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Serotonin101

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Titles says its all. This is more of a vent/rant "admit something" or "write a letter..." thread for those of us not happy with what's going on in our relationships.

For me: I'm getting fucking tired of how distant you're becoming then blame ME for not calling you. Phone works two fucking ways!! Then I tell you I'm driving down tonight (20 miles away) in damn near blizzard conditions (churches even closed down today) and then you wait til I get here to tell me you didn't want me to come over... then as I turned around to go home and almost wreck, you tell me to come over because I "made you feel bad" when you had a full hour to tell me to not bother coming out. So now I lay here in your bed (alone as you sleep on the couch) feeling awkward as fuck like an unwanted guest... I'm really getting tired of your shit. I'm not a fucking mind reader... I'm really thinking about leaving you as you are driving me fucking crazy, yet some reason I still find it in me to risk life and limb to see you. I wanna kiss you and strangle you at the same time. Is that what love feels like?!? Fuck...
 
Oh good, I'll be able to come read this thread whenever I feel bad about being single :D

You sure she's worth it though Sero? That sounds pretty bad...
 
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Serotonin101 said:
Titles says its all. This is more of a vent/rant "admit something" or "write a letter..." thread for those of us not happy with what's going on in our relationships.

For me: I'm getting fucking tired of how distant you're becoming then blame ME for not calling you. Phone works two fucking ways!! Then I tell you I'm driving down tonight (20 miles away) in damn near blizzard conditions (churches even closed down today) and then you wait til I get here to tell me you didn't want me to come over... then as I turned around to go home and almost wreck, you tell me to come over because I "made you feel bad" when you had a full hour to tell me to not bother coming out. So now I lay here in your bed (alone as you sleep on the couch) feeling awkward as fuck like an unwanted guest... I'm really getting tired of your shit. I'm not a fucking mind reader... I'm really thinking about leaving you as you are driving me fucking crazy, yet some reason I still find it in me to risk life and limb to see you. I wanna kiss you and strangle you at the same time. Is that what love feels like?!? Fuck...
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^ this is the kind of girl you stop contact with immediately IMO

just my 2 ¢

Finally I wouldn't bother driving in the snow for anyone. Don't even go walking outside if there is snow/ice, you can fall and injure yourself too easily (how I broke two bones at once, thanks to a tiny patch of black ice).
 
Serotonin101 said:
Titles says its all. This is more of a vent/rant "admit something" or "write a letter..." thread for those of us not happy with what's going on in our relationships.

For me: I'm getting fucking tired of how distant you're becoming then blame ME for not calling you. Phone works two fucking ways!! Then I tell you I'm driving down tonight (20 miles away) in damn near blizzard conditions (churches even closed down today) and then you wait til I get here to tell me you didn't want me to come over... then as I turned around to go home and almost wreck, you tell me to come over because I "made you feel bad" when you had a full hour to tell me to not bother coming out. So now I lay here in your bed (alone as you sleep on the couch) feeling awkward as fuck like an unwanted guest... I'm really getting tired of your shit. I'm not a fucking mind reader... I'm really thinking about leaving you as you are driving me fucking crazy, yet some reason I still find it in me to risk life and limb to see you. I wanna kiss you and strangle you at the same time. Is that what love feels like?!? Fuck...
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Any woman that will throw it back in your face after you risked your safety (twice) to see her isn't worth your time IMO.
 
That doesn't sound healthy at all Sero. You shouldn't put your life in danger just for a person like that.

Yeah, I don't need to bitch about my boyfriend.
 
Interesting that you said that 'even the churches were closed' Maybe where I live, but I never have taken into account the status of churches as a factor of the conditions :)
 
bunnymunro said:
Interesting that you said that 'even the churches were closed' Maybe where I live, but I never have taken into account the status of churches as a factor of the conditions :)
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Well here they don't close churches and stuff early or not open them at all unless things are really bad as we got lots of people who walk to church in the city.
Luckily today I have a snow day from school so I can talk to this broad about what the fuck is going on...
 
pofacedhoe said:
^haha that cracks me up

even moody people can make an effort to not be an asshole
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Yeah but to deal with them personally...

My sister is reeeally moody. Like one minute she's fine and you do anything she doesn't like and she's sooo bitchy. It's like night and day and, you don't see it coming at all. It's horrible. She's fun most of the time, but damn when she switches tones her husband and I go outside and run. lol
 
Lysis said:
Yeah but to deal with them personally...

My sister is reeeally moody. Like one minute she's fine and you do anything she doesn't like and she's sooo bitchy. It's like night and day and, you don't see it coming at all. It's horrible. She's fun most of the time, but damn when she switches tones her husband and I go outside and run. lol
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Sounds like my girl. She be all lovey one day and then get all distant and shit. I think its a fear of intimacy as we are both recovering addicts. She said it was scary how quickly she was falling for me. Maybe this is her safety mechanism to prevent possibly getting hurt if things don't work out. I know its what I used to do
 
Very possible. I'm amazed at how many people post here about others admitting that they tell the other person how fast they fell for them. I don't think I've ever told anyone that even when it was true. That to me is having your guard up.
 
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