I'm a selfish pig with no respect for anyone's feelings but my own. I'm jealous, spiteful, sadistic and generally a bad person. That's why I'm here.

Now if you can pick out which bits are sarcastic then maybe we can continue this discussion. I don't wish to discuss this further with people who would judge my entire character from a few posts and I am happy to drop it right now.
 
I think I'm getting tired of the single life, but that could be due to things coming to a head in all areas of life.

I guess I'm really starting to doubt my desirability as a mate. I mean in the last year I think I've only been overtly hit on once. I can't really tell if I'm a good looking guy anymore, I think I'm having more ugly days than not. I guess all I really need is a little action to bolster my confidence. I'm finding myself looking back on the last year and really questioning myself, how I handled things, where I stand, etc...

On the plus side, it's nice to be your own man, able to do as you please. But on the flip side life can be tough without having someone behind you. But then again we all die alone anyway don't we? It's been a long time since I've really felt something for someone, guess I'm kind of missing that feeling.

It's been -40C outside these last couple days, which really doesn't help.
 
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Looks like I'm not going to convince anyone of my character here. Fine, you win. I'm a selfish pig with no respect for anyone's feelings but my own. I'm jealous, spiteful, sadistic and generally a bad person. That's why I'm here.

Now if you can pick out which bits are sarcastic then maybe we can continue this discussion. I don't wish to discuss this further with people who would judge my entire character from a few posts and I am happy to drop it right now.
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Hahah, whatever dude. You put it out there. All we can go by is what was said :)
 
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