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The Choice

TJ

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I met Pat in May of 1999. I had been out of work, but had met him in a dark alley in the middle of the night. We had both been tweaking hard that night. We ended up talking to each other for hours. When dawn finally came, I could tell that Pat was a bit bummed out because he couldn't score any more dope for a while, and my guy Ricci, had been busy getting laid that night. Therefore I gave him a little of what I had. I know how it feels to be jonesin really bad and I'd want some nice soul to do the same for me. Pat and I had exchanged phone/pager numbers.

Three nights later, I accepted an invite to go hang out at Pat's place and party. And party we did. He had asked me if I had paraphenalia before I came, and I said that I did. Of course, once I got there, I was in for a bit of a shock. Oops, no sorry, I didn't have any needles...We stayed up and partied all night long. He offered to let me hit myself, although he told me if I wanted to do it that way, that I'd have to do it myself. No way was he going to get me to "like" something that can get you into all sorts of trouble. He started telling me about the negative consequences of using, to which I told him I was well aware.

Even though, being a nurse, and having always been very skilled at hitting other people's veins, I was simply too squeamish to hit my own. It wasn't until about 4 months later trying unsuccessfully to hit myself, or if I did hit myself, I went about it all wrong. I had this major paranoia of overdosing. I had told Pat over and over I still did not get what in God's name he got out of slamming. So one night, about 4 months after I met him, he said, "Hey this is some GOOD shit man. You ought to get some real coughers out of this." I had no idea what he was talking about. After Pat and I had become friends, he also became my dealer. For months he'd sell me these big, huge rocks for $70 or $80 bucks. They were the most beautiful sight to behold.

More lovely then the finest jewels fit for a queen.
At first, Pat always did his crystal his way, and I did my crystal my way. He was the only friend I had that slammed. I don't care what anyone does, so long as they treat their friends with love and respect and be there for the good times as well as the bad. I always kept a needle and syringe, cotton, and spoon in a cabinet specifically for him for whenever he paid a visit. Since he had become my runner, it was a MAJOR bonus to have it delivered by an honest...(at least he was until he went over the edge) businessman.

"Would you like me to make you a cougher?," asked Pat. "Huh?," I said not knowing what he meant. "Here let me show you," he said. He started teaching me the ritual of the shot preparation. "No, TJ you don't need to grind it up first," he laughed. He put some in a spoon and before he started to put water over a nice size rock, I protested, "NO! You'll kill it!" "Just relax," he said. After wetting the rock, oh my God what has he done to my poor precious rock? I thought. He has murdered my poor sister crystal. Taking the back of the syringe he smashed it all up in the spoon until it was melted. "Damn how come you have to use so much?," I complained. I didn't mind being generous, which would have been a hefty amount had anyone snorted that

rock. But damn, did he have to do it all in ONE shot? "No," he reassured me. "It takes more shit to do it this way." I watched as he took a small piece of cotton, rolled it into a ball, and dipped it into water, then put in into the spoon. From there he proceeded to draw up what looked to me like a hell of a lot of contents! There was about .6cc of crystal in that 1cc syringe. "Ok," he began. "Isn't that too much?," I asked. "Shit I don't want to die!," I said. "Will you relax? Trust me on this. Now before I start, I want you to know what you will be feeling ok?," he said. "Ok," I said. "Don't freak out when you feel a bit funny at first. You will feel alot of heat at the back of your throat.

You'll get hot all over. You'll start to cough and hack like a motherfucker, but don't freak out thinking you can't breathe ok? It's normal," he said. Now I was scared. I mean sure I had been wanting this for a long time, and he would not shoot me up, and here he was going to do it, but all that stuff he said scared me. "It will be ok. This feels GREAT!," said Pat. "Oh my God," I kept thinking. I was equally anticipating with pleasure and scared. I squeezed off my arm. A nice vein popped up for him. He tapped on it lightly and blew on it as the needle went in. God I was acting like such a freakin baby, I wouldn't even watch as he did it. After he was done emptying the contents, he said, "Ok you can let go," which I did. "Well do you feel anything yet?," he asked giving me a strange look and wondering what the fuck was going on. "Uh no," I said. Twenty seconds after my medicine, sure as

shit, I got all hot and flushed, I was gasping for breath, I started coughing like a fool. He saw the look of panic on my face and reassured me. "It's alright," he said and smiled. "Let yourself cough." And cough I did. Christ almighty I had never felt so turned on, so awed, such intense heat, an even more intense rush. It was way better than I remembered from my token first time back when I was 18, if such a thing was possible, I thought. Whooo hooooo I was all red, my pupils were bigger than black basketballs, now yes for better or for worse, I now understood why Pat loved slamming so much.

