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The singles thread - Do what ya wanna do yeaahh

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Yeah, 13 months is a lot.... of FUCK ALL! I'm not sure what I'm up to but it could well be 6 years that I've been single (can't be arsed to think about it). Of course there have been pseudo-girlfriends here and there but they probably aren't worth mentioning. Being single rocks! :D


But having said that, I wanna date m4dd0g :o
 
No only have I been single for 13 months but thats how long it's been since I've had sex... I always have a smile on my face and look happy but deep down I'm really not... I just want to make everyone else happy before me and don't care about myself. It fucking sucks the whole concept of life does why cant you just have everything you want for 1 or 2 whole years then die that would be fucking awesome lol.
 
Yo gotta love yoself!

If you don't respect yourself then others can sense that. And it's not overly attractive.
 
m4dd0g said:
^ I totally agree apart from this bit: "The key is to stop looking, stop trying. Just be you and live life. And enjoy your freedom while it lasts." But the rest was pure gold :D

Hee hee.
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WhatevA. Go back to watchin' your relationship hating flicks, emo. :p ;)
 
mushi mushi, I think you should consider seeing a therapist, you sound legitimately depressed. It feels impossible to be happy when you're depressed and everything is so hard. So I would work on that first.
 
mm88: Man up you skirt. I know someone who's 26 and never been kissed. I may know people in their 40's and beyond who are equally unfortunate.
 
m4dd0gI decided to start dating again recently. I really dont want anything to come of it but im starved for entertainment and its exciting to go on dates. Sometimes its the '[I said:
visiting a new country[/I]' kind of exciting but usually its the 'eating moldy food out of a dumpster' exciting. Consumer beware
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She's hot, ambitious to the point of being very successful, smells nice and still tolerates your strange collection of shrunken heads.... yet you don't see it amounting to much because you both have the same first name.


Bwahahahahahahahahahahah! You could be like The Two Ronnies

You are destined to die single...... but at least I will get first dibs on all the hot singles at your funeral....;)
 
mushi mushi 88 said:
No only have I been single for 13 months but thats how long it's been since I've had sex... I always have a smile on my face and look happy but deep down I'm really not... I just want to make everyone else happy before me and don't care about myself. It fucking sucks the whole concept of life does why cant you just have everything you want for 1 or 2 whole years then die that would be fucking awesome lol.
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Do you smoke pot? Pot completely fucks with my self-esteem and image issues. As soon as i stop, i seem to pick up, when i smoke again, i become some sort of recluse who starts to believe that i'll never find someone.
 
This is my first autumn/winter/cold period as a single person since I was 17 (8 years ago, ouch), I guess I should buy some warm pajamas or an electric blanket? I do have some awesome flannelette sheets though. So cosy.
 
You can't possibly be single for long vanth. You remind me of an unspoilt Lauren Bacall. Surely the Humphrey Bogarts of the world are lining up for you. I know I would, but I'm more of a Cary Grant myself.
 
I have been single for nearly 3 years. Some might say by choice, because I reject a lot of guys I date, but I think I just date those guys so I can reject them and then write about it here, in on an internet forum. I have fallen for 2 guys in 2 years one was just a few months ago, but he was way too stoned to realise it, and the other I lived with last year and wasted an entire year pining over him , while he got to have his (emotional/physical) way with me.

I have no idea if Im ready for a relationship at all. I dont know if I want to have sex either. Like, not ever again, just for now. Its been just nice being with myself for the past few weeks, not using guys or being used which has generally been the sad state of affairs for some time. I use guys to make me feel better about myself, I somehow, dont ask me how, find very suitable men and make them fall madly in love with me, then I discard them with a heavy scent of disgust and incredulous belief, without giving away my part that I probably played to make that occur. Then I find the most unsuitable men possible and fall desperately in love with them, knowing all the while that will never ever feel the same way but convincing myself that they just need a little convincing. Then I end up lonely and rinse and repeat.

I have no idea why I do this.

Yes I do. I do this because I honestly dont think that I am worthy of being dated, so I avoid falling into suitable arrangements for everyone but create enough drama to validate my self worth and to keep me from murdering people which is what happens when I dont have sex.

I have no idea why im posting this.
 
Well you seem to have a lot of insight in to your problems Breaka, that is more than many people in your situation have, and is definitely the first step towards being all happy and shiny.
 
i applaud you mel.

it takes a fuckton of honesty and courage to admit to something that you know others can easily frown upon and chastise you for; due to the fact that there is another persons emotions at stake.

the most heavenly of angels have managed to hurt others in their travels (intentional or not), and admittance is the first healthy step to change. so good on you =D

best of luck from herein.

...kytnism...:|
 
Being single is amazing unless you really can't deny your feelings for someone no matter what, but most people are lame.

=P

You wanna get someone who really suits you and understands you vice/versa otherwise it's just better having independance!
 
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