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the Jose’s commandments to conquer a woman's heart - a practical guide

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jose ribas da silva

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This is a magical guide for love, destined to men.

These are the Jose’s commandments to conquer a woman's heart. A pure guide of wisdom, follow the rules, please, it does not work if you think and rationalize about it, just follow the rules and the results will naturally appear. Be happy, be nice, be cool, be Jose!
 
RULE 1 – ABANDONING TOXIC MASCULINITY

Think about why you are single, think about your behavior, if you are adhering to paternalist patterns of behavior, my dear friend, you are on the wrong way. If you are machist, your chances now are very low. If you somehow think that men are better than women, regardless of the field, dear friend, you MUST CHANGE. So, when dating, you cannot express any signs of toxic masculinity (never), incredibly, I have seen some dudes doing these types of actions on purpose. They think that they are being the best ones by doing so, ridiculous to say the least.

What does Jose do?

Jose is a feminist, of course, a moderate one. When Jose is flirting, he introduces feminist ideas in a subtle manner in his discourse. By doing this, in a non-explicit way, Jose shows that he is a modern man, he demonstrates respect, the future Jose’s partner gains confidence in Jose. She now sees Jose as a possible future boyfriend, why not? He is different from the other guys, he does not make machist jokes or comments, he is a true gentleman, he wants sexual equality in all senses. He knows how to treat a woman, hummm, probably he is not egoist during the sex.

So folks, that’s the first rule: exclude the toxic masculinity from your personality tracts.

If you follow this rule, your chances will dramatically improve, Jose is the guarantee.
 
RULE 2 – THE CORRECT APPROACH - INTRODUCTION (PART I)

Man, I know, low self-esteem sucks and in addition it can truly sabotage your plans. I am glad to announce that now your problems are finished, since Jose is here to take care of you. In this context, the RULE 2 consists of a set of information which are going to guide you, my dear friend, to the pot of gold at the rainbow’s end. I know you are thinking that I am bluffing, nevertheless it is important to bear in mind the first commitment, that is, action, you don’t think about the rules, you follow the rules, no rationalization.

This set of information may appear formed of a random matter, arbitrarily put together. But it is actually formed by a broad-range of well-established behaviors that are going to build up your self-esteem. How? You don’t think about it. Every time that you feel insecure during a situation with a woman, you must ask yourself: “am I treading on the Jose’s second rule heels? If yes, calm down, you are on the right way, the highway to hell, as it will be clear in the following sequence of examples.
 
RULE 2 – THE CORRECT APPROACH - PRACTICAL ASPECTS (PART II)

Insecurity, the major problem when it comes to flirting. Some folks, they lose control totally, they cannot be themselves, by acting in a natural way, on account of the anxiety and lack of confidence. Every time that you feel insecure, you must think that women are the most insecure beings in the universe, by essence. They suffer from many hormones oscillations during a short period of time, they cannot control their insecurities, they cry alone in the rooms, you know, she feels she is ugly or that she is not sufficient good for your criteria or patterns. You will be a master when you find the right tune, that is, you must build her confidence up by carefully choosing the appropriate aspects and, moreover, you must gain field using their insecurities, taking advantage of them to conquer the princess’ heart. Calm you heart down, my dear friend, you must repeat, repeat, and repeat, “she is insecure, she does not know how to behave. I am the king, a king-in-training. I know I am insecure too, but she is more than me, and I am going to be the king”, you are the king motherfucker! The intrinsic insecurity of women is valid for all kinds of women, including the most beautiful ones (perhaps the rule is even more valuable for their context).
 
RULE 2 – THE CORRECT APPROACH - PRACTICAL ASPECTS (PART III)

Oh my god, now I know she likes me, so I want to invite her for something. What’s is the best place to go? Are there some rules to follow in this context? What would Jose do?

To be continued… jump in
 
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jose ribas da silva said:
Every time that you feel insecure, you must think that women are the most insecure beings in the universe, by essence. They suffer from many hormones oscillations during a short period of time, they cannot control their insecurities, they cry alone in the rooms, you know, she feels she is ugly or that she is not sufficient good for your criteria or patterns.
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i think this is a pretty poor view of women generally and smacks, itself, of the toxic masculinity you suggest needs to be rejected.

alasdair
 
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RULE 2 – THE CORRECT APPROACH - PRACTICAL ASPECTS – THE PLACE

This is a very simple point to be consider, but some men really get it wrong without this guide. That’s why Jose is here to take care of you, don’t worry.

Let’s suppose you had a match on tinder, she likes you and now you want to invite her to see what life is reserving for you. Goddamnit, there are various places, based on which types of characteristics should I pick one up?

That’s very easy and Jose is going to help you. Think about your final goal: kiss the girl or sex. The villainous kiss will be the first and necessary step. In this context, the right place is the place that provides the environment for the kiss to happen. We all know that food and kisses do not match so that restaurants are not an option here, first exclusion. You don’t want to transfer to your lovely girl a rest of sushi from your teeth and vice-versa.

Furthermore, I know your self-esteem is low. You are an anxious person, a drug addicted. Let’s face the reality, you don’t know how to socialize properly. So why are you going to a place that you don’t like or feel good? By picking up places that you truly enjoy, you facilitate everything for yourself, be intelligent, be an alpha, be Jose, choose the places that you like, can afford, easy transportation to home, let’s decrease this anticipated anxiety.

“But Jose, I am still insecure should I go to a fancy place to impress her?” Yet: “I like fancy places, what should I do then?”

Firstly, if you are a millionaire, I don’t know what you should do, because this is not my world.

