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tackling the big issues.... when should you step in??

Why not ask the guy if he needs a hand?
He will either
a) stop and think that it is a low act letting someone else hit a girl or
b) let you take over so you can go easy on her. Hell even drop your guard a little and let her unleash some fury on you. He might think twice if it looks like she can do some damage.

Note: tongue firmly in cheek folks
 
actually.... what if you did say "hey, you want a hand beating up that girl?" it might make him step back and think about it.... at the very least, he might realise someone is actively watching him.... then again, sometimes if these things are diffused in public, the guy gets embarrassed and that can resolve its self in yet more violence... but maybe next time behind closed doors... where the real danger is
 
Well, i did once see a fight between a maori guy and woman. And i must say the woman threw a damn good punch, then the guy got escorted out of the pub.

I didn't say anything cos security was already on it's way and there was heaps of people around.

I did see a guy get mugged and beaten by a bunch of islanders in the city one time. I was peaking pretty hard and wanted to stop it. I was walking towards the group of guys when the guy i was with pulled me over to the side and told me not to do it as i might get beaten up as well. I got pulled away by the guy i was with, all i did was watch as they held him down and went through his pockets. We called the cops after that.

It really depends on the situation. But if it was a guy and woman, i'd say something, or atleast call for help
 
You would carry around a can of mace.. That way you avoid getting beaten up the old fashioned way. Instead you could see the guy wince in pain on the floor and get his just deserts and save the day at the same time :D
 
Id have trouble saving ma own ass let alone someone else's :)

If it looked really bad and a girl was crying for help, i would either a) ask my boyfriend to help out if he was with me or b) call the cops

Depending on a few things... like if there was more than one guy etc etc etc... or if there were other ppl helping. I guess I would offer my help as a last resort type thing, I would rather someone else deal with the crap.
 
I havent read this thread, but I am so bad at doing this. I step into ppl shit all teh time. From teh little stuff like helping someone who is struggling with something to offering someone the time who appears to be anxious about when the train is coming to helping out with peoples arguments in clubs. It gets me into shit and occassionally I misinterpret peoples actual motivations, and I look like an idiot. This is not often though.

Yes I would definitely get involved in a fight if I saw someone struggling, yes I would run after a theif and yes to everything else that has been mentioned.


hrm... maybe I should read this thread ???
 
All too often....

I tend to step in when I see some un-necessary aggression going on between 2 people, especially if it looks like it's one person being attacked, rather than just 2 dickheads going at each other.

In the case of one person being antagonised by another, I would normally wander up and ask the "victim" if they are OK, often this gets an obnoxious response from the aggressor, which I'll generally ignore or pointedly tell them that I wasn't asking them, and then ask the question again. If the response is that they are OK, then fine, I'll walk away, otherwise I'll do what I can to make sure it doesn't turn ugly.

I have in the past, found myself stepping in and pulling two people apart who are already in the throws of punching the shit out of each other (Two Tribes earlier this year was a good example), and once they calm down (or if I just get told by all parties to fuck off and leave them alone), then I'll go.

Whenever I do step in, it's generally in a polite but firm, and non-aggressive manner. Given how often I've found myself doing it (most of the time without really even thinking about it) I've sometimes thought that it's pretty amazing I've never had the crap kicked out of me for interfering.

Having said all of that, I've never been in a fight, and have never punched someone out of anger/aggression. The most I have got is a half arsed punch to the face or similar, which is normally followed by the puncher fucking off immediately afterwards anyway. :\
 
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