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The Choice Part 2

Over the next couple of months, Pat became my slamming mentor and while we were both tweaking, I would teach him new things on the computer. During the time from June 1999-Sept 1999, I worked as a nurse in the human resources department. The only patient care at that job was done over the phone when I would give medical advice to pregnant patients. That was part of my job. Although I worked in the business end of OB-GYN nursing and loved the aspect of patient phone care (I even liked the part of my job when I had to be on call every other weekend to reassure expectant mothers or decide if they needed to go to the hospital.) What I have found most about my 15 years of nursing whether it was working in the corporate office and dealing with patients strictly on the phone or doing direct patient care either in an urgent care, clinic, doctor's office, or hospital setting, it has been my experience that the most healing my patients undergo is when I simply sit and listen to them. My job is 10% giving advice and medical knowledge and the other 90% is them knowing that I am listening to them, care about them, and that I actually do give a fuck about their well being.

Unfortunately for me, (and I knew it at the time I accepted the position) I accepted a job that I was way underqualified for because my position called for someone highly skilled and possessed years of computer expertise. I had taken the job cause I needed it in the worst way, thinking that perhaps I could fake it and learn the damn computer skills. Although I did acquire a great deal of useful computer information while on this job, having been a complete novice and frightened of using the computer in my bosses' presence (and she was always there looking over my shoulder) that was the one time I could not "fake" it out. I have taken other jobs in the past, learned on the job, and "faked it until made it." I've also noticed that aside from the actual skills required on a job, again that counts for 10% of an employee's overall worth.

The other 90%, which has been a very painful process for me to learn, is mental. If a person contains a tremendous amount of self confidence on a new or even old job, even though he may be scared of whether or not he has what it takes to pull it off, those individuals that have complete confidence in their abilities and are not crippled by overwhelming fear of failure, are those that aspire to greatness. I don't care if you scrub toilets for a living or are president of the United States. This is what I've learned both first hand as well watching others. I loved my patients, but I was intimidated by my boss and equally intimidated by the computer at work. It wasn't until after a year of working with the computer on my own at home in a "fun" environment, did I actually become computer literate simply because I had to overcome my fear of it. I'm sorry to say, I lacked the skills to stand up to my boss in an appropriate way. I wish I would have known then what I know now. Refuse to be intimidated. That

doesn't mean that you simply walk up to her and tell her to go fuck herself, but simply overcome the fear to tell her what it is about her or him that he or she does that is unacceptable while maintaining an air of respect and a degree of diplomacy, but always remaining firm and setting boundaries. My own Mother has always possessed this quality, even at the young age of 25, but since I didn't learn until much later, say at age 35, it was not surprising that I got my walking papers at that particular job.


As many of you know, our inhibitions are broken down a great deal when we are high on speed. Pat was no exception. During the year I knew Pat, (he vanished from my life as quickly as he came into it) I have memories of the funny, sad good, and bad kind. One night after he shot me up several times and I had lost my job (both of us were tweaking hard and heavy) he told me some extremely intimate details, in fact a little more information than I needed to know about his personal shit.

