ok, puzzle, so you're telling me that say, hypothetically you took a roll and it ended up being a bad mix mdea and dxm.... say you start felling really shitty and you ask a friend to sit with you for a few and they say no, you shouldn't need a babysitter..... at this point you can't drive home, you can hardly walk and you need someone's help.... so you ask your friend if they can take you home or if you can crash at their house for a while to get out of the bad setting you are in and they tell you to stay till they are ready to leave..... so you are afraid now and can't even stand to be in your own skin and you are panicky and having trouble breathing..... so finally the night is over... you feel like shit and have just learned that none of your friends were willing to help you out... are you mad at them for not "babysitting" you and helping you, or are you forgiving and decide they shouldn't have cared anyway??? p.s. i've never been in this bad of a sitch before, but if i was, i would be pissed at my so called "friends".....
and in my story, it was not this persons fault they felt that way.... and they weren't dying.... just very afraid, shaky.... common BAD ROLL.....
so my question is, where is the line drawn between taking control and turning the other cheek???