The Sad Thread (Anti-Snoo)

[parttime crackhead]

Ex best friend & ex bird = same person? Aye?

Bad times man. Get in about internet bird, that'll cheer you up.

 

[Cornishman]

FWIW mugz, if you were 'fucked up in the head' you wouldn't feel embarrassed or acknowledge your behaviour to begin with.

 

[Allein]

Try not to dwell on it Mugz, I know it sounds obvious but there is just no point, you can't change it and you can't predict the future.

Keep movin forward mate there is no future in England's dreaming

 

[scrooloose]

Don't dwell on it,you yourself say it.It all becomes magnified and out of proportion.It might not be lost forever,things change.

and yeah,keep movin forward,there is no future in England.

 

[jancrow]

^ What they all say.

You feel worse because you're a good guy really. There are plenty of bastards around who would probably do whatever it was you did then not give a fuck about it afterwards. Don't be too hard on yourself.

 

[Dread calm]

^all this mugzy, a good enough friend also Wont let it ruin things between u forever, it'll patch up in the end. Stop doing mxe you nutjob lol!

It's a sad day all round it seems. My morph wd's are really starting to hurt now, trying to take the sting out of it with dhc but its not working as Well as I'd hoped. Only got until Thursday to suffer tho, so its not entirely tragic.

 

[matt<3ketamine]

my heart actually hurt last night, first time ive properly felt heart break so bad, this is killing me inside, i miss her, why does there have to be a break-up?

 

[knock]

Matt, I know what that's like, it's horrible. It's difficult. But it takes two to make a relationship. If her heart isn't in it, then there's no point beating yourself up. It's her issue. Find yourself another woman. The less complicated ones seem to be a good bet!

 

[matt<3ketamine]

aye, shall be taking that advice, need to get direction sorted in life and not just mope around about it, still, it fuckin hurts inside when i get sucked into a loop of thinking about her, move forward is the plan, she is an amazing gal anyway so even friendship when we see each other next wont be a problem, she ended it, im still not 100% why even besides the 'its not working anymore' sentence, awk well, gettin up and moving on!

 

[Cornishman]

Harsh matt. Sorry to hear of your pain. I still grieve over my last relationship. We split nearly a year ago after 6 years.
I wish I could still see her, even just as a friend. Miss talking to her so much.

Just try not to go into self destruct mode.

 

[brimz]

she is an amazing gal anyway so even friendship when we see each other next wont be a problem, she ended it, im still not 100% why even besides the 'its not working anymore' sentence, awk well, gettin up and moving on!

I feel you mate .
If you can still be friends which is always good in the L/T , i'm sure it will make sense in the end . 1st time is harsh no denying that. Take it easy on yourself

 

[maxalfie]

Getting sick and bored of not having a job now and the lack of cash that comes with it.
Gotta make things change asap.

 

[brimz]

Much love & good vibes to you Max .

 

[maxalfie]

Thanks Brimz mate.

 

[Moe-D]

Hangover, out of benzo's, withdrawals possible, out of money, school's beginning at monday, worried about a friend....
*sigh*

 

[matt<3ketamine]

thanks for the kind replies, time is a healer, drugs are not when it comes to my relationship and mental problems, still havent spoken to her :/ spoke to her sister and she said she just wants space, we hadnt been seeing an awful lot of each other tho and i didnt think myself clingy, her happiness is my happiness so it was best it happened as she was unhappy with it, i could tell on the last day i seen her before it got ended, moving on! self destructive behaviour is hard to avoid but ill keep tryin, done a stupid thing the night we broke up that i wont be in any hurry to return to again, fuck the downward spiral, the only way is up from the bottom

 

[maxalfie]

Hi matt, sorry for how u are feeling at the mo mate. It's never easy when you break up with someone.
All I can suggest is to maybe try and keep a bit of distance between yourself and your ex for the time being otherwise you will just be reminding yourself how much you miss her.
Give yourself and her some space for a little while so you can have some time to get used to your new situation.
Time heals mate it really does even though I know that probably doesn't help much at the moment.
I wish you all the best mate,take care.

 

[Moe-D]

Keep on keeping on Matt!!
All I can say right na man.

 

[matt<3ketamine]

thats all that needs to be said mate cheers, many thanks knock cornish brimz max and moe, all very good advice which has been needed! cherish what was and build a better friendship, seems like a much nicer plan than mope around and downward spiral my thoughts, again cheers guys!

 

[Cornishman]

No food
No drugs
No company
No life
No money

Sad.