text for the first date

[Wolfmans_BrothEr]

Did u send the text already? If so what happened?

If u didn't send it yet if I were u I'd say "we shud get together sometime" simple as that. Nothing more. U seem laid back but u kno what u want at the same time. Don't ask, tell her. I may sound like a dick but girls are terrible at making decisions, just try asking one of them what they want for dinner omfg

 

[jam uh weezy]

call her. it sets you apart from the rest. if she doesnt answer, leave a voicemail.

I like this, because in my experience girls that don't answer or respond to voicemail are flakey.

just be like yo i'm gonna go ____ and i want you to come. personally, i prefer spontaneity, set appointments often feel like a job interview for me

 

[BZboo]

How did it go? Hope you give us a follow up report!

 

[Tude]

Call her anyways. If she's busy, ask her when a good time to call her back is.

 

[!_MDMA_!]

If she wants to see you it doesnt really matter what you send her. I feel its good to be aggressive and persistent (without being obsessive!!!!) and know that girls give off signs differently than men do. I'd say text her to hang out but also get a simple conversation going so you two can establish a baseline. I'd say its clear she's not interested if you text her w/o reply back two times in a row.

For example if you text her thursday without response and then saturday without response then move on

 

[dopemaster]

Have you considered calling her?

Maybe make some small chat and find out what her schedule is like? Then ask her what she is doing for the night. If she says nothing, ask her if she would like to go out and do something.

If she says she is doing this or that, ask her what she is doing for the weekend. If she is busy both those times she is not interested.

I think texting comes off as weak and unconfident. It is best avoided regarding first dates and really imo until you have been intimate.