Sticky situation *Need advice*

[ezguide]

Hey y'all, I've been following these forums for a little now and finally had a question so I figured I'd sign up!

Three weekends ago I hooked up with a girl I know, very, very drunk. I didn't use a condom (even after I went downstairs to get one, lol, stupid.), but I definitely pulled out. Now she was really drunk as well, and from my remembrance, she said she was on BC. I kept trying to not go in, but y'all know how that is, when a girl is just pulling you down. Anyway, the next morning we woke up and she didn't seem to have an idea of what happened the night before. She had no clothes on in the morning so I can only assume she knows what went down, if she doesn't already know what went down and she was just playing it off joking.

she told people in the house that we didn't hook up last night, I figured just out of sheer embarrassment of telling someone that the morning of. Anyway, it's been really stressing me out lately the possibilities of her being pregnant. I've been pretty loose about hooking up with girls without a condom lately (stupid), but for some reason this hook up is really bothering me. It's probably only really bothering me because I was really drunk but the question is how can I/should I approach her about my concern for her chances of being pregnant? I am probably being over-reactive but yeah, I really don't know how to say anything to her. Especially if she may not remember the hook up. Sorry my grammar is so bad, I'm trying to type this fast before heading out the door, but thank you for reading this

 

[Pagey]

Hey ezguide, welcome to Bluelight!

Not to scare you, but unfortunately pulling out isn't at all sufficient and it's always possible to get pregnant regardless although the chances are slimmer.
If it's bothering you this much, just tell her about your concerns straight up. She might just answer that she's on the pill and has never forgotten it and you'll have worried about nothing. And if not, then the two of you can decide how to proceed/if she should maybe take a pregnancy test as soon as possible (might have to wait a couple weeks), that way you know at least.
There's not much point stressing out over what may have happened.

 

[JerseysOwn]

Hey ezguide, welcome to Bluelight!

Not to scare you, but unfortunately pulling out isn't at all sufficient and it's always possible to get pregnant regardless although the chances are slimmer.
If it's bothering you this much, just tell her about your concerns straight up. She might just answer that she's on the pill and has never forgotten it and you'll have worried about nothing. And if not, then the two of you can decide how to proceed/if she should maybe take a pregnancy test as soon as possible (might have to wait a couple weeks), that way you know at least.
There's not much point stressing out over what may have happened.

I agree sometimes speaking up is the best thing you can do.. Not for nothing both of you owe it to yourselves to make sure there's nothing more than just a night of fun. Do yourself a favor and be careful my man you never know what someone can have even if you know her personally.

 

[ezguide]

Thanks you two, I'll man up and talk to her tomorrow about it. I'll let y'all know how it goes, fingers crossed!

 

[bunnymunro]

Or, perhaps leave the state, change your name, get plastic surgery?

 

[Lustmord]

And get tested!

 

[dopemaster]

Id ask her if it was weighing on my mind and yeah its good to get tested. Getting tested was a weight off my back and honestly I think I may get tested with any girl I plan on dating seriously.

 

[Tude]

Quit fucking without a condom! Lol.

BUT SERIOUSLY.