I am a functioning addict on a schedule now that only slams every 2 or 3 months) Alot of addicts and alcoholics have little to no sex drive. This is what I assumed Pat was when I first met him. I liked him instantly because he was friendly. He was not your stereotypical "junkie" that went around mugging people or ripping people off for a living. He actually had 2 jobs and worked 7 days a week. Not only that, but to this day it amazes me that whenever my car was fucked up, even though he lived 30 fucking miles away and had to be at work early in the morning, he actually volunteered to drive all the way out to where I lived, pick me up, take me to work, AND take me back home. Christ he even bought me dinner or when I went to the store he insisted on buying my groceries. I offered gas money, but he refused. I got off the subject. Tweaking and talking. I assumed that because Pat was an addict, he had no sex drive, therefore did not hit on me. I appreciated that I can't

tell you how much. To actually enjoy being in the company of and partying with a man and not have to worry about him pushing me for sex or ripping me off, caused me to have a very special type of love for him. Like a brother. One night after we slammed Pat got on the subject of sex. It was the one and only time he did--even tweaking. Even though I was tweaking, what he was telling me was embarrassing the hell out of me and I kept trying to change the subject, but he kept bringing it back up again. Here we were at Pat's tweaking happily away. Then he says to me, "Hey this stuff is really making me horny. It's been a long time since I even thought about sex." "That's nice Pat," I said.

"You know I'd really love it if someone would dress me up in women's clothes and I like sex toys," he chatted happily away. "Ooookay," I said. I tried changing the subject, but to no avail. Pat was like a brother to me, I really didn't need to hear this. "You know my sexual fantasy is to be dressed in women's lingerie and fucked in the ass by 2 men at the same time," said Pat. Jesus Christ will you please shut up! I thought. My face was turning 10 shades of red.

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When he kept on, I said, "Sounds painful to me," trying to act all nonchalant. "Not if you practice,"he said. At this point, I left the room and made some lame comment about taking a trip to outer space. "I know, I guess that's a little more then you need to hear," he said. "You got it!," I thought. Then an idea struck me. I said,"Pat since you are so bound and determined to give me the details of your sexual fantasies, let's go to my house and i'm going to teach you how to have cyber sex with different men on line!" That idea was brilliant.

When we got to my house, I created an on line name for him on yahoo. I asked him to give me an on line name, which he did. Then I said, "Ok what do you want for a pass word?" "I don't know," he said. So, right then and there, under password, I typed in the words, "I don't know." "There!," I said. "congratulations, you are all set up!" He laughed and told me that it was funny I typed in "I don't know" as his password and that all his friends were always teasing him because he was always saying "I don't know." Until that day, I never noticed, but

sure as shit, in any given conversation, without thinking the words, "I don't know" came out of his mouth about 5 times in one paragraph. Then I started teasing him about it. In fact I said to him, "You know Pat, one day I am going to write a story about you and it's going to be called, "I don't know." He smiled and laughed at me. After that I got him on line and showed him how to have cyber sex. That was a one time occurence, but it got it out of his system.

After Pat's revelation to me about his sexual fantasies, from that day forward, I had him pegged for a gay guy. He knowingly and happily had cyber sex with a couple different guys after I showed him how to do that on line.

The next month, I was forced to move out of the room I rented. This was not due to the fact that I lost my job and could not pay my rent. I had enough rent saved up to last me for a couple of months cause my final check from work had been $900. As it turned out, the lady of the house had been such a complete and utter bitch, the other person that rented a room beside myself and I secretly referred to her as "Mrs. Hitler" in private. Up until several months ago, I sucked soo

bad at doing the resume and job interview thing , that again I didn't even bother trying to look for work. The other reason was because I started to feel alot of despair once again. Who was going to rent to someone who was jobless? I started doing more speed. It became a downward spiral. Although I had plenty of money, my friend Dave who had a 3 bedroom house would not rent me or anyone

else a room even though he always claimed he needed money. I started to slam more. I couldn't walk outside without long sleeves. "Don't go spending all your money on this shit," advised Pat. The last day at my job in Long Beach couldn't just leave me without a job, but without a car as well. Naturally one of my tires went flat and I had no jack. I

ended up walking halfway home, and got a ride home from this Mexican gentleman that offered me a ride home. A couple days later, I called Ricci. He came down in the middle of the night, drove to Long Beach, we got stoned, and he changed my tire for me. I noticed him staring at the bruises on both my arms, where my sleeves didn't cover. We partied for a little bit after that.

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