That One Girl

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I met a girl, in passing when I was in high school. She was 2 years behind me so, I met her when I was a junior and she was a freshman. I hung out with her brother Brandon and she always was the quiet hippie chick. Who had the glass bead around her neck, and went to all the hippie festival.s, hung out with the hippie kids etc.

You can get the idea she was a hippie chick, now I preface this blog by saying that because during this time I was very shy. Very reserved. My idea of a hot friday night wa building a badass gaming rig for a friend. (I built computers as a hobbie, I was very single) I was hardly exposed to the world of drugs at that pont, and the most intense sexual experience I had had at that point in my life was tittyfucking a redhead with DDs and not being able to last longer than 5 seconds....

Then I graduated. Sabrina became somebody I used to know, along with 99% of everyone else I had gone to school with.. and I didn think much of her. These people become the random people you see on facebook posting lies about how awesome their lives truly arent

Fast forwad to last year...

I unexpectedly lost my mother, who I'd lived with my entire life. As a 27 year old who never fully left the nest, my mom and I had a rocky relationship but were very codependant and had finally reached a place in our lives where we supported each other. Then the rug was pulled out.

I'd never heard of sepsis, but I read up real quick. She had septic shock and for a story I'll post anther day, she spent 13 days in ICU before I ultimately had to make the decision to pull her off life support. She made it 9 minutes on her own before crossing over.

As a loner, I'd just lost the only person in my life, and truly became alone.

I had no body, and wanted to die. Then not a month later my grandfather and uncle get killed by a drunk driver in Chattanooga. My grandfather was the only member of my family I spoke to other than mom... So, I find myself now 28, and completely and utterly devastated, and alone.

Thoughts of suicide began to go from ideation to planning to writing letters to my ex's and my very small group of friends who had seemed to forget about me during the worst moment of my life.
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Then I got a message from Sabrina on facebook..

She wanted to come over and see me, and she did. And I had my first actual conversation with her. She had an unbelievable ability ot calm me down, I'd essentially been fighting one long mental breakdown, and her aura was something of which I'd never experienced. I got to finally look at her fully, up close, and not just stealing glances from the corner of my eyes when Brandon and I would hang out back in the day.

Sabrina has a perfect body, the quintessential female hour glass figure, skinny... not thick.. but not bones eiher. She was so sensual, I'd never noticed. As the weeks went by I Grew closer to her, and found out she had a 2nd brother Dustin.

I'd never known about this brother, but.. when I went to her house I got to talk to Dustin, and he talked about his sister. They were siblings. I was becoming intoxicated with her magnetic way about her.

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Until I realized while scrolling through facebook, and her profile... that Dustin was her boyfriend. That they both had coordinated a lie. Then I realized, Id been giving her money for her addiction to H....

What little bit of hope that she had brought back into a life so darkened by loneliness... was not just gone, but gone forever..

To be continued..(names are changed because she does lruk these forums)

----- There will be lots more, I need to vent and this is the only place I know I can be honest and not be judged. I love you bluelight - TC
 
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Part II

I had an epiphany around this time. See I had lost myself into the world of heavy drug use. Especially with ice, and ice changes how you think. Without you realzing it.

But I feel more than anything, I truly had become lonely in my life. I am pushing 30, with no desire for a girl, nor one I even feel I want to givea minute of my time to. My ex had ruined me. Does she know this? Do girls ever think back about the guys hearts they break? Because whether they admit it or not, every girl has broken some guys heart.

And we dont get over it.

See Sabrina was different. Our relationship after finding out her and her worthless boyfriend, the live in drug addict, had both conspired to lie about them being together to me. I'm assuming for only one thing, drugs. I was buying hers, and she was sharing with him.

But listening to her attempt to concoct a lie was honestly, entertaining.

At the end of the day, I always took care of her. I'd even spend my last dollars buying her dope so she wouldnt be sick. I did this over and over again.

Then the one time I needed her,I had a breakdown one day, and fell apart.. With heraround, and begged her to stay.

She didnt. After 7 years with this guy, she still at her moms, he has no job, no car, no prospects, and no home.

I have all of those things, and a love for her that allows me to do what I had to do.
Cut her out of my life.

It doesnt matter how long it takes, years maybe... she will wake up one day and realize the time she has wasted with a guy who has menttally abused her into thinking its okay to be talked down to. Its okay to make excuses for him. That its okay that he calls myphone 20 times when she wasnt even with me

I hope when I get older, if I make it that is.. that I don't look back in regret.

If she doesnt change how she is, she will. And not just about me. I dont caare about me.
I honestly want to die. But before I do, I wanted all this on record, atleast somewhat from my pespective. So she can one day stumble upon it.

She will know my avatar.

Ladies, be honest with yourselves.. that one guy you fucked over growing up. He still thinks about you. Yes, we screw up too... but atleast you know that going in

These games you all play, has ended another life.
Good ridance
 
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