If this is not the case, my dear friend, you must not go to a fancy place, because in these types of places people in general are not kissing and you want to kiss, yeah, it is simple like that. Nobody kisses in these places. On account of this situation, your woman will be shy and this will decrease your chances of success. Going to an alternative place, frequented by open-minded people will considerably help you regarding the first and essential kiss.

In this way of thinking, please, pick a discrete place to seat, on the corner, in order to be as hide as possible, things will get hotter, you hope so, isn’t?

Summing up, now you have learned everything you need to know to choose a right place to encounter your queen bee. Prepare your chewing gum and be on fire, a hot bumblebee.

In the next topic, I am going to approach drugs and alcohol
 
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alasdairm said:
i think this is a pretty poor view of women generally and smacks, itself, of the toxic masculinity you suggest needs to be rejected.

alasdair
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For the sake of clarity, I emphasized this in the context of relationships, excluding other contexts. Otherwise, I would be totally inconsistent with my own speech, as you have highlighted. The "abandoning of toxic masculinity" is the first and most important rule.

On the other hand, very beautiful women are disquieting , their beauty is disquieting . Few guys can deal with them. In order to do so, the first step is to lose the fear of their beauty. Because they seem too unapproachable.

Thus, it is important to bear in mind that these women are not Gods. They have the same insecurities that other women have, which I have specifically named in a non-pejorative way as "intrinsic insecurities". Actually, on account of their excessive vanity, their intrinsic insecurities (exclusively in the context of relationships) are bigger.

Knowing how to play with the love games that arise from the intrinsic insecurities is essential to obtain success and build the self-esteem, in the case of men
 
RULE 2 – THE CORRECT APPROACH - PRACTICAL ASPECTS – ALCOHOL AND DRUGS

My fellow king-in-training, we all love drugs. Jose loves drugs too. Besides, drugs need to be legalized, however, sadly, drugs will destroy your chances. According to the aforementioned Jose’s rule, named “the place”, I have told you to go to an alternative bar or something similar and, for the sake of simplicity, I will use, hereafter, a bar as the chosen environment.

Finally, the day has come, your princess accepted your invitation and you have been following Jose’s rules so far with success. You managed to choose the right place as it should be done. Now, you have an anticipated crippled anxiety dominating your spirit. You have nausea, bad thoughts, pessimism, and everything else that this disease brings about within us, stolen our precious moments.

In this context, why not drink some beers before the encounter, alternatively, smoke a joint or do a line or a benzo. I know you just want to calm your heart down.

But I am affirming to you: this is going to destroy your chances even if your princess is a junkie.

In order to be an alpha, you need to have the plenitude of your actions and thoughts, even if these actions are anxiety-commanded actions. The women cannot notice that you are drugged, drunk, or everything else by noticing your way of speaking, eyes, smell, etc. The king riding the white horse does not come drugged, you know, this destroy the princess’ dreams.

You can carry drugs with you, use drugs with your girl, but by doing so along with her, after the initial conversation, after the first kiss, never, never, never, get to the place to meet her drugged or drunk. Alcohol is the worst one. I have seen many dudes drinking and thinking that they have more resourcefulness of action when drunk, bullshit, of course. They are decreasing their chances dramatically by doing so. Alcohol transforms you into a piece of shit, dumbing your intelligence. You can have one or two beers before the encounter, don’t get me wrong, but you must not drink half a bottle of vodka to decrease your anxiety as it is common among men.

Stimulants are out of question here. Cocaine can make you feel like a king, and it does in fact, but it decreases your sexual power and will, and, if she is not into it, she is going to notice (with bad eyes) your artificial acceleration (she may not attribute it to cocaine but she will notice it somehow). Apart from some exceptions, cocaine-fueled girls do not want to make sex as the non-fueled ones want.

I think now you got the general knowledge expressed here. Jose suggests you a bar, moderate consume of beers, and joints to relax along with the beers, because a joint, smoked together after kissing and drinking, is aphrodisiac. Please, you must not arrive at the bar stoned, wilted eyes, shriveled, please, be Jose! Wait to stay like that with your princess, both can go to meet JAH together (only if she in the mood to do so, otherwise, you will not do drugs with her in any way, you want her heart and soul, it is not about getting high.
 
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in the next chapter, I will approach the most important rule, what should I speak? Most men do not know what types of subjects they need to address when they are speaking with a woman, because of that, they speak absurd stuff, but I am going to save you...
 
Lucy20 said:
Us women are different and some are more secure than you will ever be.
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You know something, the intrinsic insecurity that I am referring to does not depend on the woman's nationality. If you think I am lying or speaking bullshit, calm, I will prove you in such a way that you are going to believe me after that.

You ask me: how are you going to prove this Jose? Are you a shaman?

Yes, I am the new Messiahs and I bring cannabis with me.

I will prove you by the telling you the origin of this insecurity and you and all of you will see that this origin does not depend on the country in question

WOMEN, THEY COMPETE WITH OTHER WOMEN.

If you, naive man, sees a amazing fashion woman in the night and think that she is dressed and beautiful to impress a guy or some guys, you are totally wrong. She is dressed like that in order to impress other women, to compete with them. Who is the best one in the night? If she sees other girl receiving more attention than her, being the focus of the place, if the guys are not watching her as she was expecting before, specifically when she was getting dressed, she will start questioning her own appearance, picking up specific physical defects (always the same ones, those ones that she hates with all her forces), highlighting them for herself, firmly believing in them.

Therefore, the intrinsic insecurity of women arises from the competition with other women. A universal rule, grounded on natural behaviors biologically structured to transmit the genes and form new generations

because of that, they are a commonsense among women.
 
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Get real dude, only losers by into this pick up artists bullshit. Any real person worth getting to know is going to spot it from a mile away.
 
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